I'm a virgin and I kind of let it slip to him that I was a virgin (that was 1 month ago) and he said he likes experienced girls. I want to let him know I want to have sex with him. I don't know how to let him know. I don't know what to say about wanting to have sex with him. After we kissed my sex drive is in over drive. lol I really want him. Would he turn me down? I really want to. Don't know what to say to him.
2007-07-23 02:52:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, i'm in my 20s
2007-07-23 03:04:52 · update #1
and I would ask him over the phone, but don't know what to say.
2007-07-23 03:06:16 · update #2
Stop...slow down...you hardly know this person. Are you a victim of "lust blindness?"--- In love with the feeling of passion, and not necessarily the person. You might simply have the hots for him. How can you be so sure you're not jumping into something that is all wrong? You wait... You watch... And you postpone having sex until you can't stand it any longer.
One of the most common and most deadly mistake many of us make is this so called "premature intimacy." Several things happen when you have sex too soon. First, your judgment for your partner's character becomes blinded for a while, since you are sexually intoxicated. You're swept away by the lust, and perhaps only later do you see the warning signs of trouble you should have paid attention to in the beginning. Second, you are mixing someone else's energy with yours without really checking him out first. Sex is an intense sharing of mind, body, and spirit, whether you experience it that way or not. Do you want to spiritually and psychically merge with just anyone? I didn't think so? Third, becoming sexually intimate with someone has become a much more serious and possibly deadly undertaking in the past few decades than it used to be in the pre-AIDS era. There is no 100-percent risk-free sex, so you'd better be sure about your leaking sexual energy over drive you were saying, so to speak.
ravishingV
2007-07-30 23:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by ravishingV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to take a cold shower or masturbate. Sex is best in the presence of love and the security of marriage. But, if your set on getting laid, tell him you want to learn from someone with experience. Wear a condom, no matter what he says. Don,t be surprised if the experience is a disappointment. Most young guys are "wham bam, thank you mam".
2007-07-23 03:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum men do no longer. The unstated etiquette is that girls can tell different women who're finished strangers approximately their intercourse existence, yet men could by no skill kiss and tell. i've got been in a similar subject, the place a female buddy reported info which i could have favored that she shop inner maximum. Your suitable guess for the destiny is to have the communication approximately your expectancies, *previously* you have intercourse for the 1st time, and previously you come across that each and every physique his friends understand approximately what the two one among you have carried out interior the mattress room.
2016-12-10 19:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by calderon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that is very good to hear that you are still a virgin but you should wait until you find the one that you really love and want to be with the rest of your life dont just give in to anyone that comes along ok
2007-07-23 03:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop kissing him and save your virginity for true love.
2007-07-23 03:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Aunt Doobie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way he turns you down. Be assertive. But losing your virginity is better w/someone you love.
2007-07-23 02:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything if the time is right and he kisses you again just go with the flow.just make sure you have some kind of protection
2007-07-30 16:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a guy and ur a virgin. i dont think hell turn u down lol and why do u wanna giv ur virginity up to ur frend?
2007-07-23 02:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him again but wear something real sexy next time and dont stop. rub the front of his pants while kissing him he should get the hint
2007-07-23 02:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
caress him near his private while kissing passionately tell him that u love him .n wear somethin sexy n u should watch some porns how u can turn him on
good luck..........
2007-07-23 03:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by mastermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋