Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

im hurting like hell.i just broke up with my 2yr live in partner that i loved withall my heart.id known him 10yrs.soul mate stuff.its ended very badly and wont be fixed.i accept that but how do i get over it?any tips big or small,greatly appreciated. love eh?

2007-07-23 09:19:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 09:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ANything. Ecpect like viabraters or anything like that. With your hands??? Mabey things around the house... idk anything

2007-07-23 09:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 09:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why or why not?

2007-07-23 09:16:55 · 21 answers · asked by amanda b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi there... I'm moving to India to marry someone there. I really love him and he's a great guy. I have some issues of past abuse and my fiance says I "think too much" and that I talk about "deep issues" too often...and I kind of agree with him. I feel weighted down by these things but I don't really know how normal couples behave with each other...what do you all talk about? Is it just everyday stuff all the time? How was your day? What did you do? That kind of thing? I'm always asking him how he feels and is he ok and all that stuff and I know that's silly. Also...I'm moving there to be with him so I tell him often how big a deal that is (he has never been out of the country before) - and I know I don't need to keep repeating this, but I feel like he doesn't understand what a huge cultural change it is and if he did understand then he wouldn't think I'm bad when I struggle with things...see what I mean? I worry too much. Advice? (Please be nice...no need to be mean).

2007-07-23 09:16:45 · 15 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been going out my bf for 4 yrs. and he likes the idea of me doing some other guy... and not juss some other guy.. but he's younger cousin... what am i suppose to think of this?

2007-07-23 09:14:38 · 21 answers · asked by some girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone know of some good cheap websites for invitations, decorations, pillow, and stuff in the cowboy theme? I have seen quite a few but was hoping maybe someone could come up with something I over looked. I have seen invitation by dawn and quite a few more but any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-07-23 09:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by Kristen H 1 in Weddings

ever since i got pregnant and my man would touch my breast i hated it b/c he was too rough and they where so sensiive so now after 8 months evr since my baby was born i hate when he even gets close to them i mean he'll touch them slowly and i would still hate him touching them (i wsant like that before my baby) (i dont breast feed) i just hate the fact that he touches them wether its soft or rough,why????
i also have no sex drive (im very atracted to him he is so cute) and im tired of it. i never intitial sex or love makeing he's always the one that does that and i want to be able to be the 1 that makes the move. what can i do so i can make the move when i have NO SEX DRIVE at all. (sex is nothing to me anymore) (we used to do it more than 2 times a day for over 3 years than when i got pregnant and had my baby its like i see no point of it) please tell me what can i do to get my sex drive going

2007-07-23 09:10:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1) Favorite physical feature?
2) Favorite character trait?
3) Favorite thing they do for you?
4) Favorite thing to do together?

2007-07-23 09:09:15 · 18 answers · asked by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 09:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by Hope Ray 1 in Singles & Dating

Preferably on a beach, or garden.
Any outdoor venue.
Any suggestions?

Thanks.

2007-07-23 09:06:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i have been going out with this girl for over 2 years and we've done a lot of things, but she has been frustrating me. i love her, though i've never told her, but with the attention i give her she should know and i have told her i care for her many times, i can't tell her i love her when she is not my girlfriend, though we've been dating as if we have, being intimate, going out, meeting her family, talking on the phone everyday, and her getting jealous at times,etc. i want to ask her to be my girlfriend,I know she will come up with her story of how busy she is, with school, work, and her two kids, but i've have been around them they love me, which feels very bad of her to let us get close if those are not her future intentions, or are some girls just like that? i found out through myspace that she is going to have a date, she is not my girlfriend but isn't it implied she is if we have been seeing each other for 2 years.

2007-07-23 09:05:30 · 2 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

the last 11 years with my ex-wife, and now going on 4 years single. I'm 53 and was married to that beach for 24 years. I really don't want to go through the dating crap, don't want to get remarried, don't want to be another step-dad. I don't go to bars anymore, can't handle booze. Is there anybody else in my situation ? don't want to pay for it. i'm not a bad looking guy..should i just give up ??.i've gone so long without it, it cracks me up when i read people can't go a week without it..lifes a beach, then you marry one..i'm not alone out there am I ??

2007-07-23 09:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by AINSLEY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 30 year old guy. Over the past year, I've gotten to know a cute, friendly 19 year old through mutual friends. One day, I was giving her a ride and she said: "we should really hang out sometime."

Since then, we've "hung out" twice. Our physical contact so far has been hugs and footsies (initiated by her). Recently, I asked her if she'd like to go to the beach with me. She said Yes.

While I enjoy her company, I'm wondering where this is all heading. Are we dating or are we friends? I want to respect our friendship, if that is what it is. Dating, of course, would be tricky, given the age difference, but I do like her. We seem to have little in common, but we get along very well.

What's happening? What would she see in me?

2007-07-23 09:03:12 · 32 answers · asked by Tom 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I love each other and know that we both want to spend our lives together but are at odds about when is the right time to get married. (We have everything together as far as financials, living situations, views on kids and holidays, etc.) He wants to get married before he deploys to Iraq and I don't know if I'm ready to make the jump just yet... I was thinking we should get married when he gets back, what do ya'll think?

2007-07-23 09:02:45 · 10 answers · asked by Arabella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my guy loves me so much and we have been together for two and half years but he has been asking for more than i am willing to give. I love him and want to give more but it is physically impossible. I mean I want what he wants but I dont want to catch anything form him and he refuse to use anything. please help.He still loves me,he just likes what he likes,i just do not roll like that.

2007-07-23 08:59:14 · 19 answers · asked by beth 1 in Singles & Dating

Every day my terrible wife makes soup. Everyday I say more salt in soup, more salt. But always needs more salt. Always. What is she can not listen to my way. More salt!

2007-07-23 08:58:24 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has girl friends with whom he likes to flirt through the internet, not a possibility for them to meet unless he flies out to see them.

Am i going crazy or just insecure?

2007-07-23 08:56:38 · 18 answers · asked by HEIDY 3 in Singles & Dating

Which color turns you on the most; purple, red, black? What bout patterns? Or lace? What is the sexiest and the best turn on for all you guys?

2007-07-23 08:52:56 · 16 answers · asked by Cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 08:52:37 · 9 answers · asked by GFAVA 1 in Weddings

I wanna show that I can get attention, but I dnt wanna look like a tart. How do I do without messing things up.

2007-07-23 08:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just asked a question about life insurance and being separated.Maybe I wasn't clear ok here is the deal this by no means any scams or inappropriate motives!!!! My mother who doesn't have much of an education at all was married to this creep of a pedifile,my stepfather.He tried to molest me when I was younger okay? just to give you an ideal of this person and my concerns for my mom.She was diagnosed with a brain tumor and will have to have this removed in which is a very difficult surgery and may not survive it! My concern is my brother told her that my stepfather has already life insurance on her and is planning to add additional insurance so he can cash in on her.I hate this person!! my question is if she can get divorced from him,is he still legally able to collect?

2007-07-23 08:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you cheat on someone, are extenuating circumstances relevant? Is any excuse good enough? Is it forgivable? No matter how bad you want to take something back you can't. But can you be forgiven, or can it be forgotten? Will it be found out?

2007-07-23 08:50:21 · 22 answers · asked by asaunders20042000 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for two years and need to know what I should do to keep my husband happy and our marriage going. We have one child and another one on the way so it is hard to do the "dating" things. He is 23 and I am 31. We are complete opposites he likes going out and I am a homebody. Any suggestions?

2007-07-23 08:49:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay here goes. No im not a dad. Im a teenager. but Im having serious problems with my dad. he seems to have gotten it in for me, because whatever happens to someone is always instantly blamed on me. and im usually the quiet child, always writing poetry or drawing or immensed in a book. i have no idea why this is happening, and ts really sad, because i really love my dad! has anyone got any suggestions?

2007-07-23 08:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by Elo 2 in Family

My boyfriend and i have been together for 5months, i'm 20, he's 26. I live with my parent still and my boyfriend lives an hour away so he comes to see me every thursday -sunday. His mother also lives about 5 miles from me since this is his hometown. He has been staying with me at my house overnight every time he comes down and recently my mother told me she doesn't want him staying over anymore because it looks shabby and it's against her beliefs..why does she wait until we're five months in our relationship to say anything?? After we're so much more close than at the beginnning of the relationship? and we're both well above 18, so i don't see what the problem is. She also loves him and gets along with him great!

2007-07-23 08:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-23 08:47:43 · 28 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce

In September 06 my husbund filed for divorce (it was a mutual decision) The divorce was to be final in Dec. however we decided to try to reconcille..... it didn't work. We now want to continue with the divorce, do we need to refile/repay?

2007-07-23 08:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to cheer camp in two days and at camp we have to decorate our door and have creative name tags to wear and it has to have a theme. Last year our theme was "under the sea" and we had name tags in the shape of sea animals. Any theme ideas and name tag ideas that go with the theme would be great!!

2007-07-23 08:40:41 · 1 answers · asked by Krista E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships