my boss and i like each other and wanna be with each other is it approiate she is 39 and i am 20
2007-07-23 12:00:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hugely inappropriate and unprofessional. You should never date at work, much less your boss - if anything goes wrong in the relationship, you could lose your job. It would be a very difficult sexual harassment case, since you approved the sexual advances, but were fired for non-work-related reasons.
It's also inappropriate because she is old enough to be your mother, and the considerable age difference means you probably don't have a lot in common besides your hormones.
If you really want to be with her that badly, quit your job before you pursue this any further, and don't say you weren't warned of disaster.
2007-07-23 12:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not appropriate at all. The two of you are both leaving yourselves open for a very uncomfortable situation and that is if the eventual break up is amicable, at worst you could be dragging each other through the courts for months or even years to come. Not a good idea buddy, don't do it.
2007-07-23 12:04:02 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dan I'd suggest that the difference in maturity must be pretty great. That and your and her friends would probably not be that comfortable hanging around people with this age difference, let alone that she is your superior. In addition if and when things start going south where does that you leave, possibly on the unemployment line.
2007-07-23 12:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, I think you're being taken for a ride.
No pun intended, actually.
End this and get a new job. She is messing you over big time, and there is just no way you're going to benefit from this situation. If you don't, you will find out too late that she is a selfish, selfish woman. There's nothing in this for you.
2007-07-23 12:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you only live once. Get some experience and who better than a woman of 39, she'll be able to teach you a few things!!
Don't expect it to last though and have fun!!
2007-07-23 12:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by jojo5050 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age is not the problem,the problem is when it all comes to an end which there is a good chance it will, you may lose your girlfriend and your job ,be careful.
2007-07-23 12:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Wize Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not a good idea to get invovled with the boss, no matter the age.
2007-07-23 12:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it all depends on the policy that your company has.
i'm dating not my boss but an md so its kind of the same ( b/c he tells me what to do )
and its not a big deal.
and the age difference between she and you, well thats ya'lls bussiness, so if ya'll want to date i would go for it.
2007-07-23 12:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
2007-07-23 12:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION I THINK U SHOULD NEVER MIX BUSINESS WITH PLEASURE AND U R TOO YOUNG TO BE THINKING OF A LADY TWICE UR AGE, GO OUT WITH UR FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN WHILE U R STILL A YOUNG MAN!
2007-07-23 12:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by mildredsassy56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋