If a Man says something but a Woman isn't around to hear it, is he still wrong?

Question

I've been wrong before, but since I've been married it seems I've never been right.

Answer 1

sorry to tell you but your always in the wrong ... no matter even if your right ..your wrong .... your a male and all males are wrong ... all the time and I know plenty of other males besides me who will tell you the same thing ... and they were all told this by their wives .... so it must be true

Answer 2

Sorry to hear your plight. You sound as though you are becoming bitter. Have you ever considered asking your spouse to justify her contention that you are wrong. Is it just her opinion or does she have facts and figures and other sources to back up her rebuttals...Sometimes one spouse or the other will try to strong arm if they feel they don't have an even playing field in the marriage. Look at your responses to her and see if you two are in some kind of power struggle to be the top dog. If there is a power struggle then check it out and see how interested you might be in being a team on the same level. Might take some work...will really need lots of communication and patience and understanding and love, love, love...Good Luck Kiddo hope the best for both of you.

Answer 3

He most certainly is. I've only been married for a little over 2 months but one of the first lessons that I learned as a male was it's no use arguing whether right or wrong. That way there will be peace in the valley and not doom or gloom. Ha!

Answer 4

You really need to consider what is going on in your marriage. If you feel that you are never "right", etc etc. then you have to ask why? Couples fall into habits sometimes where one partner dominates another partner. Its not healthy. Try to find someone you trust with whom you can talk about this.

A marriage is a relationship that has to be maintained. Too often people take marriage for granted, thinking that once they are married that they no longer have to work at their relationship with the other partner. This is false. Keeping the love alive in a marriage is hard work.

If you loved eachother enough to get married then you both owe it to yourselves to keep the relationship alive whatever it takes.

Answer 5

Yes he is wrong. First off, why say it if the Woman isn't around to hear it? It would mean he's talking to himself and that's JUST WRONG! Get used to it, bud. Marriage means you will never be right. The last right thing you did was marry her.

Answer 6

hmmm, I think this is the same as if a tree falls in the forest and there is no one to hear it, does it make a sound?

I think that if you are letting stuff fester inside of you then yes it is wrong. You need to be totally honest about the way you feel. Not running off and saying something totally obnoxious.

Answer 7

That's just some women. I'm stubborn, but I know that I'm not right all the time (well most of the time I'm the one whos wrong), so it just depends on the type of woman you married.

Good luck getting a compromise out of that one.

Answer 8

Are you so shocked to accept the possibility that a man might be wrong about something? =P

Look at the bright side - if you keep up the misoygnist whining, you probably won't be married for long.

Answer 9

If u don't have enough guts 2 say it 2 her face, then y say it.

Wouldn't u want 2 be able 2 defend urslef if some1 said something about u?

What's good 4 the goose, is good 4 the gander.

Answer 10

Awww.... If a man says something and the woman isn't around to hear it, he didn't say it...so by default he's wrong. (lol)