So I met this French guy...he was so cute. I slept with him like an idiot. This happened twice, and the last time we hung out he was acting distant...I asked him if he wanted dinner, wanted to go to a bar..different things to do during the week. He WANTED me to show him around. Well, then I realized he was posting online ( i met him online) for someone else! I emailed him telling me I wish he was honest with me, and he replied he has, he has just been busy. So then I replied to his ad with a fake email that I had several years back. Of course it was him! I deleted it, but now I want to really email him and tell him what a liar he is and that he was just using me for sex and showing him around! Ugh!!! But I don't want to be psycho...someone dissuade me!
2007-07-23 06:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Comebackmylove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really have no right or reason to go "psycho" on him. You two barely met and are in the part of the relationship (if it can be called that) where there is absolutely no committment whatsoever.
For him to want to date other women is just as unfair for you to assume he should date only you at this stage. You know by now that men and women think differently. Being intimiate within knowing one another in a short span is a 50-50 shot. It looks like for him, this was just a one night stand.
2007-07-23 07:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by christyn79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should email him and show him you are upset. Then it shows him that he won and that he can play as many girls as he wants and he will always get the same reaction out of them. Leave him be and one day what goes around comes around. It sounds like he was just playing you. The mature thing for you to do is act like an adult and ignore him, even if he tries and get in contact with you. Good luck.
2007-07-23 07:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to let it go and to not communicate with him any longer.
This guy is bad news.
If you confront him, he'll come up with some other lie that you'll need to investigate. If, at the beginning of a relationship, you discover someone is being dishonest on a level like that, there is NO POINT in continuing.
Let it go.
Time to find someone who really deserves you.
2007-07-23 07:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this: he probably will get a big ego boost out of it. He'll end up thinking how great he must have been and how upset you are at him for cutting you off.
Guys like that are not worth losing sleep over. Spend the energy looking for a better guy.
2007-07-23 07:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write the email, but save it as a draft. (Don't put his address on it, in case you hit the wrong button.) Re-read it tomorrow and see if it still feels like something you'd want to send.
2007-07-23 07:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by DW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's okay, just understand that you don't really need to waste your precious time thinking about him.
All the best.
2007-07-23 06:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the internet...you're aloud to be psycho
2007-07-23 06:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh i would do it who gives a flying fu*k what he thinks
2007-07-23 06:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been had!!! Live and learn.............
:o)
2007-07-23 06:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋