im getting married in 2months and i have this new job and i was just wondering should i invite my co-workers or no. they seem pretty cool..
2007-07-23 12:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by sara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sounds to me like you like them, so yes, invite them. It is YOUR day, you do whatever makes you happy!!!
2007-07-23 12:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. The more people you invite the more expensive it will be and it might be a little odd to get a wedding invitation to someone you have only known for a few weeks.
No offense to them but you also don't know them well enough to know how they will behave with some alcohol in them or something...the last thing you want on wedding day is some drunk co-worker flashing your grandpa.
2007-07-23 20:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one, because you don't want to seem like a snob if you don't invite them, but you also don't want it to seem weird since you don't know them very well. Also, you don't want them thinking you are just wanting more gifts.
Depending on the number of people we are talking about, I would either post an invite on the office bulletin board & leave it at that (for a large office), or just ask them individually & say, "Just wanted to let everyone know that I am getting married on Sept 1, and you guys are welcome to come; we'd love to have you. Please don't feel under any obligation though!". (for a small office)
After that, drop it. That will let them know that you are pretty laid back about whether or not they come. If they ask about a registry, tell them, but be gracious!
2007-07-23 21:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by valschmal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have developed a relationship with these people then certainly an invitation would be appropriate Sara. And if you believe that you will remain in that work environment for a long time it seems like the proper thing to do.
2007-07-23 19:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could informally invite them, but I wouldn't worry about it too much. They won't think anything of it. Plus you don't want to make them feel obligated to go and than have to feel like you need to entertain them because they don't know anyone. I would say no. I know i didn't :)
2007-07-23 19:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Pennstate98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to invite them. but if money is not a problem and you are close enough with them and you want them to share your big day, go ahead. but remember weddings are suppose to be celebrated with friends and family, so if you consider them friends then I think it should be fine.
2007-07-23 19:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ethan's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it, then sure! Since you just started working there, they will absolutely understand if they are not invited.
2007-07-23 19:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by LoLo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could casually mention it and see if they seem interested, then invite them.
2007-07-23 19:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by traceylenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have room for them (financially speaking) - sure, why not.
2007-07-23 19:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessary
2007-07-23 19:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋