I have been dating one of my girlfriends for a few months now and as of a month ago I started openly dating her sister who also lives with us. I have never been happier. I have been a dog and a cheater my whole adult life. I have been able to be open and honest for the first time. At first I was certain this would blow up in my face but so far so good. They both seem to be liking the situation. I make great money and they are both being well taken care of so they seem to be down with this arangement. I want things to stay this way permanently. The problem is we have had to hide the true nature of our relationships from everyone. My buisness would be greatly effected if certain people new about this. Not to mention when both sides of our familes come over we have to pretend I am only dating the one sister. I want to be completly out in the open to everyone about this but am afraid of the consequences. What to do
2007-07-19 10:16:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You lucky dog, you. In order to stay socially acceptable you will have to live a lie in the public eye. As you have already stated, your business would be affected not to mention the feeling of both families. It is unfortunate that we live in such a closed minded hypocritical society, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. Good Luck. Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every Minute of It...
2007-07-19 10:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see your problem. dam,
two sisters that right there is reason why some family members don't talk to each other like that.
so, if you can stay away from her family and they can to. o.k.
but if her family take it well then count your self to be a very luck man in the world. to still be a live and well.
because of father or mother and etc.
that didn't kill you when they hear about it .
and depends on how the family members of her family acts like all the time and if act different in away that is don't good then you need to move some where they can't find the ( 3 of you)
and have fun
good luck with that
2007-07-19 10:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by map 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue as you are.
Decide among the three of you who is going to be the "official "couple, and stick to that to avoid cofusion.
It's nobody outside the house's business what you do.
2007-07-19 10:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is real. i had the same think for about 6 months, congrats
2007-07-19 10:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
suffer the consequences. if you come out.
or hide. its up to you
2007-07-19 10:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋