guys would you be upset if your gf or maybe potential gf if things worked out, was a virgin and wanted to wait until she was ready for sex if she offered oral in between that time?
2007-07-23 04:50:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes people i know that oral sex is still sex, im talking about technically im still a virgin, in the sense i have not had vaginal intercourse, thank you
2007-07-23 05:00:19 · update #1
If I was going to be in a serious, long-term relationship with this girl, then no, I would not mind at all. This is especially true if I truly loved this girl. She wouldn't even HAVE to offer oral at that time, although that would be great :). But if I really love her, I wouldn't want her to do that either because she would probably only be doing it because she thinks that I would leave her if she didn't do it.
If there is a good chance this one will become my wife and I love her, I can wait if that's what she wants. I would want her to be happy and not give up her morals.
2007-07-23 05:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be upset. If i was in a relationship with a girl i really loved or wasn't in love with and she wanted to wait, i would have no problem with her decision. No matter what, i when the girl feels right, the guy feels right, and the couple is ready, then will be the right time. And the offer for oral is great. I would love that. Oral is a step in the right direction
2007-07-23 04:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend that I have now was the first girl I ever had sex with, and I am the first guy she ever had sex with. When I think about it now, i'm glad that is the way it worked out. I do not want my next girlfriend to be a virgin, or to be a girl that has had 50 partners before me, because I want that girl to be as sexually mature as I am. Like what it was for me and my girl when we broke each others virginity...
That make sense?
2007-07-23 05:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be flattered if she offered oral sex. But what age are you talking about? If too young, no sex should be offered other than maybe some heavy petting. At least 16 for anything else.
2007-07-23 04:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A decent guy would not be upset. The truth is most guys want a "good girl" for a girlfriend. Stick to your values, never do anything you aren't ready for. If he cares about you he will wait. If he pushes too much then he isn't the right guy for you. You can never know how a guy is going to react to you giving in or holding back. What is important is for you to be comfortable with you choice. You never know if he will stay with you or leave you. You need to know you will feel good about yourself if he breaks up. He will wait if he is the right guy for you. Stick to your values and you won't have any regrets.
2007-07-23 05:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Date Coach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do if you don't want full intercourse - learn to masturbate him well, good oral technique and other erotic things. Honestly, if you can satisfy him one way or another, I don't think he will be too bothered. If he doesn't accept that - dump him. Lots of girls who want to stay 'virgins' vaginally use anal sex as an alternative.
2007-07-23 05:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by CMK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 62, in my younger days, finding a girl that would give oral was a gold mine. Today oral is like a hand shake. But it he agrees, I would think that a BJ is ample compensation. Just be imaginative at your technique so it won,t get boring.
2007-07-23 05:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she offered oral everyday, maybe. But I wouldn't date someone that didn't want to have sex. If she only wanted to wait a month or two that would be understandable.
2007-07-23 04:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well when i was 18 i was with this amazing girl that was still a virgin and i let her go bcuz of that. She wanted to wait till marriage. at that time i was just lookin for sex and now i regret ever letting her go.
2007-07-23 05:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by The Kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely PATHETIC that ANYONE would think being a virgin is a bad thing.
And I have news for you, honey. Giving oral sex is still HAVING SEX and removes your "virgin" status.
2007-07-23 04:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋