Why do must marriage end in divorce?

Answer 1

People change or go into it with miscommunication causing false or too high an expectation of the other person. Each will consider themselves to have got the better bargain but its often a big let down to realise that any great deal has a downside. But over time any negative , with changing cicumtances can/wil, often become a positive again. It often takes too much sacrifce for a self respecting person in a narcissistic world to allow time for this to develope. They are busy people with directions to follow.
I'd always advise pre marriage Counselling.to help reduce these probabilities

Answer 2

Half of all marriages end in divorce, not most. The reason I think those half end in divorce is people people today don't cherish the idea of marriage, the way they did years ago. Now adays people decide that if they're not happy, rather than work it out they can get divorced and start over. Plus the statistics are actually higher than they are because a lot of that comes from serial divorcees who get married and divorced numerous times.

Answer 3

Because when people fall in love they are in the "I'm obsessed over you" stage and that doesn't show each other partners their true character, then they get married and realize that the obsessive stage is gone and they don't know what to do. Our society today wants everything easy, fast and now. Marriages take alot of hard work that most people today just don't want to put any effort into them. Without effort the marriage will most likely fail and end in divorce. Also, there are alot of external influences in society that affect the success of a marriage and sometimes people just can't handle the pressures of those influences.

Answer 4

I assume you mean why do MOST marriages end in divorce...my opinion is that some people think of divorce as an easy out if things don't go the way they want it to. I also think that some people don't take their promise of marriage and commitment that they make in front of family, friends and God (in most cases) as a serious commitment. Divorce is considered usual and normal any more, so the promises made when getting married aren't as "real" as they should be.

It isn't easy to stay with someone forever. It takes work and commitment. It is hard to live with anyone forever,even if you love them with all your heart. You both have to be committed to the relationship to make it work.

Answer 5

Marriage does not have to end in divorce. A lot of people think that its the only answer but in a lot of cases you can save a marriage by hard work, going to therapy and love. Divorce is not the only choice.

Answer 6

Just U, what I think your trying to say is "most rather than must". Although it appears as if most do end that way the fact of live is that it is about 50%. This is still a really high number of failed marriages. Myself I tend to believe that because of the disposable society in which we live many people would rather dispose of the relationship then try and work through things when they get tough. But also again my personal opinion is that it is these tough times that make for stronger relationships and if people would see themselves through the rough times then things would improve and they'd get to know their partners and themselves better.

Answer 7

People don't realize what work marriage requires. Often they are initially attracted by shallow things such as looks, sex, etc. A marriage is much bigger than all of that. It takes work to live permanently with someone else and people are to quick to leave. When you get married, you have made a commitment. You need to keep your commitments except in extreme cases. Abuse,cheating (which is forgivable if they are really truly sorry & have learned from their mistake) etc....

Answer 8

There are way too many reasons marriages end in divorce.

Too young to marry. Didn't get to know the person good enough before they married. Financial; Communication; Commitment; Cheating; Abuse; Having Children Too Soon; etc. etc.

Answer 9

I think the main reason is personality conflict. And lack of compromise as well.
Marriage is like a new era of a relationship, the time you enter into, it looses all its attraction.
And you can choose to get out of it too easily.
People don't like to miss all the opportunities in life by just being faithful to only one person.

Answer 10

Many poeple get devorced because they think they found the right person but then they realize that the person they are with is not the person who they really want to be with. Sometimes is because they end up having their girlfriends pregnant and they need to take care of their baby but they don't really want this person to be their wife. Then it gets to the point where they just can't live together and they get a devorce.