I think my boyriend has a different email address other than the one i have access to. I found him out last time and he was cheating on me with a work collegue and sending dirty emails to her.
is there anyway of finding out with out actually being on his computer if he has another email address / Some sort of free website i can find out.
I wont confront him until i know im right. (or wrong)
Thanks.
2007-07-23 03:26:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only asked about a website or a way of finding out, not the third degree!
2007-07-23 03:40:40 · update #1
You need to put him in check........DUMP HIS A.S.S
2007-07-23 03:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't waste your time with playing detective. When it all comes down to it you have to just confront him regardless of whether you want to or not. You should not have to play detective.
If you and him agreed to be in a monogamous relationship then he needs to stick to that agreement rather than cheat. Not too mention when men or women cheat that just means that they don't want to be with you. You said that he cheated the first time what makes you think he isn't now? I think the question you need to ask yourself is:
Am I going to objectify myself to this abuse?
Am I really going to commit myself to man when he obviously won't commit to me?
Am I going to keep dealing with the fact that there might always be another women?
I mean if he is really a man then he should have the decency to be honest with you about everything I mean you do deserve that much. I would if I were you just part ways. Not only has he slept with a woman before but he could have gotten her pregnant or brought you back a sexually transmitted disease. These are things you need to factor in if you consider staying with him. It's not worth it get a man who can be faithful not promiscuous.
I wish you luck on your decision!
Charlie
2007-07-23 10:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater always cheater. Leave him. He'll just keep doing it. Plus even if you found out you were wrong. In the back of your mind you will always suspect that he is. You'll never be able to trust him fully. If it's not this time there will be other times. End it before it gets worse.
2007-07-23 11:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that you think he's cheating on you, but he probably is. This happened to me last year when I found out my ex was swapping dirty text messages with some guy from her work. We stayed together for another 6 months, but our relationship was never the same, I couldn't trust her after that, and ultimately it was the root-cause of us breaking-up.
It sounds like a cliche, but the old saying 'once a cheater, always a cheater' is very true.
Relationships should always be built on trust, so i think you should follow your gut-instinct, get rid of him and find someone who treats you with respect.
2007-07-23 10:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Xerces 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think it then it is likely true. Relationships are not court rooms where there's a prosecutor and a defense atty. If you have allowed yourself to get suckered into that game then you have already lost the war.
Relationships are about trust and faith and if you think and feel like he's cheating, then there is something very wrong in the relationship...no proof or investigators needed.
Your pretty ungrateful for all of the help you've been getting here. No wonder why your BF is cheating on you, now it all makes sense.
2007-07-23 10:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You should trust him not to try and look up an email address he may or may not have - I would never dream of looking through my husbands emails. Also, if he is keeping anything from you then you have to ask yourself why ? I can access my husbands whenever I want (which I don't) but it just goes to show the trust is there, I would be very careful :o)
2007-07-23 10:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The answer has been there all along from the last time you say he cheated on you.....yes, he's cheating and he'll always cheat. That's what he is.... a cheater.
You don't need his e-mail address to further hurt yourself.
Cut him loose girl.
2007-07-23 10:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If he cheated before he is still cheating.When you feel it or dream about it.It is usually happening.If you don't trust him you don't need to be with him,you won't be happy.You'll be busy trying to figure out what he is doing and you won't do nothing but want to argue all the time.
2007-07-23 10:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sure about any websites but I think you should confront him inside of tryin to go behind his back because what if your wrong? That could cause all sorts of trouble in the realishinship if he finds out you were sneakin about. Let me know how it turns out. good luck. :)
2007-07-23 10:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why do you have access to his email? If you think he's cheating move on but stay out of people's emails.
2007-07-23 10:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by elurle 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
WhAT!!! " I found him out last time and he was cheating on me with a work collegue and sending dirty emails to her." Girl what are you doing wasting your time. He's doing it again, Burn me once shame on you, Burn me twice shame on me. You need to leave his a$s.
2007-07-23 10:28:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋