2007-07-23 02:23:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either moving on with my emotions or physically moving on with my life
2007-07-23 02:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your life is no fairytale of falling in and out of love. Marriage is not a "Feeling", nor a "Compromise". Get real, its a decision. Every moment you live, you decide either way. No body is perfect. You too are part blame, as we have husband AND wife in this vocation "Marriage".
I would suggest, you take time out, alone, sort out your priorities, your shortcomings and your strengths. Make a list, then compare. Which outweighs? Ask your husband to do likewise. Any ulteria motives for wanting "out"? Do not focus on yourself as the victim, always. Be more responsible.
A woman can make or break a marriage! The husband is the head of the house, while the woman is the heart of the home!
Understand the meaning of your role as woman. Woman is endowed with superhuman strength to hold her family together. Face it as a challenge, and visualize what you can change and what you should accept.
Prayer - I do not know your belief, however the family that prays together stays together.
Every challenge is an opportunity for you to grow stronger in your faith.
2007-07-23 10:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have done everything to "fall back into love" with your husband and assuming you are not using that as an excuse to be a cheater and a liar, then it means putting him and that life behind you.
It also means taking the responsibility to find out what you did wrong. Counseling to find out why you picked a man who was so incompatible to you that your love was fleeting but yet still married him. When you "fall out of love" with someone, that's your fault, not his. Being a grown up means to accept with grace the consequences of your actions.
2007-07-23 09:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women like to call it the 'I'm in love with my sensitive cuter colleague who makes me melt when he sends me naughty emails' phase.
More people need to work on why they fell out of love and find ways of falling back in love. Divorce is as common as abortion & if people were more selective in their partners in most cases it would negate the need to 'move on'.
2007-07-23 09:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by fobstarr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finding something that looks better on the other side of the fence. A word of wisdom... no matter how green the other side looks, it always has to be mowed also. Make sure its what you want. Lots of times, its worse. Be careful.
2007-07-23 09:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well moving out and starting over in trying to make a new life for yourself.
2007-07-23 09:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Donna R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Moving on would be described as "Letting Go" of the person you no longer are in love with and letting them be loved by someone who can love them right where they are at. It is a form of self-love as well as a kind loving gesture to the one no longer loved.
2007-07-23 09:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by gypsey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's no such thing as falling out of love with your husband its just where are your priorites you said i do now work out your marriage because if you truly loved him you would remember your vows and if you do leave the bible says you cant' marry again unless your husband passes away or you will be living in adultry so make the right decision,.........
2007-07-23 09:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by bigfun27 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depends: If you have left him then you go on in your life without him, if you haven't left him that would be step number one to moving on for both your sakes
2007-07-23 09:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cheap excuse created by women to try and tell men that they are worthless and that they waisted their time on loving shallow and stupid women. And that they are going on to ruin other men's lives while he decides where to put the bullet in his skull while she couldn't give a crap.
2007-07-23 09:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋