what can I do to save my relationship, she means the world to me?

Question

me and my girl has been dating for 9 months now, we became very very very close during those 9 months. basically we both mean the world to me and we been stuck doing the same thing every weekend for 9 months, we both want something new, you know actually going out and do something other then the same old same old, but my parents won't let us go out anywhere other then the same old places like Walmart or in our living room, wow big change, we both been working on saving up money so we can get our own place and something occured where we kinda lost all our money because of my car breaking down, grrrr, things happen in the worst time. well my parents really are putting a limit on anything we do well, now she is all upset that we need to do something new and our relationship isn't worth continueing if we don't do something, my parents will pretty much say no to anything, so if you have any Ideas of what we can do or why she suddenly is giving up, please help, PLEASE no one say we too young

she is 17 I'm 19 in a few months she'll be 18 and I'll be 20 but honestly we are having sex with each other and my parents are like sex is a normal thing we don't have a problem with that. her parents don't mind us having sex either so if thats all the fun we can have gosh

Answer 1

idk, you could just sneak out or sumthin, instead of just doin it inside be advendturous and find odd strange places to do it, lol

Answer 2

well it doesnt sound good :/ i think u should say basically what u said at the end: "I admit what I did was pathetic, but in the heat of the moment, I did not want to admit I was lying. Something inside of me just kept pushing it for whatever reason. I figured if I could convince her, then it would be ok." "She means the world to me " etc. i mean they r ur words lol just own up to it and tell her the truth. explain what made u lie in the first place and apologize. meanwhile, action-wise you should either work on making better decisions (so u won't have to lie to ur girlfriend) or just being truthful, despite the possible effects. let her know that u want to be in a relationship with her and that u will work on being more truthful because you're willing to change for her or something like that and start now by telling exactly what happened so theres no doubt in her mind that ur capable of being truthful and trustworthy :) x

Answer 3

Obviously if your parents were really open enough to say sex is natural, then they wouldn't be restricting your dating. Why don't you ask a real question?

Answer 4

DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO