Is it cheating when it's by internet????

Question

He has girl friends with whom he likes to flirt through the internet, not a possibility for them to meet unless he flies out to see them.

Am i going crazy or just insecure?

No physical contact like i said he would have to fly no choice.

Its just a hell of a lot of flirting.

Answer 1

You are insecure yes, but he's giving you a reason to be. There's girlfriends who don't care that their boyfriends flirt with other women, but you do care or you wouldn't have posted the question. I suggest you ask him to not flirt with other females. If he says that you're trying to be possessive, then ask him how he would feel if it was you that had guys to flirt with just over the internet? If he does not stop what he's doing, then do it right back to him in equal value. If you don't want to do that, then you should consider the fact that you deseve someone with the same morals as you. He might truly not be doing anything wrong, but you don't like it so he should stop.

Answer 2

You have a right to be insecure and crazy if your man is flirting through the Internet. You shouldn't even allow that! If you saw him doing it you should of put a stop to that. It isn't necessarily cheating since he isn't coming into contact with them, but be aware of the fact that Internet dating is in effect and him coming into contact with these woman is possible...even if their far away from each other. Some people are just desperate. Girl, you better check your man.

Answer 3

Sounds like your boyfreind is an insecure loser and has to talk to ladies online because he doesnt feel like you are good enough...no offence but those guys are the cheaters they go from one to the next because they are never satisfied....

I will though give this guy the benefit of the doubt because it natural to flirt with other people but to a point you know what i mean? If he tells you about the girls then he is a duche but there are so many things that i dont know about you and him so i cant say like he is bad or good lol but from what you said, if it upsets you you should tell him and if he really cares about you he would stop and if he doesnt he isnt worth your time

Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

A little bit of both sorry to be bold. Unless you have proof that they are having cybersex than it is wrong. Guarantee that if you were doing it you would be on his only "**** list" now flirting we all somehow or another do this males and females. If it bothers you than address it and if he ignores you and how you feel honestly he is not worth your time than.

Answer 5

how do you describe cheating? if your partner is having physical contact with the girls whom he flirts with...that's cheating, I flirt a lot with men and women on the net and at work but that doesn't necessary mean that I'm cheating on my partner.

Answer 6

What are you calling flirting? Harmless joking innuendos, or actual comments about sexual acts and bodily contact they'd like to occur?

Only you can judge if you are upset by what you've seen...but you might ask him how he'd feel if you were chatting in a similar manner to other men, and if he wouldn't like it then he needs to stop doing it himself w/women.

Answer 7

he shouldnt even be flirting over the net or even with the old lady next door... cheating is cheating.. ur not over reacting.. he should only be flirting with u... personally, there's no forgiveness for cheating. if he cheats once he'll cheat again... and even if he cheats then that means he's losing interest... so goodbye aszhole! ;]

Answer 8

I have the same problem! I don't know but it pisses me off!! I think if the intentions are there then ya cause he could be doing outside of the internet...

Answer 9

You are insecure. Nothing can happen on the internet. Only if it's real life should you worry.

Answer 10

Yes. I would not tolerate that. Insecure or not, feelings are facts. If it makes you uncomfortable, he should love you and respect you enough to cease and desist.