She seems nice and all but I still seem to get intimidated by her. She's the kind of person who gets mad easily when you tell her something that you don't even expect to annoy her. I've thought so many times that I don't wanna cross her since she's the kind of girl who has a large reputation at school. Smart, athlethic, popular (I think) she's almost good at anything. She's immature but when she gets mad I get a little scared.
Just the other day she got mad at one of my friends for a very trivial reason and I even thought it was stupid. She ignored her but at one point she told her that she should be thankful that she's still talking to her 'cuz if it was another person she would completely ignore her. I've also heard stories from my friend that it's hard and painful to have her as your enemy since she experienced fighting with her before.
What should I do to not get intimidated? I'm not a smart person and I don't have a reputation like hers so I'm sure I can't stand against her.
2007-07-23 22:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by emina_black 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you ARE a smart person. what on earth makes you think you're not?
you sound like you lack self esteem. please be confident, i know it doesnt come easily, i've been shy and quite before. but then i found this boost of confidence, deep within and i unleashed it, and was "popular" and "cool" myself.
ok, stick to your guns, get that confidence out, i know its there somewhere within. okay, stand up to yourself.
im not saying to go rub your nose infront of her. but im sure you have other friends, so pay more attention to the normal ones, and not the showing off cocky ones.
okay...
good luck
is she says anything to you, tell her you dont have time for try hard fake friends, and youd rather hang out by yourself, then hang out with her... (lol)
2007-07-23 22:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Takes time. I have been in a situation like this before. Hold your head high while you walk and start gaining respect. Speak your mind and if she doesnt like it and starts a fight just say to her 'I have got my opinion you have got your lets agree to disagree' then walk away. Tell her if she falls out with you that you dont need her and she is sad to keep haseling you.
2007-07-23 22:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do? You should not be friends with her or hang out with her. Why bring uneccesary stress into your life? You don't need her in your life. Ignore her. Pay her not attention and do not be friends with her. Stay away and don't associate, or talk about her or to her.
2007-07-23 22:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by smart S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand against her. She'll respect you and leave you be. It might take a while.
Practice saying "Is that all you got?"
Good luck.
2007-07-23 22:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be assertive. Don't be aggressive or a push-over. Stand your ground but don't invite anybody in. I bet it won't happen again.
2007-07-23 22:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't spend too much of your time directly involved with her. She is not anyone's friend but her own, so you won't be missing out on much.
2007-07-23 22:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself, i dont see why a mere human being should intimidate u.
2007-07-23 22:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bow to her =]
2007-07-23 22:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋