Through my own experiences of meeting with many women over the years and those of friends, we have come to the conclusion that women just aren't as promiscuous as we would like them to be.
2007-07-23 05:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by disown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women give sex to get love.
Men appear to give love to get sex.
Oil and water don't mix past the shaking stage!
2007-07-23 05:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by skydancerwi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly - brilliant question...I have to say Im impressed that a man has noticed this phenomenon. As a girl I have to agree with you & have often stressed this discrepancy in the sexes to my male friends. Men & women arent the same & no, women arent 'naturally slags' who are victims of social conditioning - though of course this has had its effect, but even without society traditionally disapproving of womens sexual liberation (for want of a better term) women would still be less promiscuous than men - much to the disappointment of you, your friends & all male heterosexuals... Thing is its common sense - many, many years ago when we were all still grunting at each other there was no such thing as contraception. For women sex ran the risk of pregnancy & being literally left holding the baby - men didnt have this problem & so were given the high sex drives, their job being to impregnate as many women as possible with out any thought of consequence. Women, on the other hand, have to suss out potential mates first before they 'get in the mood' - is the man likely to stick around or is he just after a quick shag? Has he the means to look after her & any baby? Is he emotionally involved & so would be more likely to stay? Its all subconcious so she doesnt even know shes doing it but thats whats at the bottom of your & your mates problem - generations of lack of contraception!
2007-07-23 13:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women aren't generally frigid but social conditioning and attitudes means they often have to give significant consideration towards how they conduct themselves.
2007-07-23 12:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by 203 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the only thing your experiences have shown you is that you need better GAME. Girls want to have as much FUN as we do. When you can show a girl that you are CONFIDENT and FUN to be around, then you will find that girls want what you want too. But girls need a MAN that makes them feel comfortable to give you what you both want. So, BE the life of the PARTY, be the MAN, make her LAUGH, show her your CONFIDENCE, and you will get the results you are looking for. Good Luck!
2007-07-23 12:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by sirkusrock 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just the women you've been associating with!!
Or maybe it's the way you or your friends show a complete lack of appreciation for your women and just expect them to give themselves to you weather you make them feel good or not! You have to make a "good" woman feel quite important before she'll give it up!
2007-07-23 12:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea but frigid men usually attract frigid women generally chicks.......good luck x
2007-07-23 12:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dolly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE WE FRIGID?
I was accused of this twice.............and on both occasions, I went so far and realised it was not right!
Sexual desire, when in the heat of things, can play mind games with you! You love the attention one gives you!
But when it comes to crunch, you ask yourself "do you want to do this?" OR "WTF am I doing, I don't want this do I?"
If the answer is no, then you hold back and say "STOP", then you become branded "frigid"!
1st time I was accused I was a virgin!
2nd time, I was married but was being neglected by my other half!
Not neceseraly a frigid!
2007-07-23 18:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Welshchick 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why? Do you like promiscuous women?
2007-07-23 12:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Says who? You obviously been attracting frigid women! :)
2007-07-23 12:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by chocotabbie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
soooo isn't that a good thing. would you like the women you marry to have been used by several guys prior you? kind of like what you may be doing now mmmmm?
2007-07-23 12:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by KAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋