she goes to bed pretty early, I hate going to bed early and I don't need that much sleep.
2007-07-23 02:10:48 · 18 answers · asked by goldenboy1227 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are like my husband, he likes to stay up to 1 or 2 in the morning and I need to sleep by 11 or just after the news. I feel sorry for him as he's done more of the compromising, he usually turns the TV off at midnight now and for my part I try not to complain and even stay up Wit him, on the weekends. As for why we get upset, it's because we want you with us. I don't know about your wife, but I can't sleep without my husband next to me now. Sometimes if he wants to watch his favorite program - which comes on at 1 am on Thursday nights - he'll go downstairs. I can feel when he's not there and I wake up. I don't get upset anymore though as I realize the man has to spend some time alone. But, if my husband spent more nights on the couch than he did in bed with me, I wouldn't like it.
2007-07-23 02:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 16:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to have sex at that time and fall alseep with you next to her.
If she just wants you near when she goes to sleep, could you read in bed for a bit until she falls asleep?
If it's neither, then she is being selfish. If you don't like to go to bed early, then don't.
2007-07-23 02:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably very traditional. Most images of a married couple going to sleep at night are of them together, like a ritual. She may see you not sleeping at the same time as her as a weak link in your marriage. I would suggest you spend some good quality time with her just before she is ready to call it a night. This may re-assure her that you still feel strongly about her as your wife.
2007-07-23 02:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with my boyfriend for over a year now. Personally, I don't expect him to go to bed at the same time as me. Don't get me wrong, I like being able to cuddle with him as I fall asleep! But I am not about to get angry or demand that he go to bed whenever I feel like it. He is an adult and he does not need me to determine his bed time for him, lol. Perhaps you should just go sit in the bedroom with her and watch TV as she falls asleep.:) If she minds the TV or the lights being on, then she will just have to deal with going to bed alone.
2007-07-23 03:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me, I'd rather fall asleep in the bed by myself, then he can come to bed once I'm asleep.
When I was married...if he was already in bed, there would be no way I could fall asleep and always ended up on the couch....eventually I just moved into my own room.
2007-07-23 02:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to go to bed when you are ready. I also go to sleep early and my boyfriend like to stay up late and watch t.v. and go on the Internet. He stay up late because he is not sleepy yet.. I tell him to come join me in the bedroom when he is ready.I don't expect him to go to bed because i do,there is such a think as compromise in a relationship.He gets to do things he like and so do i.
2007-07-23 02:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe b/c you're too loud and keep her up.
She could just want to cuddle.
She wants to make sure you get a good night's sleep too and don't fall asleep on the couch.
The comfort and security of feeling you beside her.
2007-07-23 02:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you can't sleep early, you should be in the same room doing whatever you want to do ,like reading, tv or whatever.
2007-07-23 04:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do? My husband says he can not sleep unless i am by his side.. He does allow me to watch TV while he drifts off to sleep and the eventually i fall asleep as well...23 yrs of sleeping together.....
2007-07-23 02:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋