2007-07-23 09:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes thats bad....Really badddd
2007-07-23 09:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mz Ind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went on a date with my best friend's ex BF. It was wonderful but I told him I could not date him again. I felt it was wrong to do this without terlling her. Ironically he was the nicest guy and I think we could have had quite a relationship. However, I felt that I betrayed her and never told her.
2007-07-23 16:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is an ex because he abused you, then it is bad for her. awkward . If he broke up with you and your are grieving, then she should have asked if it would bother you. If you and the bf just drifted apart or never were a real pair, then it sounds pretty normal, although it may be a little awkward if you double date and/or make out together
2007-07-23 16:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. In 99% of situations it's horrible. You may be different. You may be cool with seeing the two of them together. You may also be cool with having a best friend that doesn't respect you or value your friendship. No one else can decide what you are and are not willing to put up with but you.
2007-07-23 16:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by always an opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends. women have a certain unspoken rule that you do not date a friends ex without permission. it's just one of those things. if you only dated for a little while and didn't really like him, that's one thing, he's up for grabs. but if you dated for a while and were "in love" that's another. dating a friend's ex when they used to be "in love" is not cool.
2007-07-23 16:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it depends on who you are, i dont think it should matter i am in a relationship like that i was dating my husbands best friend before i dated my husband. my husbands friend is happy witch makes things alot easyer if you care about your friend be there for her its gonning to be kinda okward. if she needs advice about him hey by all means tell her the truth about him its not bad at all for your friend to date your ex.
2007-07-23 18:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unwritten rule: You never date your friends ex's and they never date your ex's.
There's plenty of fish in the sea, why risk the friendship?
2007-07-23 16:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if it made you feel uncomfortable. It happened to two best friends I know- and they stopped being friends because of it. (And neither of them ended up with that guy.)
2007-07-23 16:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No why should it be?As long as it doesn't have anything to do with you.What is in the past should stay there.If you are not together anymore it shouldn't matter who they date.
2007-07-23 16:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER date some one that you friends dated, UNLESS they say that they wouldn't mind....
2007-07-23 16:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bad if she didn't talk to you about it first, and it hurt you. If it didn't bother you at all then why would it be bad?
2007-07-23 16:53:40 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋