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I’ve been living in this small town for a little less than 2 years now.. I have literally no friends here. I’m 21 so I don’t go to school or anything so it seems hard to make any friends, especially in a tight-woven little town like this. There are a few girls at my work that are my age and I would really like to hang out with them outside of work but don’t know how to go about it. I’m REALLY shy so if you could help me come up with something that I’d be able to do that isn’t too forward or stupid sounding.. I really have no idea how to go about it!

2007-07-23 04:04:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

Another thing.. I have a REALLY small house, like a studio apartment, and it’s kind of embarssingly small.. So there really isn’t any way for me to invite them over to my house, which makes things REALLY complicated.

2007-07-23 04:07:10 · update #1

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Honestly your making it complicated, but thats besides the point. This comes down to you figuring out what truly makes you "shy", becuse buddy shy isn't a personality charateristic as much as its a sign of insecurities. Without getting past those is a big step towards hangin out with those peeps. One thing is maybe to advance that mind past the same hang ups as everyone else deals with, a way to do that is to be able to offer something you can't put a price on, such as, friendship, loyality, heart, courage, intellegence, compassion, understanding, dependablility, etc..... See get past weather your pretty enough, rich enough, or "pimp" enough is a big way towards fighting past these same hang ups in other people. Don't get me wrong taking care of yourself is a good thing, but if you can't get past "how" your taking care of yourself, then back track, your not ready for people yet. The biggest mistake people make in there lives is rushing ahead on things. Become a good enough person to yourself so you feel good enough to hang out with these people..... good start as corny as it sounds is reading books no bs, you'd be surprise, and let go of the fact that you can't understand your fellow man, or that in any way that matters are they better then you.... so no reason to feel shy!

2007-07-23 08:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

i do no longer understand some lot of human beings. i assume it relies upon on whilst you're unmarried or married. Married human beings do no longer prefer to cling out after artwork. they prefer to get homestead to their families and spend time with them. unmarried human beings could prefer to circulate out after artwork and attempt to fulfill new human beings. yet once you take excitement in being unmarried and prefer to maintain to your self and be inner maximum then you definately do no longer circulate out with them. Or of course you may circulate out after artwork with human beings you do no longer artwork with. For me its No. i think of keeping artwork and private life separate is the superb ingredient you're able to do. and you're top. maximum everybody is purely Nosy and gossip, they do no longer care approximately you. i wouldn't in any respect tell a co worker something significant for the reason which you realize they are purely going to blab all of it to the international! and that they seem to get mad whilst they understand you're no longer telling them something on objective and you're warding off it. i'm unlike maximum human beings. i do no longer tell my very own company to human beings. yet human beings misjudge me and think of i'm going to then get mad whilst they discover out i do no longer. Its humorous nevertheless. whilst nosy human beings attitude me I troll LOL!

2017-01-21 13:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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