Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

How you would you react if you met someone and have had a great time with after a few dates told you they had herpes. They said they got it from a former girlfriend. He is taking Valtrex and sex wouldnt be an issue for now because we have both agreed to not have sex until we are married. We both have had sex in the past but have decided to change our ways. Knowing all of this hoe would you react???

2007-07-23 10:14:54 · 16 answers · asked by Holly M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone says feed him sweets in this insance, and it does make him smile, but it makes his waistline do something else completely different. I want to do something sweet for him- any ideas?

2007-07-23 10:13:38 · 14 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when peopl say "i am kinda in a pickle" what does pickles have to do with being in a jam? i can understand "jam" that makes sense but "pickle" any of your knowledge on this would be greatly appreciated!

2007-07-23 10:12:50 · 4 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Friends

2007-07-23 10:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old. By court order, I have to go to my dad's every other weekend and I stay with my mom through the week. For the past 3+ months, my dad has been drinking and I think he is taking illegal drugs. On friday july 6th of this year, my dad forced me to drive his straight-shift ford f150 pickup on a state road, and I don't have my learner's permit or lisence. I had no clue how to drive it and he was yelling at me to the top of his lungs and cursing every breath. I looked over and he was drinking a smirnoff. now, he is making me sell my horse because he doesn't want it on his 20-acre land. my horse was given to me by my uncle and if I sell my horse, I don't get the money.
3 years ago, my mom and dad went to court to get the current weekend visitations. Now that my dad is acting like this, i want my mom to get full custody of me.
What I want to know is if I really have to testify in court when we go back?

2007-07-23 10:11:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ..you know...is 11 inches long and it hurts my girlfriend everytime we do it...what can I do?

2007-07-23 10:06:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy like each other but im 13 and he is 17

2007-07-23 10:06:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for 8 years now & I'm completely miserable. We have a 7 year old daughter together & I feel like she's the glue in our relationship. We co-parent better than anyone I know & we are very consistant with that. He's very selfish, sexually, & has crossed boundaries a couple of times when I had a little too much to drink. We've been to counseling & that didn't seem to work. We've grown apart &, lately, I've thrown myself into my work. We fight about that all the time (never in front of our daughter). He doesn't care about how he looks anymore & we never go out anymore. He says he loves me & he want to be with me but I don't have the same feelings. I care very deeply about him, he's the father of my child. But as far as having those warm, fuzzy feelings, I don't. We were at a family dinner Sat night & he made a joke at my expense (it humilliated me) after he knew I had a horrible day. I feel so lost everyday & it's affecting me everyday. What should I do?

2007-07-23 10:05:32 · 48 answers · asked by Niksmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay.well i was at my frnds house and we went through her older sisters room..we found a condom wrapper and an unopend condom..we opend the condom and it looked rlly small..so then i rememberd how one of my frnds did a prank on her older sis..so i told my frnd for us to go to the bathroom and fill the condom up with water.turns out the condom was pretty huge..lol...we did and then we left it in her room!! we called her and told her "nice condoms" then her sis said "they aren't mine theyre stevens!" lol..it was hillarious..and we left the filled condom on her bed.lol..would u ever do that to ur older sister/ brother if you found condoms in your room?!?!?!..

2007-07-23 10:04:46 · 23 answers · asked by avery. 1 in Friends

I have been married for 2 years and my husband and I love each other very much. I have a job that requires I am social a few days of the week. This used to not bother him but recently he has become upset that I go out without him a few times a week. He has also become suspicious that I am doing something bad (ie. cheating on him). I am not cheating on him and I am making new friends and like having more to my life than just work and home. I love being with my husband too so I am confused why he is starting to be upset with me and sneak around looking into my phone at my txt msgs..I have nothing to hide. What do you think I should do? I ask what is wrong and he wont talk to me.

2007-07-23 10:03:30 · 15 answers · asked by crmnyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just need to consult with someone and make sure I am filling them out correctly. My county worker can't help me and I need to do this quickly, within the next week or so. I am simply trying to modify an existing court order for child support. Thanks

2007-07-23 10:02:49 · 2 answers · asked by Becanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been keeping contact, about every two weeks, with my ex. It is strictly platonic, I have no feelings for him, we usually just catch up on each others new relationships and work. Lately I've been feeling like I should end this contact for good. Is it wrong to communicate with your ex when you have a boyfriend that you love dearly and would not want to hurt for any reason?

2007-07-23 10:00:47 · 19 answers · asked by Sleepdeprivd 2 in Singles & Dating

It was so high schoolish because her friend is not one of my favorite people and they are thick as thieves. Not a holiday passes without her in attendance.They both snapped at me all day, I was unable to leave the area so I just sat quietly untill my ride came. After the other woman left I told my mother in law how crappy I thought they both were to me and she proceeded to kiss my rear. Now my feelings are just plain hurt and I help my mother in law financially which I plan to cut her off pronto. My hubby's mad at her for disrespecting me and told her so and there's a big ruckus started. I feel bad. Any suggestions to end this mess would be much appreciated. In the mean time I'm mad at myself for not standing up and walking home!! Thanks for listening.

2007-07-23 09:59:51 · 12 answers · asked by jacquie 6 in Family

I am a 32 year old college educated mother of two. THis may sound bizzare but I had to ask. I think I'm pretty damn with it and I just wondered how many people can honestly say they HAVE cheated on a spouse or bf or loved one? I am reading all these questions and everyone seems so damn self righteous and swears they would never cheat when I bet half of them are lying their asses off.... So is anyone going to tell the truth? And God Bless all of you who really are telling the truth.

2007-07-23 09:59:50 · 17 answers · asked by SicilianMomma 2 in Singles & Dating

I have found condoms in my husbands bag on two different occasions. Once when I was pregnant and he went away on a trip, he came back and I was putting his bag away and I found it in a small pocket inside. He said he honestly did not know where it came from and his bag had been sitting out at work alot. He is in the military and he does work with alot of very young jerks who are against marriage and such..so I believed it. I was pregnant during this time too so it was almost an obvious thing for me and I asked. The second time around I found a handful of them in his bag and I was also pregnant. He said since we were not having sex, he was using them to "pleasure himself" so there would be no mess?? I almost had to believe it because of the fact he was never gone..he was always with me (due to having sugery and being off work) except for when we were asleep and I knew he was on the computer...hence the times he was using the condoms....He didn't tell me cause I'd freak. Is this nieve?

2007-07-23 09:58:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have been dealing only weed (to my knowledge) from my house. I am 20 now, and have very little money since my parents have stolen the bulk of my money. Is there any way for me to get the police involved while protecting myself and being able to keep my home? I live in Ontario Canada. Any information or advice is very much appreciated. If there are any more questions, please refer back and I will add more details later.

Thank you VERY much

2007-07-23 09:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by mike m 1 in Family

perspective "that" is a sign that I trust him. He said, if I'm giving him this he'll take it, but he also mentioned that this is my private space, am I sure? I replied "of course, It is not like u're going to come in and barge in all thetime. I trust you". We haven't talked for two days, although it is normal behavior. But I'm now in doubts whether I made the right move. I certainly don't want to freak him out, that's the least of my intention. I want nothing back in return. So, wondering on what your opinion is.
hopefully you guys can give me good insight.

2007-07-23 09:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by cnfused 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I moved in with my bf about 4 months ago after being in a long distance relationship for over a year. In the past we'd spend an entire day in bed and he was so attentive to my needs. Now things have drastically changed. There's very little foreplay and just as much after play (cuddling, carressing, laughing, talking). I realize we both have felt stressed at times since moving in together yet I still want to have sex. The romance is down the tubes as well. Our anniversary was like any other day. This problem is really getting to me. I'm not a crybaby yet I've cried a few times over this. I feel hurt, rejected and undesirable. I want things to change. Any good advice out there?

Serious, mature answers please. Thanks.

2007-07-23 09:55:42 · 25 answers · asked by Soleil 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is getting married next month. Her future mother in law will not be able to dance with her son, due to a disability. My daughter however, wants to have the father/daughter dance with her dad. Any ideas on how to honor the mother/son without dancing? I don't want them to feel left out....but I don't want my daughter to miss the dance with her dad! Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!!!

2007-07-23 09:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Weddings

If your original languaje wouldn`t be English or Spanish

Which one do you think is the most hardest to leard

2007-07-23 09:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mates girlfriend has been cheating on him what could i do to cheer him up

2007-07-23 09:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As one who is VERY fond of girls, I have to say that I prefer a bit to the imagination when it comes to swimsuits and lingerie.

For instance, I prefer to wear tight low cut boyshort bottoms to the beach (with a slight camel toe) as opposed to a string bikini or thong. It's not because I'm embarrassed...I'm not, I go nude where I can.

I just prefer the look of the sexy shape without so much skin. It makes my imagination go WILD! I try to emulate what I like to see in other girls...

You?

2007-07-23 09:50:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 09:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can i tell him to back off without being rude about it?

2007-07-23 09:50:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is nearly 16 yrs and used to be into barbies and china dolls. Now she dresses all in black, listens to my chemical romance and has some VERY strange friends!! Me and my wife are really worried that she is going to start using drugs and start dating unsuitable types. What should we do??

2007-07-23 09:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by james2167uk 3 in Family

I have a little crush on a man that works right across the street from where I live. I think of him as distinguished. I know that he has a Yahoo email account. I know that when he speaks he makes me forget everything. No, it's not obsession it's just infatuation...ooooo. I love to see him smile. I love to watch him do his job. Perhaps he is you, and your not looking hard enough. Perhaps you talk to me every other day. Perhaps you have dark hair. And just perhaps I'm digging myself a hole too big to explain my way out of. I don't want there to be uncomfortable moments between us, just cuz you know I have a little crush on you.

2007-07-23 09:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by geisha8sushi 1 in Friends

Would you look your longtime girlfriend in the eyes and tell her your not cheating when in fact you are?

2007-07-23 09:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 09:48:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found back one of my friend when i was living oversea ...we never had anything betwen us.now i am married .... and he comes for work or to see his daugher in the city where i am living. and we would like to see each other after 5 years .i would like to tell my husband if he would like to meet him with me but knowing how my huby is ,so jalouse .he will say no or maybe he will say yes but gonna have an attitude the whole time we all be 2gether. so my friend is coming to bring back his daugther pretty soon and ..i think for that week my husband will be out of town i not sure.so i was wondering should i meet my friend without telling my husband? but then i would like to feel free to tell my husband ,cuz the guy is just a friend nothing else and he knows i love my huby and my kids. now i dont know what i should do. do you think if i dont tell my husband its like i am cheating on him.... i am not the type that likes to do things secretly. if there is nothing wrong why not tell.

2007-07-23 09:47:57 · 24 answers · asked by carmel d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 09:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating