Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

ok, 3 dates and a couple phone calls ( although we do know each other from work)
and i get flowers saying he cant wait to see me again and it needs to be now? what is the now for? is he wanting something else?
is this border line stalker behavior?
or is just a nice gesture?

2007-07-19 02:10:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If she was your roommate? This is what she does:

1. she treats you like a little kid and a stupid retard even though you know you are not and noone else thinks that you are retarded (and ur 22)
2.Whenever you guys fight she calls up your mom and apologizes even though they aren't close
3. she plays peeping tom even though she lives with you. For example:
a) she sees you in the kitchen so she stands at the door(with window) and watches you which scares the heck out of you. b) when you wait outside for a ride with your mom, she stands outside and just stares at you until she leaves(which is up to an hour

2007-07-19 02:10:06 · 11 answers · asked by Inferna Dragon 1 in Friends

Answer this if you can? PLEASE!!

2007-07-19 02:08:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've got this guy in my class interested in me. but there are some rumours going around in his school that he is "unofficially attached" to some girl he seems to be always seen with.

wth? is this some joke or something? plus, the people spreading the stuff around are hardly his good frens or anything. what do you guys make of it? thanks

2007-07-19 02:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 02:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on another one of my questions someone asked me(thinking my boyfriend was a girl)why am i not married yet?(we've been a couple for 6 years).
but my view is that marriage should be special and only done if both partners are ready.

why rush into anything really,that could be a mistake and break up 2 months or 5 years down the line?(or even 2 days in britney spears case when she married that guy from her childhood,non famous days).

2007-07-19 02:07:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it appropriate to have the guy come to your house for dinner on the 4th date or is it too soon?
what should i look out for?

2007-07-19 02:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 02:04:13 · 4 answers · asked by Robert D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 02:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by Love mexxxxxxxim 1 in Singles & Dating

i was ashamed of my past and lied about it at first. after i told him the truth about everything now all of a sudden he doesn't believe it. we worked things out and he told me that he wanted a future with me and wanted to marry me. so i thought. after meeting his family and going back to the area we live, he told me that he no longer wants to build a future with me and only wants to just date me and have sex. he told me that i will never be good enough for him to want to marry or even to build a future with.

2007-07-19 01:59:18 · 33 answers · asked by loulyzer 1 in Singles & Dating

FILL IN THE BLANK

2007-07-19 01:58:27 · 30 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 [btw]. I met him on facebook, but I also know his brother [who's 17]. I've never actually met him in person, just seen him. He is in Tampa right now with his family because his dad has a buisness conference. He has called me a few times since we started talking. He told me that when he comes back he wants to take me out. I don't know how to tell if he likes me or if he is just doing this because I know his brother... He has never cheated on a girlfriend before or anything, and we tell each other a lot.

What should I do? Should I keep talking to him & see how things go? Or just ditch the whole idea of possibly dating him because he is four years older.

2007-07-19 01:55:50 · 12 answers · asked by xnikki16x 1 in Singles & Dating

Height - 5ft 5"
Weight - 16 Stone
Size - 18/20
Age - 19

Although people say i have a pretty face I just cant see how people find me attractive. As i have said I am 5 ft 5 at 19 years old. I weigh 16 stone and am in size 18/20 pants. 16/18 tops i am a 38G bra. I have stretch marks on my arms , boobs and stomach. Am told all the time that i only look about a size 14/16. So please give me an honest answer as to wether you would ever consider liking some one of that description. Be as nice or nasty as you like. Just be Honest

2007-07-19 01:52:53 · 16 answers · asked by nuts_about_being_nuts 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my last ex is constatly on my mind and I dont know why....we broke up over 5 years ago and I am now married and have a daughter....but I just cant seem to move on...he treated me like a piece of crap when we were dating and spread rumors about me when we broke up.....he was such a dog....maybe i'm holding on because he was my first love....and dont get me wrong I love my husband...but it's just like my ex has part of my heart and I cant get it back.....what should I do??? Please help....

2007-07-19 01:49:40 · 13 answers · asked by It's a Girl!!! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This kinda goes with my why do men cheat when they already have a fly woman? Please answer that question as well. But...due to a discussion with a male friend the other night...why is it worse if a female cheats than if a male cheats? Is not just cheating? What's the deal with the double standard?

2007-07-19 01:48:17 · 42 answers · asked by karamell08 5 in Singles & Dating

I totally made a fool of myself infront of this guy I've been um...well we are I don't know. Plus it was infront of my brother and his friend and my sister-in-law then I went home and fell down the stairs in front of my mom. I'm such a drunk. :( Anyone got good ways to apologize? I'm not even that sure if anyone is mad but I think that the guy is. I tried to get him to go to my brothers house but he didn't want to then I was too drunk to realize that he had to walk home I feel bad.

2007-07-19 01:47:40 · 15 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 27 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 01:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

When your in a serious relationship does the guy pay for mainly everything or is it equal? I would think it is equal but what does everyone else think?

2007-07-19 01:43:25 · 9 answers · asked by ♥M♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 01:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by kellie w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is falling in love me me, but I just aren't ready for that kind of commitment yet!

I think its because I was giving her more 'lee'way and letting her out of her cage to play in the garden.....what should I do, shall I confine her back to her cage 24/7 or just tell her straight up and get it over with.

2007-07-19 01:41:02 · 23 answers · asked by bosswell2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 27yrs, have 3 kids..my spouse is into drugs to the point where he's been unemployed for 4 years. I'm too sick to work and waiting on soc.sec. we had to sell our home to survive. he started selling drugs when I found out I told him that he either stopped doing and selling drugs or he was out of the house. He refused to do both, stated he doesn't have money to move anywhere..his friends have offered to take him in. He's out all hours of the night..I also found female names in his cell he told me that he sells to them..I don't believe him. I've left a couple of times over the past few years hoping he will wise up and stop using. My kids have taken my side and don't really talk to him. He stays in the cellar getting high all day and night. He refuses therapy..I would rather that he straighten his act up and get back to a normal family life. We had a huge fight today I don't want to throw 27 yrs of marriage down the drain but what other options do I have?

2007-07-19 01:40:21 · 26 answers · asked by grammy ss 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for a small centerpiece, using flowers and a vase. I have been trying to look online for pictures but I am unable to find any! I'm just trying to figure out if I want to use a short vase or a longer one, and if I want a wide or small opening.

If anyone knows where I can find pics to see these, please let me know!

Thanks :)

2007-07-19 01:39:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my worst date was i met this girl i met in a club the previous weekend as i was drunk i was worried what she looked like because i had'nt the slightest clue when i saw her she was'nt too bad then i relised as she was walked towards me she had a limp i thought not to let it put me off... but worst of all she had a twitch and shouted every 5 mins with quick outbusts we went cinema i saw a comedy but she made me jump every time and twitching like she was going to hit me.. haha i was a little scared but she was a nice girl after all didnt go anywhere after that thou. hmm (wonder what happenend to her?)

2007-07-19 01:38:47 · 18 answers · asked by old school 2 in Singles & Dating

if you consider yourself a christian, get married at 28, then abandone your husband after about 8 months because he cannot give you one date a week, how do you go to church every sunday and through the rest of your life like nothing is wrong? does that mean you just made a mistake and got married, realized that people have other priorities too like work, kids and ect. and just can not put 100% attention to you at all times?....so you say, well im out of this marriage i dont care? i never neglected my wife, i put her with all my other responsibilities and stayed home all the time while she was gone everyday...

2007-07-19 01:38:47 · 22 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You know there's an excellent books for women and how to be assertive and not to be a pushover and point out mistakes women make........

But I wish there was a book for women and dating, how women can show confidence and assertiveness without sending a non-verbal message that she's a skank, wants attention, conceited, and all that bad stuff but rather intentionally send a message that she's assertive and confident, knows what she wants, does not tolerate inappropriate behavior, without being so aggressive it scares guys away to the point where noone is interested in dating her. Makes sense? To also put out a message that she doesn't seek attention nor acceptance, she wants to date but not attract guys for the wrong reasons.

2007-07-19 01:38:19 · 3 answers · asked by Inferna Dragon 1 in Singles & Dating

we leave in diff cities, met online 4yrs ago and met physically a few months later we love each other's company.he once asked me out but guess i was not ready for a relationship,guess when i eventaully was relaxed with him i tot he would ask me again but i got fustrated waiting for him to ask me out and delibrately cut off communication with him 6 months ago in order to let what i feel for him die. but just the other day i bumped into him at the airport and my heart started racing and almost jumped out of my mouth, my eyes went straight to see if he was wearing a wedding ring and found none( at least there is still hope, tot i had ll ost him forever) am afraid... what if he tells says that he loves someone else.

2007-07-19 01:34:30 · 2 answers · asked by gis.rita 1 in Singles & Dating

me and gf broken up about few months now since that time she called me most of time and called her less because i gues trying to forget her and we had bad/ good 2years. Anyway couple weeks ago she dad came from china and she invited for dinner couple times and go trip with them but i made some execuses not to go because i might feel sad again if i saw her guess wanted keep distance. Sometimes when i sit alone in my room or go some places i just remeber me and her spend time there oh god feels so pain and i dont listen love since she broken with me. what i can do, go to her or should find right girl whose right for me?

Please i need good advice feel so stress and sad.

2007-07-19 01:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 01:33:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 01:29:16 · 25 answers · asked by rain_tanishq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel very loney help if you dont know what to say to this question can you answer another?!

2007-07-19 01:21:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends