Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

2007-07-23 02:23:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Has anybody ever felt as though they're making a huge mistake, by continuing to be married just for the kids sake really? That's how i'm beginning to feel lately, when he's home at the weekends, we seem to pi$$ each other off, and usually end up rowing, usually over something really stupid. This weekend was horrendous, now i'm beginning to think is it fair on anyone. We have discussed separating, but the house is in joint names, and wer'e both refusing to budge, so the viciuos circle just goes on and on..........

2007-07-23 02:23:12 · 52 answers · asked by kelly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 2 year old and she does not belong to my husband biologically. He cheated on me and moved out for about 6 months, I had a sexual ralationship with another man and got pregnant. My husband has known the whole time. I found out I was pregnant before he moved back in and he still wanted to get back together. He treats her just like our other daughter. He doesn't seem bothered by the fact. I have not hidden anything from him. Recently I got a call from the man who is her biological father. He wants to know her and be in her life. He is not worth a dime. He is in and out of jail lately and on drugs. He is married now too and I have heard that he hits his wife. She has children from a previous relationship the I have heard he is really hard on. I told my husband and he wants to leave things as they are. He does not want this other man involved in our lives at all. I don't either really. She is not missing anything. She is well taken care of. What would you do? What are our rights?

2007-07-23 02:22:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 02:21:06 · 17 answers · asked by LOLIT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she goes to bed pretty early, I hate going to bed early and I don't need that much sleep.

2007-07-23 02:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by goldenboy1227 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not at all into sex and am a virgin and plan to stay this way. Why do men give up and look somewhere else when they say they care about me. If you loved someone you would at least remain friends with them, right.? You wouldn't give up just because they don't want sex. You would at least if you cared about them remain their friend. And why are men so abrupt in trying to get what they want? Why are they so aggressive when I tell them I am not into sex. I just want love and companionship from a man. Not sure if sex goes in the equation, But it has NEVER felt right. I get lonely for a man's company and protection. I feel I did not have this much from my father. Am I normal?

2007-07-23 02:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

apart from praying....(I do a lot) ...to try and help them!
What else can an everyday person do to help?

No nasty answers from anyone or i wil tell you to F*****F!
Only straight to the point answers from anyone!
will i accept today! : (
I am not too well at the moment ....I have a family to think about!
They are my world! : )
And i do not take kindly to any undeserved insults from anyone!

Any nice/helpful suggestions welcome...please! x

2007-07-23 02:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by *~☺~* 4 in Friends

my father died when i was little and i have no other family and i am getting married next year but it will be at a regestry office so what i am asking is...do i have to be given away and any advice as to whom,,,like can i have a female mate to do this or does it have to be a male...

2007-07-23 02:08:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-23 02:03:58 · 6 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone online even though you've never actually met them??

2007-07-23 02:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got married to a wonderful man that I dated fo 5 years. We took a break around the 4th year and I started to date someone else for about 3 months or so (my moms neighbor). The new guy and I ended up breaking up over unknown reasons (a stupid fight one night). And we havent talked since. I ended up getting back with my now husband and we have been happily married ever since. My problem is that I sometimes (a few times a week) think of this ex. What should i do to help these unresolved issues. I love my husband with all my heart and would never want to be with anyone else. I just dont know why i think of my ex. Any suggestions?

2007-07-23 01:50:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it is seen that, once your in love with some one..after some time the boy especially loose interest in the gal and become much more practical....its only because the gal shows how much she love the guy....so is that is enough to conclude that...the gal should not show love towards her guy to greater extent or limited extend...so that the guy's interest will stick to her?

2007-07-23 01:42:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 01:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-23 01:36:19 · 22 answers · asked by whereRyou? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i met this girl when i went to alabama an i stayed there for a month, over that time i spent every moment i possibly could with her. I fell in love with her an she didnt tell me till right b4 i left that she kinda let herself fall for me. I really want to be with this girl but a long distance realtionship wouldnt work, what do i do???

2007-07-23 01:30:20 · 1 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 and his best friend raped me......and i dont know if i should tell my boyfriend. should i? my mom and dad died in a car crash about a year ago and ever since then i lived with my grandmother and i dont think she could handle it if i told her and he told me if i went to the cops he would ruin the rest of my life and never leave me alone and i know if i do report it and he goes to jail he would probly get out in a few years rite? and im scared wat should i do???? please help me

2007-07-23 01:24:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wife & I have been married for 22 years. We were childhood sweethearts, neither of us have been with another person.
My wife never performs oral sex on me, even though she enjoys it when I do it to her. I'm not mad at her. She did try, but gagged as soon as she licked it once (I cleaned myself, she even helped me get clean). She just can't bring herself to do it. I really would like to know how it feels.
We are going to Vegas next month for a vacation. I would like to hire a hooker to perform oral on me. I won't touch her, she doesn't even have to get undressed, and I wouldn't mind if my wife was present to witness it.
How would she react if I brought the subject up, or should I just leave it alone?

2007-07-23 01:19:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if someone is smiling with u how to find out that wheter that smile is really he making or force fully he is smiling towards u

2007-07-23 01:10:16 · 17 answers · asked by gvijayanandg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 00:58:41 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-23 00:42:52 · 23 answers · asked by alfha_29 1 in Singles & Dating

In my family sex is almost a taboo. My parents have never talked to me about girls, sex, dating etc. Is it normal?

2007-07-23 00:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really in love with her. Although I'm 33 I look and feel younger. I really like this girl, it's not about sex, I wouldn't even think of having sex with her until she reaches 18 , 19 or when ever she is ready.

We look forward to hanging out together, her parents and my parents are really good friends.

Last weekend we had a family and friends gathering. I completely ignored her because I don't want others to think I am interested in her. I think she felt like I ignored her, she wanted to hang with me but I refused. She was very cold to me saying good bye.

Usually we hang out and talk and laugh. I love her so much but society is sick and always thinks the worst. I am not a pervert, I really care for her.

I feel that if I don't tell her how I feel I will loose her. If I keep ignoring her everytime I see her.

Should I tell her that I love her? Maybe she does not feel the same about me but I really need to know. Please help. Should I care what others think?

2007-07-23 00:36:44 · 7 answers · asked by yikes_its_me 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-23 00:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by satheeshkt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is continued from should i meet up with himand should I go etc see my questions. Any way I met up with my ex on friday and I feel like such a fool. He invited me out to come with him and a female friend he used to work with. Whan we got there he spent most of the time ignoring me so i went to the loo ad luckily i saw a female frind of mine and proceeded to hang with her and her mates till he came over. His female friend then decided to invite ger self out with us as we were leaving and he did not refuse, she was flirty and all over him when we got to the other pub we all went to. His work mates who we met were very nice to me and said that he must like me cos he never comes out with them and they have never seen him bring a gal. Any way the female frind of his then felt the need to say rather loudly in my presence is that gal you fancy going to be there which i think was for my benefit and he did

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27 minutes ago
he didnt even think it was wrong

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later on my ex and i went to a club and it was all fine but he was being quite cold to me and when he walked me home i told him i wanted him to go cos he had been funny with me and that i never knew he liked this other gal. Last nite i spoke to him and he was relly cold to me and said this gal he liked had come back from uni and he fancies her i then in tears said call her and he kept saying get off my fone then i will call her and maybe i will go c her, he kept saying get a life and that he would call her i was crying yet he was being so hurtful he hasnt answered my calls or txts and i just feel like i am worthless and cant measure up to this gal although i dont knowe her but hes called me her name before which hurts. I do love him and he knows this

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PLEASE HELP ME WHATS HOULD I DO HE WONT TALK TO ME EVEN THOGH HE HEARD ME CRYING!

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He is being so cold he wont answer my calls or txts and I am sure with this gal he says he likes he does all that i ever pleaded with him to do to me like call me, txt me spend time with me, he said he didnt want sex but now i think maybe he just didnt want it with me. I feel like such a fool

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I thoght he genuinely wanted me to come out with him when he invited me but he said he did it cos i said he never invited me anywhere

2007-07-23 00:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She recently broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after 2years. On Saturday night she rang me up about 2am in morning as she was afraid of being home alone so I went around a comforted her, (had sex). Sunday night I went around her house and watched TV for about 1 1/2hrs with her and she invited me over for dinner tonight. Well anyway about 1hr before I was due to go over she TXTed me saying" she is not cooking tonight and does not want to see me". I had already brought some chocolates for her and hired a movie for us to watch so I drove over there and she didn't answer door only yelling for me to go away, I left chocolates at door and yes after 1hr she did grab them (I drove back past for a check).
Background info- She has bi-polar.
What do I do, I really love her!!(probably more than I ever have!!).

2007-07-23 00:28:22 · 19 answers · asked by myself 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible for mams to not care about there daughters, because thats honestly how i feel. My mam and dad are devorced so my mam lives in another house and i feel she has out up so many barriers towards me after the devorce.
I try to tell her how heart breakin it was bringing myself up to be a woman for 4years without her help, and all she says is how it made her feel. I dont get an apoplogy or any sypmpathy for whats happened. This cuts me up inside and really confuses me. Does a woman like this deserve a daughters (my) love?

2007-07-23 00:24:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im so in Love with this guy ive been with him for 12 months on and off he broke up with me 4 times in the past and im giving him one last chance he gfot all angry at me on saturday night and belted me cause he thought i was a sleaze and a liar but im so in love with him and cant leave him im confused should i dump him and try to move on even though it will hurt me like hell or should i stay and try and make things work i need advice bad

2007-07-23 00:18:55 · 19 answers · asked by skye l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im not jealous sometimes i think im not good enough for him i have noticed he looks at slim girls im abit chubby on my hips i have given him everything that he wanted and he does the same for me

2007-07-23 00:10:37 · 26 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 00:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by sepideh_ii2006 2 in Singles & Dating