me and gf broken up about few months now since that time she called me most of time and called her less because i gues trying to forget her and we had bad/ good 2years. Anyway couple weeks ago she dad came from china and she invited for dinner couple times and go trip with them but i made some execuses not to go because i might feel sad again if i saw her guess wanted keep distance. Sometimes when i sit alone in my room or go some places i just remeber me and her spend time there oh god feels so pain and i dont listen love since she broken with me. what i can do, go to her or should find right girl whose right for me?
Please i need good advice feel so stress and sad.
2007-07-19 01:34:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In time, it will hurt less and less. I know it's hard not to think about her, but busy yourself with other things. Trust me, it will get better! Good Luck!
2007-07-19 05:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you feel cause I've been there and though I can say that I have move on already, there are times that I still feel hurt but all this life's triffles should make you stronger.
1. keep your self busy like sports, new career or hobby that you have trying to do before but did not able to becasue of the relationship.
2. meet new friends but don't jump into a new relationship becasue it will be unfair for the other person if you are not yet really ready to commit
3. Before, I thought that seeing my ex will help me to recover at least the thought that he is still there can comfort me but this are all WRONG. The best thing to move on is to start a new slate without him.
i stopped emailing, calling and checking his friendster and my space account, becasue the more I see it the more I got hurt.
4. Don't blame yourself for the break up, though you might have some share of faults, don't burden yourself for that. You have to built your self-esteem.
5. Have faith. Believe that the best is still waiting for you.and no matter you reconcile or not, there are many wonderful things that you can look forward too.
goodluck
2007-07-19 01:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by happy damsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal to have a period of sadness when you've ended a relationship, even if you know it was the right thing to do. You will feel better much sooner if you break off all contact with her. Talking to her or seeing her once in awhile only makes it harder for you to get on with your life.
Don't sit in your room and spend time alone when you feel sad. Get out and do something you enjoy. Go for a walk, run, bowl, see a funny movie, make new friends. Make new friends. Make new friends. Stay busy!!!
2007-07-19 01:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋