This is continued from should i meet up with himand should I go etc see my questions. Any way I met up with my ex on friday and I feel like such a fool. He invited me out to come with him and a female friend he used to work with. Whan we got there he spent most of the time ignoring me so i went to the loo ad luckily i saw a female frind of mine and proceeded to hang with her and her mates till he came over. His female friend then decided to invite ger self out with us as we were leaving and he did not refuse, she was flirty and all over him when we got to the other pub we all went to. His work mates who we met were very nice to me and said that he must like me cos he never comes out with them and they have never seen him bring a gal. Any way the female frind of his then felt the need to say rather loudly in my presence is that gal you fancy going to be there which i think was for my benefit and he did
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he didnt even think it was wrong
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later on my ex and i went to a club and it was all fine but he was being quite cold to me and when he walked me home i told him i wanted him to go cos he had been funny with me and that i never knew he liked this other gal. Last nite i spoke to him and he was relly cold to me and said this gal he liked had come back from uni and he fancies her i then in tears said call her and he kept saying get off my fone then i will call her and maybe i will go c her, he kept saying get a life and that he would call her i was crying yet he was being so hurtful he hasnt answered my calls or txts and i just feel like i am worthless and cant measure up to this gal although i dont knowe her but hes called me her name before which hurts. I do love him and he knows this
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PLEASE HELP ME WHATS HOULD I DO HE WONT TALK TO ME EVEN THOGH HE HEARD ME CRYING!
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He is being so cold he wont answer my calls or txts and I am sure with this gal he says he likes he does all that i ever pleaded with him to do to me like call me, txt me spend time with me, he said he didnt want sex but now i think maybe he just didnt want it with me. I feel like such a fool
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I thoght he genuinely wanted me to come out with him when he invited me but he said he did it cos i said he never invited me anywhere
2007-07-23 00:36:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
COMPLETELY IGNORE HIM FROM THIS MOMENT ON!
All the things you are doing are wrong. Go out and have a good time (if you can't, fake it) with your mates and stuff . You are getting too bogged down in those thoughts and emotions and while you are like this, he will not be interested, he knows your feelings but you cannot physically do anything more at this point to 'make' him want to se you. It will be the hardest thing you will ever do but don't ring, txt or make any effort to see him. Try this and see what happens ;)
2007-07-23 00:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex now and I guess you still ones to have him in your life. As a friend or your significant other once again I don't know, but its obvious you still wants him around.
It doesn't matter what it is, and no, don't hate yourself for that. If we can easily get over someone completely, then we would have been fooling ourself all the while during the relationship. You love him, and so you're meant to get over him quickly and its never meant to be easy.
I can't help you either, but I can tell you one thing that I've learn from my miserable life is that, no matter how much you wants a relationship (love or friendship), you just can't simply will it out of nothing. It has to be mutual, you can only try your best and if the other party doesn't wants it, its not gonna happens. It sucks and hurts badly, but that's the harsh nature of life.
I don't know where the sex part fits in, but not every guy is a sex maniac. Some guy can only do it with the person that they are really emotionally attach to, not just anyone. You can try to be friends with him if you wants to, there's nothing wrong trying, but you'll have to draw the line somewhere.
It's gonna be a very tough ride, just hang on and you'll be just fine someday. I wish you best of luck
2007-07-23 01:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-28 02:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not fone or text him again
He does not want you and you need to accept this
It is and will be very hard to get through this but you will get through it. Time heals all. I promise you, this is true, time will heal.
You need to let him go. He hurts you and should not be in your life.
He doesnt care, if he did he would have spoken to you. Some men do not like a needy, crying girl. In fact there are few who do. This begging and being upset with him is futile. It will only bring you more pain as your self esteem goes down and your self loathing goes up. Please stop doing this to yourself and letting him hurt you.
Try to feel the weight of his nastiness lift from your shoulders, feel free of him. Start with yourself, think of yourself. You matter to you. What he thinks, says or does is irrelevant to you or your happiness. You need to embrace thoughts like these if you want to come out of this a stronger person, which is what life is all about.
Be strong, let him go, keep crying till all the tears have gone, don't try to contact him again, keep your dignity, remember your life is not his life. Thrash it out with your pillows and friends, but don't let him hurt you anymore.
Look inside your heart and think of things you want to do with your life. Find positives about yourself, think of the future, the big picture, remember, it's ok to feel the pain, but don't let it be your identity.
Breath, be calm, take a bath, have a cry, write in your diary, love yourself.
2007-07-23 13:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by MARYJANE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go. he's on a power trip and the best thing you can do is take the power away from him. he's being callous and knows full well what he's doing to you. cut him out your life. ring your friends and get em round. do not ring him or txt him anymore. he's a nasty piece of work and you deserve better than this. no one who loves you would make you cry.
2007-07-23 00:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, I know it's hard to get over this 'special someone' but come on, get your head together.
The grass is always greener on the other side. Don't waste your precious time.
2007-07-23 00:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry
2007-07-23 00:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Simex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋