im not jealous sometimes i think im not good enough for him i have noticed he looks at slim girls im abit chubby on my hips i have given him everything that he wanted and he does the same for me
2007-07-23 00:10:37 · 26 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you expect your bf to be like he is in a box or prison, as long as he loves and he respects you no problem. Looking at women can be fun because they design differently some times you can appreciate some ones design so that you can buy the same for your girl friend , but i think women also enjoy it that is why they are always smart and attractive, if not why should they put on all that make up, i find them in lifts putting on make up! let the man enjoy looking at the beaties as long as he does not touch no problem.
2007-07-23 00:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Simex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him!! Tell him how it makes you feel when he looks at other girls. Men sometimes dont realise how much this affects their partners. And you will never stop a man from looking!! This happened to me - I just explained that I understand that he looks at other women - that its just eye-candy - and that I also look at other men (human nature). But I asked him if he could be a bit discreet about it when he's with me and I would do the same for him, out of respect for one anothers feelings. Put like that he felt it was reasonable so now - no problem!! Good luck with that!!
2007-07-23 08:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basically, because he is a guy. Now if he starts talking to other women then you might want to worry. But looking, it is harmless, we all look. I know you sit there and see some hot stud on TV and say "wow, he is fine!". I know you do because we all do it. So don't worry it is just human nature. You can also TALK TO HIM about it to find out what is going on. He might tell you basically the same thing I just told you.
2007-07-23 07:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by maddhatter0351 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he's human. Just as long as he only looks but doesn't touch. Perhaps he likes to see them because it's nice on his eyes, but you're the one he wants to be with emotionally. And are you sure he's really looking at them? If you're insecure about your weight, try going on a diet. But if he's so superficial that he only worries about your hips, you don't deserve him anyway.
2007-07-23 07:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We are human and no matter how beautiful you are he will look at other women, but its just that looking! Its natural and you more than likely do the same it doesnt mean he doesnt fancy you because if he didnt he wouldnt be with you!
2007-07-23 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's instinct. You don't stop millions of years of instinct because you got a girlfriend. Oh man, it is summer, sooooo many hotties bearing all their goodies.
Maybe you should try losing some weight, it's an investment in yourself.
PS you don't give him everything.... variety is the spice of life.
2007-07-23 07:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Celebrate Life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men look at other women. If he is making it obvious, I would slap him silly !!! just kidding. It's normal, but dang...don't have to be disrespectful. PLUS every women on the planet complains of some part of her body. There will always be someone who has that part of her body better. LOVE YOURS.
2007-07-23 07:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about your looks or put yourself down.
He is doing this because he is a man, and they do this type of thing if they feel they can get away with it. If he's making it very obvious, then ask him to tone it down when he's in your company.
2007-07-23 10:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Clare 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably does it to make you jealous and to keep you on your toes!!!lol...My partner used to do it to me just to wind me up-he said he only did it so as I never thought he wasn't sexy! Strange way of doing things I know!It could be he wants to make you jealous as I said before or just keep you on your toes!My man doesn't do it to me anymore coz I started doing it to him....Eye up every man that walks past (obviously only if he's good looking....) he'll soon start to hate it and will stop doing it before you know it! Tell him you don't like it! Might help!Good luck x
2007-07-23 07:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because we come from mars and you come from venus ?
we are wired up differently to you
men are stimulated visually
women are stimulated emotionally
just because a guy looks at a women doesnt mean he fancies her more than you, or that he is going to jump into bed with her - its just curiosity
2007-07-23 07:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋