Party help!!! ♥?

Question

okay i am goin to a party for swim at one of the 16 year old coaches house today..... i am 14 and i like one of the 16 year olds at the party.... 1st of all am i too young for him... second i have nvr been to a boy girl party... we are watching monty python... is that a good movie? Whats it about... also the party starts at 7 and ends at 11. Any tips you can give me? please help... if i am not too young for the guy how do i get him to like me???? ♥

Answer 1

First "How do I Get him???" Sounds like you're shoe shopping rather than making a friend.

Second, should you "Get him" ... what do you picture that to be? What are your goals with "Getting him"?

Take a breath. Look at this person as a potential friend rather than an object like shoes, or even like a boyfriend. Then once you make friends, try to put the pieces of the puzzle together. This involves identifying what you want, what he wants and if you fit together. Then after you fit together, does he fit with your family and friends.

Monty Python is British slap stick comedy. There are times it makes me roll in laughter ... and other times, it bores me.

Answer 2

Alright. Monty Python is a British comedy group, not a movie. They have many movies such as Monty Python and the Holy Grail. Most of the their comedy is wacky and random to say at least, so see it as it is. As for the 16 year old guy, don't worry too much. Don't make yourself too crazy to try to get attention from him. Rather have him come to you first. Remember, guys should make the first move. Otherwise, just enjoy the movie and whatever is there at the party.

Answer 3

There's no way to "make" a guy like you, he either likes you or he doesn't, it sounds harsh but its true. If he doesn't like you, move on, you're 14, there are tonnes more potential guys for you to fancy! The MAIN thing to consider at a party like this....just have fun, don't measure how much fun you have against how some older guy feels about you

Also...Monty Python, they made lots of movies, they were a group of English comedians who had a tv show and then made movies, the best sketch based comedy of all time. Its hilarious...this is a fact.

Answer 4

First of all, monty python is the most retarted movie ever. Second, if you try to go out with a 16 year old, most likely the will take advantage of you because you are so vulnerable. 16 year olds tend to look at girls their age.

Answer 5

Maybe u r a little 2 young if u never been 2 a boy/girl party. BUt if u do go just play it cool and just have a gud time.

Answer 6

Trying something new is o.k. but if you ever feel uncomfortable get out of there. You do not have to be pressured and you do not have to follow the crowd. I have seen a few movie of his, but which one are you taking about. Do so research on the movie and if you think you would want to watch it go ahead.

Answer 7

It should be fun. Just be yourself and talk to the guy you like. Have fun. The movie looks good too. It's about snakes pretty much I think.

Answer 8

he is a little old for you but give it a shot anyway, sit next to him while your watching the movie, cuddle into him but not too obvious or he'll get scared.
the movie is like a british SNL but made into a movie, its really funny and has alot of stupid humor

Answer 9

I reccomend you get to know him first,
talk to him when hes alone or something,
kind of be like hey, i think ive seen you around before,
than kind of flirt around with him,
get his screenname and/or number and if you dont feel you than talk to him online and than maybe once you do that,
ask him if hed wanna hang out,
but you have to make a good first impression,
dont pretend to be someone your not,
and dont be like, all over him.

Answer 10

It is a party!!!! Parties are supposed to be fun. Just relax and have fun there isn't any pressure for you to do or be anything you aren't ready for