I'm interested in a guy that is 25 and I'm 30.. is he too young for me, or too immature?
2007-07-23 04:29:23 · 18 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there's anything wrong with that. It's not like the difference between 20 and 15 years old. The older we get, the less the age differences matter.
That being said, let him make the first move. He needs to take that role in order to account for the age difference. If you're older AND you wear the pants, things won't go well.
2007-07-23 04:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. this is not a big difference. The real test is the maturity levels of the individuals, not the age difference. Are you both at the same level of maturity? If not, there will be problems. If so, you can keep growing together. Significant age differences can be abnormal but do not have to be. They happen for all sorts of reasons. They can be very beneficial or harmful… depending on the individuals. If the youngest is a very mature person, it can work. And the older person can mentor and teach the younger a lot of things… and not just about sex. Although learning how to make love is an acquired skill. Learning how to be a good partner is also an acquired skill set.
2007-07-23 04:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
. No it depends on the person. I am 25 but I have been handling a lot in my life. Supporting my mother during her physical disability, helping my grandmother through her cancer, then helping her get into a nursing home, All before I was even 25 makes you face the reality of life. Its short and a lot of things can happen along the way. You just have to move forward with what is in front of you. The people around you may have things to say but don't pay them any mind. It’s your life and your heart. You decide what’s really right in your life. Is this person immature, or is he a soul of the earth? Don't judge things by a number. You could end up letting something wonderful go because of your discrimination.
2007-07-23 04:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by thesoulcaged 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can say if he is too immature or not. 5 years is not that big of a deal if you are speaking generally about relationships. I am with someone who is 8 years younger and I have never been happier. AND NO, it's not because I have some young hot girl... she is very mature, outgoing, open and fun to be with. If she were my age and the same person, I'd still want to be with her. Age means nothing, it's all about the individual. I have dated girls my age who acted like they were 10 years old.
2007-07-23 04:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A diferença de idade pode até ser interessante para o casal, pois há uma troca de conhecimento e experiencia que pode dinamizar a relação, talvez essa troca seja interessante sim, não vejo imaturidade em um cara de 25 anos, relaxa e seja feliz com seu amor ^^
I'll try to say it in english, because i'm brazilian, ok? so...
The difference of age might be interesting for the couple, cause there's a trade of knowleage and experience, that could dinamic the relation, maybe this trade are really interesting to both of you, i don't see immature into a guy of 25 years olds, relax and be happy with your love ^^
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Sorry if i'm not good enough with english, but i'm only trying to help you.
Good Luck!
2007-07-23 04:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't tell. There are plenty of mature 25 yr olds. I would worry less about the age and focus more on your relationship. If you both are happy and share common bonds, move forward. Think of the benefits of a younger guy, not the negatives.
2007-07-23 04:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by David B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide that. His being a little immature at times may be like a breath of fresh air to you while it might be annoying to someone else.
As long as you both have the same values, long term goals and communicate well, you should be fine.
Good luck.
2007-07-23 04:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Nic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 20 year old guy can be more mature than a 40 year old. I think if you really like him, he's probably mature enough for you otherwise you won't like him due to his immaturity.
2007-07-23 04:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Pe-nan-ce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both 18 and older then age doesn't matter. Just as long as you are both happy and love each other. My fiancee and I are 12 years apart. (He is 35 going on 36 and I am 24.
2007-07-23 05:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on the couple........................ I don't think 5 years is too big of a difference. The best thing to do is just go out together, test the waters, and take it from there.
2007-07-23 04:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋