So there is this guy that I'm in a musical with, and yes I'm sure he's not gay. I think that he might like me but I'm not sure. We have a lot of inside jokes that have to do with the show and we like talking with each other. During rehearsals I will see him looking over at me and then he'll quickly look away. More recently, he will come over and sit by me when we have breaks. He doesn't behave this way with too many other cast members. He's really nice and friendly. Is it possible that he likes me or is it just him being friendly?
2007-07-23 11:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by Bella Good 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is both. Going by your description, he clearly likes you. He is being friendly yet it has a particular focus on you. Well done. I have followed this for a while now.
Now is the time to further nurture the "friendship". He is clearly interested in you and, as another said, is trying to figure things out for himself. Maybe it is time to find out for sure.
Not being in the situation it is hard to tell, but it is possible that you might be ready to ask him if he feels a connection between the two of you. Something like "Is it just me or do I feel really good/happy/energised when I am around you?" - Substitute what ever word you think best explains yourself honestly. It is subtle yet the message is clear. You might say it is a politically correct way of asking "Do you like me?"
It also doesn't put him on the line to answer the question fearing he could upset things if he puts a wrong word in. It gives him room to move. All too often, an interested partner will ask a forward question which only results in knocking the other off balance. They answer in the negative only as a means to avoid the question and everything goes pear-shaped from there. Avoid direct questions until there is solid ground between the two of you.
After all, you are both still feeling your way.
2007-07-24 19:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by labrug 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he does the look and then looks away then I would say he does. It sounds like you like him though and if you think he likes you ( only you know the way he looks at you) then just suggest going out after rehearsals casually; like to the cinema or for something to eat. Then you will see if he likes you or not because if he acts all awkward then he does but if he's chilled out then he's being friendly. Hope that helps!
2007-07-23 18:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he does but if you feel comfortable you should ask him yourself.or you can hang out to see what feeling or vibe you start to get between the two of you trust me you will start to know how he feels.But just go ahead and ask if you if you like or if you are shy get his e-mail and ask or get his number and ask if you can't say it to his face
2007-07-23 19:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chantel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to know if he likes you.
You want to know how to get him. >:D
Here's how you do it: touch him. Hold his hand, hug him, rest your head on his shoulder, whatever. Just touch him. And when he touches you back, reward him by touching him more, giggling, cooing, or something like that. You'll get where you want to be soon enough.
2007-07-23 18:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you.
He's trying to figure out how much.
2007-07-23 19:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, if he says no, he's gay.
2007-07-23 18:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by timothy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he likes you or may be he is just being friendly...
2007-07-23 18:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by bjm_116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probaly does
2007-07-23 18:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by Terrell J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's gay, then he doesn't like you. simple as that. if he isn't gay, then he might like you.
2007-07-23 18:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋