I'm Lazy All Of The Time , I just go to work, come home and watch TV. I don't Feel LIke going Out With My Friends because I feel Ugly! I don't Know why it's very weird!!
I want to be outgoing but i just want to go home & hide out!
WHAT CAN I DO!!!! HOW CAN I GAIN CONFIDENCE!
2007-07-23 04:10:51 · 23 answers · asked by liza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have to love you. the character in your face that is yours alone. the curves of your body that make you a woman. You are beautiful because as they say "God don't make ugly".
2007-07-23 04:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people get like that, after a long day of work, you just want to sit back and relax. You can't not go out because you think your ugly. You're not ugly. You have to believe in yourself. Everyone is different,m and everyone is beautiful in their own way. Take this and think aboutit when your out. Your working, go out and get a nice outfit to go out with your friends in. Find a special way to do your hair, and maybe put on a little make up. It helps sometimes. You can't live you life insdie hiding out all the time. You need to believe in yourself, and tell yourself that you are UNIQUE AND BEAUTIFUL in your own way. Dont be down on yourself!
2007-07-23 11:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Beanie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is find something special about yourself. Do you like to make people smile? Do you have pretty eyes? Anything will do. Everyone has something about themselves.
You sound very shy, but you also sound a little depressed. Have you ever talked to someone in real life about how you feel? A parent or even a guidance counselor (if you're still in school) can help you.
2007-07-23 11:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nagiko9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wean yourself off television, make a conscious effort to not watch TV two work nights a week (suddenly you will run out of time). On those nights, join a club, learn a new skill. Do some volunteering.
Ugly is a self perceived idea - everyone is different.
2007-07-29 22:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by xchris 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet me I'll get you out of you shell. You are probably looking in a mirror and seeing things that others would not dwell on. Just go for a walk after work and pay attention to the man and where they are looking when you pas them. Have smile on your face and make eye contact then just say hi and after you pas them turn around and you'll see how many turn for a second look.
2007-07-30 12:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to force yourself to GET up and get out...you must have days off,,,go out don't sit there and let the world pass you by. I feel better and more confident when I make myself up and dress up...I feel better about myself,try it!
There are actually classes to take in self esteem.
Maybe your jobs getting you down?
could be depression?
talk to your doctor and ask him,,if you have low iron,,that would make you tired...
2007-07-23 11:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inspirational quotes helped me to build my self confidence day by day. Do a search for inspirational quotes and when you find a site you like bookmark it and rebuild yourself. Remember life is what you make it. Make it better. BEST wishes!
2007-07-29 21:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me nobody is ugly u are the most prettest person in the universe an image of God so have fun go out if u wish and be happy
2007-07-31 08:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by hotbabysweetsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u knoe if you tink you are ugly then what do you think other people think.. love yourself be yourself.. if you dont feel comfortable going out.. then have your friends go to your house.. when your comfortable with these ppl then there is no feeling that you cant overcome with them.. then you might be able to go out.. u noe what i bet your beautiful 2.. u jus dun no it.
2007-07-31 08:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by (Changed my name) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up a hobby, find an interest, then find others who also share that, you'll begin meeting people and having fun.
2007-07-29 23:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋