i would like to say my own vows when i get married next year but im not sure how to put them...im not religouse but i am spiritul and i am deeply in love with the most wonderfull guy who makes every day special...so can anyone out there create something romantic in the contentext of vows just to get me started id be greatfull...
2007-07-23 03:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh heck.....here's a couple of ideas:
1.
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my partner, loving what I know of you, and trusting what I do not yet know. I eagerly anticipate the chance to grow together, getting to know the man you will become, and falling in love a little more every day. I promise to love and cherish you through whatever life may bring us.
2.
I have dreamed my whole life of having someone as wonderful as you love me the way you do. I give myself to you as your wife, and I promise here to treasure for all of my days the love we celebrate today. Let us bring together our lives and find ourselves anew each day.
3.
Today, (name), I join my life to yours, not merely as your wife, but as your friend, your lover, and your confidant. Let me be the shoulder you lean on, the rock on which you rest, the companion of your life. With you I will walk my path from this day forward.
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2016-04-21 14:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im typing this for my wife as for some reason her yahoo isn't working..There is a film recently shown on sky my wife watched it everyday for a week . It is a musical based on the broadway show RENT the song is called i'll cover you or one thousand kisses.. although it is used in the film by homosexuals..on hearing the words I have to agree with my wife that if it had been around 2 yrs ago when we got married I would have been very happy if we had used the words as our vows. give it a listen cant do any harm
2007-07-25 03:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by husband of squidgy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are actually many websites that give ideas for wedding vows. You can see the ones that most match your thoughts and change them to suit your situation. They also have beautiful quotes from literature, songs, etc. Just google in "marriage vows" and get started.
2007-07-23 03:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by HamTownGal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If see consider marriages, bridegroom gives vows. But for the bride only her parents give vows. Still woman follows the oath given by her parents that is why she is respected. In your case, you need not give any vows. Just mail this. This is enough. But follow the vows which you want to give.
2007-07-26 21:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by RAGHAVAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some thoughts:
Love has chosen you for me;we were always meant to be together.You are the reason my heart sings and just being in your presence brings me pleasure.
I have chosen here today,to pledge my love to you and constant shall it always stay...forever.
My love as we begin our new life,one thing I pray(wish)that we will always feel this way.For your love is a most precious gift to treasure.
you can google wedding vows and they have some there.
good luck,and God bless!
2007-07-23 03:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we wrote our vows with my second wife, till death do us part was not a option,, we vows as long as we are able,
just keep it as a promise of something to each other, whether it be faithfulness, communication,, love etc.. promise never to go to bed angry at each other and such,
what you feel is important to your feelings about what marriage is
2007-07-23 06:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put into your own words the true feelings that you have for the man you are planning on marrying....I love you with all my heart ... and promise to.______. You have plenty of time to come up with something that is meaningful to you and will be meaningful to him.
2007-07-23 03:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can write your vows for you, only you know how your fiance makes you feel
2007-07-23 03:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because it won't come from your heart, and you said that you wanted to say your own vows, you should make them up yourself.
2007-07-23 03:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋