Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

Tell me what you think:
Yesterday my husband went to the gym to play basketball, which he normally does every now and then. The problem is he was there for 4 hours. Now I used to play ball myself in high school and a little in college, there is no way to play for 4 hours. I have just distanced myself from him. I haven't brought it up but he keeps asking me," are you mad at me, is it because I was at the gym so long?" It's like he knows I am upset but he won't give me an explanation to why he thinks I am mad. As I said I have just distanced myself from him, not really talking to him because I do not want to engage in confrontation just yet. I really just don't want to deal with him or the issue right now, too much else going on, school, work, the kids. Also before he went to the gym we had sex and he seemed like he wasn't really there. So am I trippin or does it sound like he was not really playin ball at the gym.

2007-07-23 12:18:09 · 66 answers · asked by boopsy0 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and about 5 months ago he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he has never done before but it never bothered me cause he satifies me when we make love although i wondered thru the yrs what it was like..Well like i said this was 5 months ago but he has yet to do it and for a few months after making love i would ask him why he didnt do and he would either say "i will" or "im going to" or "next time"..When he first brought this up he said he had been thinking about it and wanting to do it for awhile but didnt know how i would feel about it and thought it would be something i would like..Although i didnt bring the subject up i am a little disappoined and feel let down that he said he wanted to do this and then not do cause like i said i have wondered thru the yrs what it was like..I have always given him oral and i love doing that..

2007-07-23 12:14:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I see my girlfriend about once every 3 mo. and every time w/o fail I get a hickey.

2007-07-23 12:14:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they don't want to put any work in there marriage and bail out for the next available person? Do they live happily ever after? She loved me up to leaving me and acts like its no big deal! 16 years and kids it is a big deal

2007-07-23 12:13:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 12:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anna Rexia 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 12:11:06 · 21 answers · asked by Cat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 12:08:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 40 female. I have 2 teen kids growing up and growing out of hang'n with mom. My husband works a lot and I'm lonely. Sounds pathetic, huh? The few friends I have live out of state and the state where I live, nobody seems to stay long. As soon as you get a friend, they move away. I don't know where to look besides church (which, I'm sorry) but I really don't go to church often. And I'm worried about meeting people on the internet with all of the stories you hear about.

2007-07-23 12:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by kristeen 1 in Friends

Okay i met my friend four years ago.. and we always went over and over the subject of how far out friendship could go.. then a year into it i just remained quiet about the whole subject and never said a word.. our friendship went on i went to his church and became a born again christian.. i loved him with everthing in me.. that was not occupied with God.. bout six months ago our friendship ended on an extreemly sour note.. then last night i found out that he had been in love with me.. and just never told me.. i got angry when i found out that he had lied to me.. and left a not so nice voicemail.. i really want to fix the friendship.. with no secrets and no lies.. what do i do or say to fix everything that went wrong..

2007-07-23 12:05:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been wrong before, but since I've been married it seems I've never been right.

2007-07-23 12:05:08 · 25 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My 14 year old son wants to legally change his name from Karl to "Cash-Money God". I don't understand the meaning behind it, we are well off but still. I understand why, I changed my name a few years ago to Super-King but thats awesome and bada s s. Should I let him do as he wants?

2007-07-23 12:04:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought I would keep my question clean, but you know what I mean....

You know you were probably the best partner they ever had, and yeah you left them because they did not value you for what you are worth.

Would they ever admit it to anyone living LOL?!?!?!?

Men and women welcome, although my question pertains to a man admitting this.

2007-07-23 12:04:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IS WORRY

2007-07-23 12:04:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im getting married in 2months and i have this new job and i was just wondering should i invite my co-workers or no. they seem pretty cool..

2007-07-23 12:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by sara 2 in Weddings

17, so nothin too bigg
been going out for a month
really really like her
i know she likes me quite a bit .

what should i get her ?

2007-07-23 12:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

my boss and i like each other and wanna be with each other is it approiate she is 39 and i am 20

2007-07-23 12:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"lets pretend to date, and see what people say" Now, does she like me? She was my best friends girlfriend for about 8 months. he cheated on her, but we are still good friends. they don't talk at all. whats going on? please help.

2007-07-23 11:59:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tired og playing guys and in the end hurting there feeling i want to change my life for the better. Whats the first steps i must take?

2007-07-23 11:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 11:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 kids, a boy 14 and a girl 12, both good kids. My girl made a mistake, nothing serious but I thought she deserved a small lesson. I'm doing research for a course I'm taking, so I selected some texts in several books to type them. I told her to do this. It'd take her about 3 hours, working slowly. No fun for a summer afternoon, but nothing harsh either. I left and when I came back, 90 min later, it was ready. Since I got amazed she'd finished so fast, she confessed my son helped her. He's good at comps and used our scanner (thing my girl can't use) to make things easier. She said she didn't ask for his help, it was his idea. He conffirmed, said he felt sorry for her and decided to give her a hand. He apologized, said maybe he didn't do the right thing, but said, "Well, siblings should help each other right? And now, mom, you have your work done, without typos and even with the pictures." Frankly I got embarraessed, I love heir friendship, but my girl didn't have her lesson.

2007-07-23 11:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family

I need serious help my boyfriends birthday is coming up and I have no clue SERIOUSLY if he need something he just goes out and buys it ----Hes not into sports!! Doesnt like to wear Jewerly and defintly does need tools!!!! Its a week away and im starting to freak out even when I asked him for suggestions he didnt have clue!!!!! please any and all suggestions will be appreciated!!!!!!!

2007-07-23 11:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by MommaDyell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiancee and i want to get married... but my parents dont want me to, i'm 23 and my mom says im too young... i dont know if i;m being immature or maybe she's acting like that because my mom and my dad got divorced... i dont know what to do, i dont want my fiancee to feel bad that my parents dont want me to marry him... am i really too young? i'm graduating this october and we were planning to get married next year... any advice... thank youuu

2007-07-23 11:50:31 · 22 answers · asked by ButtErFlY 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad wants me to play basketball. But I don't because he calls me useless. He also wants to be my manager and spend big money. But because he calls me useless, I don't wanna play basketball. I wanna play soccer. What should I do?

2007-07-23 11:50:02 · 21 answers · asked by banksandmyself 1 in Family

why does jonny have a boob fetish??

2007-07-23 11:47:41 · 2 answers · asked by kakeonastik39 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married 7 years. Lots of trust issue. 2 children. Love is there, he is a sex addict. It has turned me off so much that sex is almost non existant to me anymore. He walks,talks, breathes sex. He has issues with anger,porn,denial, fondling himself and myself,it seems as if everything is about sex. He seems dirty to me. I hate myself for thinking that about my own husband and father of my kids. I feel as if we would have a good marriage if he would contribute. He says he does,but he can only back it up with financially. I must say he is a great father to our children, but could stand to help out a tad more. I try to tell him I do love him and explain to him what's going on, he blows me off by saying "yeah right". He has messed up several times and I have major trust issues because of this. He plays the victim by saying "well, it hurts that you don't trust me"..and then blows up when I explain why. What's wrong? He seems manipulative. He turns everything around on me. I'm sick of it!

2007-07-23 11:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am an older male, and apparently my defintion of cheating is old fashioned, and outdated. Is flirting, cheating? Meeting people of the opposite sex after work? I have loved two women in my life, and both of them cheated on me. One was clear cut...she ran off with another guy. The other has flirted all day at work, met the guy after work...then says, "NO! that;s not cheating...we didn't do anything". Am I just too old fashioned? If you will, give me YOUR definition of cheating, and your age. Thanks!

2007-07-23 11:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this guy that I'm in a musical with, and yes I'm sure he's not gay. I think that he might like me but I'm not sure. We have a lot of inside jokes that have to do with the show and we like talking with each other. During rehearsals I will see him looking over at me and then he'll quickly look away. More recently, he will come over and sit by me when we have breaks. He doesn't behave this way with too many other cast members. He's really nice and friendly. Is it possible that he likes me or is it just him being friendly?

2007-07-23 11:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by Bella Good 3 in Singles & Dating

Parents, 40th, Anniversasry, Poems, Love, Child,

2007-07-23 11:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't think we will get a divorce, because we have decided to stay together for the sake of our son. I still love him but also hate him at the same time. Is possible to just live together?

2007-07-23 11:38:21 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean I love him. Life is not worth living without him. I can actually visualize us getting married and living happily ever after. Sure, I've had crushes before. But, I felt that those relationships would not work out and they did not. I feel this one will. Our personalities match so well. And really like him a lot and love him. I even worry about him to much...that's when I knew it was pure and simple love.

Help? Advice please...

2007-07-23 11:35:54 · 29 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating