welll see i havent been in a relationship for around 6 months, and then i met this one girl at church, we started talking , and we liked each other alot, our personalities and all.
then around 3 weeks later
i asked her out,
and then it was going alright, and she started acting differnt, and i found out i was being to clingy.
usually all of my other relationships i was clingy and i didnt notice up,
and i was just happy i had a girl like her.
ever since she was my girlfreind i would calll her mostly everyday, and alwalys try to see her.
i used to be way clingier in past relationships and i thought i wasnt being clingy at all in this one, but i didnt give her space
i recently called her and i brought up about the problems and stuff. about being clingy and that i need to give her room
and she understands.
the start of an eraly relationship is the most important,
do you think theres a chacne it can still work out?
tthanks
2007-07-23 06:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It seems like you are at two different stages in your life. I don't think that she was ready for what you were looking for.
2007-07-27 13:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by christina J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that you care enough to acknowledge the problem and are trying to work things out in the early stages is a very good sign that this relationship may work out for you.
I know that in the beginning of a relationship sometimes you are consumed with all these great emotions and all you want to do is spend every possible waking moment with the person and talk to them constantly on the phone. However, there are people out there who don't feel the same urgency. If she is one of these people, then you need to learn to give her some space. If you feel like calling her, go ahead. But only once a day! If you don't get a hold of her, then leave a brief casual message. If she calls you back great! If not, then just leave it at that and give her the benefit of the doubt. She may just be busy.
Just be aware of how she's reacting to your attentiveness. You will know when you are suffocating her.
2007-07-23 14:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by christyn79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think so. You know that you have a problem and are willing to try and fix it. That is very important and the first step in the right direction. Make sure you listen to her and if she tells you or hints that she doesn't like something, change it. The biggest problem women have with men is telling them the same thing over and over again, with no change in sight. Take a step back and give her some breathing room and go from there. It will all work out in the end. Best of luck!
2007-07-29 10:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by RPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it might well work out. Just relax a little and let things take a natural course. Some relationships develop on to something special and some don't. That is the way it goes. Anyway, it is not just up to you. Sometimes, the other person's behavior can trigger your clingy feelings. Practice building your self up on the inside and feeling good about all that you bring to your relationships.
2007-07-23 14:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by kirrii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously not ready for the level of commitment you are looking for. It happens - in most relationships (dare I say, all?) there will always be one person who loves the other person more. It's inevitable.
The only thing you can do is to keep doing what you do, give her some room, and hope that she will one day love you as much as you love her.
2007-07-31 03:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Toblerone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knowing where your problems lie is half the battle, this could work if you change some
2007-07-31 06:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLD ON LOOSELY, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly, you're gonna lose control.
2007-07-30 05:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by jjohnny65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋