i told her i like her im almost positive she likes me but shes shy but still playing games with me. should i say im over her and see if she cares or will that make her say "theres no hope now" and forget about me? i tried to hook her up with a friend of mine and she got so mad she blocked me online and wouldnt talk to me because i called and my friend didnt answer and she knew he didnt answer no big deal? but she flipped out. is that a sign she likes me? she was sayin how hot he was so to see if she was trying to make me jealous i sed do u want me to hook u guys up? she sed k i sed ur sure? she sed yea but after i called him and sed he didnt answer she flipped out and wouldnt talk to me at all for a day then now everytime i talk to her she seems mad. the reason i tried to hook her up with my friend is because she sed hes "hot" but i think she was saying it to make me jeoulous and she's playing games. i asked her if i should still try and she sed she doesnt know and wants to be friendsshe is shy though im not sure if she meant what she sed she never opens up about aything especially about that. maybe she just wants to get to know me better?
2007-07-23 06:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stop playing games if you really like her. Maybe she is playing games because you're playing games. Sure, it will hurt her feelings if she really likes you and doesn't know how to say it. It is easier to talk about other people. Girls drop hints for sure. Guys can be completely insensitive and daft to it. I don't think she was trying to make you jealous. She was giving you a hint. Guys will only hear the sex words. I'm sure she said more than "He's hot" but with that notorious selective hearing, the rest of it was lost in translation. You guessed what she was really saying all wrong so she got mad, frustrated by a communication barrier. So, I'll translate from girl to guy for you:
Ask me out, you moron. Can't you see I'm too embarassed to say how I feel abou you? What clue can you get?
2007-07-23 07:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kathleen b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With girls like this you have to be sure you really like her. She will probably play mind games with you while ya'll are datin. And that would suck. Most likely she does like you and you should ask her out. But only if you think you deal with the mind games.
2007-07-23 13:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by hXc_bri_hXc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way way wayyyy too many games going on here, from both of you.
Ask her out. Make it a direct question. In person. Accept only "yes" or "no" as answers.
2007-07-23 14:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by DW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say forget about this girl and move on. She's no shy girl to me... More like a player. Why waste your time with this player when you meet more nicer girls than her? You deserve someone who is going to be loyal, honest and respectful.
2007-07-23 13:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion she not shy, she's manipulative. I say find someone else, unless you are into mind games....
2007-07-23 14:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing she likes you but maybe your just being cocky about it and not caring how she is feeling... maybe your making her uncomfortable by insiting that she likes you, give her her space and she will come to you
2007-07-23 13:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by englishbabe93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋