umm, has any girl ever told her dad or mom that she's pregnant? how do I do it? Like, I know he wont get like really mad I've never seen him that way. what am I suppost to expect?
2007-07-23 02:36:24 · 24 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am assuming that it is a "surprise" pregnancy?
My wife didn't bother to tell her father, as he was a jerk
2007-07-23 02:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your father would be upset at first but would appetite it more if you tell him sooner rather then later. Let him know how you feel about this tell him if you are scared just be open to him. He will see that you are a woman and not a child for the way you opened up to him about this and don't be surprised if he offers to help you through it. it is a real adventure a lot of ups and downs you need some one to fall on let it be your father rather then a guy who is not to sure what he wants in life.
2007-07-31 09:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by confused cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are an adult, than don't stress out so much... if you are a child/teenager... I don't know what to say. I told my Mom (I was 20) and she was excited. She was on the phone talking to one of her friends about their new Grandchild, and I told her she was going to be a Grandma too. My Dad who is usually really sweet and laid back, well he reacted opposite. I didn't tell him (my Mom told everyone). My Dad was angry with me. But, my daughter is here (almost 10) and the love of everyone's life! However, they react they will be so okay, when the baby gets here! Congratulations!
2007-07-23 09:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Cejae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expect the worst and deal with it maturely. I had to tell my mum that i was pregnant at the age of 15. It sucks. But it blew over and then it was great, my mum got very excited about becoming a granny - even though she was only 36!
2007-07-31 09:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rissiepit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are still living at home and in highschool? The only way to do it is to just sit down with the one that you are closest to, Mom or Dad and tell them. If it's both you are close to then sit them both down together and do it. You need to tell them. I was 19 when i had to tell my parents. I had moved away with my fiance to NY from NH and oops! Had to move the date up a few months. Of course that marriage ended by the time i was 26.
Anyway, just tell them, the longer you wait the harder it gets.
2007-07-23 09:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well expect disappointment. my best friends family is like my second family, i think i spend more time with them actually. newayz, her dad is really cool, he even called me in sick at school just kuz i didn't feel like going. he doesn't get mad about nething. but when my best friend told him that she was pregnant he didn't talk to her for like a week. when he finally did he sat her down and cryed. just expect a side that u have never seen of ur dad before
2007-07-30 22:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how old you are and what your lifestyle situation is ... if you are 18,19, then you're basically an adult and the choice is your's ... if you're 15, 16 still in high school, then that's a different matter ...
hopefully you have a good and open relationship with you and you can discuss it rationally ... but sitting them down in a public place (like a restaraunt) may keep the temptation to yell and scream down ...
2007-07-23 09:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, the way to do it is to be perfectly frank and honest, say you made a mistake and need their help, then take whatever help they offer you. The simpler, the better, no anger just ask forgiveness. I am sure they will give it to you and help you out with your problem. Who knows, they just might be thrilled to have a grand baby on the way. ;>)
2007-07-26 01:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sgt Little Keefe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did.... over the phone well you can expect them to be upset and they probably will be for a while but the thing is once that baby gets here all of those feelings that they had will disapear. just brace yourself and take it. thats pretty much all you can do.
2007-07-31 09:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 9600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur pregnant!?!? nice way to stare your career (sarcasm) unless if u want just want to be a home mom but do u know even know if the guy will stay with u long!? ahh noo!! were too young
2007-07-23 15:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expect the worse and if it turns out to be less you wouldnt feel soooooooooooo hurt.but u shd ve thought of it in the first place before doing whatever u did.
2007-07-23 09:40:50 · answer #11 · answered by onel2k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋