I really wish I would like the guys that like me. But I don't, so I feel guilty because they're really nice guys. I only seem to be attracted to guys that are not interested in my. Why am I like this? I'll never fall in love because i'm screwed up.
2007-07-19 10:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't that screwed up. You like having to work to get a guy, so anyonewho meets you, no matter how great they are, and lets on that he likes you instantly becomes no challenge, so you aren't interested. The guys who make you chase them are much more interesting and attractive--but you know nothing about the rest of them. But the guys who do that are able to get a date with anyone, so if you are good enough for their standards, there's a good chance they turn out to be a player.
I think that part of the problem is that you are asking too much of love. There are all kinds of love, from puppy love to infatuation to spending every day for fifty years together love, and who really knows what is 'real'. Most of love is respect for each other--there is more to it than that, but no one really knows exactly what that is. What I'm saying is, don't let comparing your life to your romantic ideals keep you from getting into deep relationships or make you depressed about your love life. Even without the storybook, love at first sight, stomach doing backflips sensation, you can still have a fulfilling and loving relationship.
2007-07-19 10:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 06:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really common trait in women. You aren't feeling like or dislike you are feeling attraction and low self esteem. Many men know that if they treat a woman like she's nothing then certain women will like them for it. It's an enforced sense of self worth on their part. "He treats me poorly and doesn't pay attention to me... he must be cool!"
Break the cycle.
2007-07-19 10:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Capitão Darius Emboabas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you do not feel you are worthy of love. Either that or you are somewhat afraid to fall in love and go for unattainable guys.
2007-07-19 10:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you feel you don't deserve a 'nice' guy. You are always interested in ones that aren't interested in you ---- did someone in your family ignore you, someone whose love you really wanted it?
2007-07-19 10:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, me too
i guess u are not challenge with the guys who likes u and ur kinda want to test ur charm and try to attract guys that are no so interested on u
2007-07-19 10:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to do some soul searching inside of you. Also before you can like/love someone. You have to like/love yourself.
2007-07-19 10:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change something within yourself. Birds of a feather flock together.
2007-07-19 10:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by crappiekat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's nothing wrong with u. it happens to me all the time. i mean i've had 27 bf's but i only loved 1....and a half LOL!
2007-07-19 10:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Merci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not screwed up!
you like the chase. its okay to not want those sweet guys throwing themselves at you. YUCK!..
We women always want things we can't have that's why we want them. sad huh...
2007-07-19 10:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋