Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

im having a problem with my boyfriend a few weeks ago he bought me a car i only got to drive it for a week and that was it he has totally taken over my car and everytime i ask can i drive it he says no and i say but you bought it for me and he says but its in my name at this point i wish that the car will break down or im going to break it so what should i do we fight everyday over this stupid car

2007-07-19 04:13:27 · 12 answers · asked by cis1103shelleyneese 1 in Singles & Dating

He had dated the mother for a very short period of time (it was a one night stand) and has raised his "son" from the beginning. My fiance wants to continue being a father and will keep paying child support. He is torn as to if and when he should tell his son this information. He would, however, like to tell the mother he knows he is not the biological father so she will back off. (She is always calling for more money even though she gets child support. She also expects my fiance to take his son whenever it is convenient for her and it is always outside of the visitation agreement.) The problem is that this woman is very selfish and my fiance believes she will tell his son in a cruel and hurtful way in order to redeem herself and justify what she has done. (We believe she knew that my fiance was not the biological father and "trapped" him.) Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated?

2007-07-19 04:11:24 · 16 answers · asked by Jenna G 2 in Family

Living in someone else's world?
In the song sung by Gladys Knight and the Pips,
she sings that she would rather live in his world than with out him in mine. I don't get it. Does she not want to live and have her own life. I don't call that love. what do you think?

2007-07-19 04:11:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im 19 dating a 25 yr. old... wev been togther for 3 yrs. and i help him raise his 4yr. old daughter.... i pay the bills, tryn keep the house clean, nad cook whenever we actually have food... but no matter what i do people still c me as a lil gurl!!! its starten to piss me off so bad!!!! so neways my question is how Do i get people to c me as a women... and also is there a way to get commen sense? i kno that sounds stupid but im really smart jus soooo ditzy i ohnestly have no commen sense!!! and i really do try but for some reason its just not clicking!!!!! neways PLEASE HELP!!!! <3

2007-07-19 04:11:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel it is racist if one person refuses to date people of another race? For instance, if a black woman refuses to date white men? Or if a white woman refuses to date black men? Assume the motivation is simply that they do not find individuals of that race attractive. Feel free to give your opinion, but don't be nasty.

2007-07-19 04:11:15 · 8 answers · asked by beautifulirishgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

would you not date somebody because they have small boobs?

2007-07-19 04:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me your story. how, when, where? i want to know about it.

2007-07-19 04:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by heather o 2 in Weddings

Hey, I am Alexandria...Winter's Sister. I just called the church that my Brother-in-law, Rabbit Man goes to. To make a long story short, Rabbit Man's father ( The Prick) goes to the same church & has known that they are having a child since his birthday- April 22.
Well, I called to let the church know that my sister (Winter) is having complications, her back & her heart. Do you know that The PRICK, has never said a word to anyone in the congregation about HIS SON & DIL having a child! It mean these people just do not care about my sister, their SON or my nephew! And now to have another baby on the way and not say anything! My sister & I both think that they are ashamed of the fact that they are low income. They NEVER call them unless THEY want something..Like the family is getting together & the rest of the time..don't bother.
What would you do in this situation? Also, you have to remember, these are the folks that neglected their little boy, by not changing his diaper.
Chao!

2007-07-19 04:07:25 · 4 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Family

My man works nights and I only get to see him weekends, and I find it really hard. The weeks seem so long and I feel unfulfilled but when we are together I am so happy. He cant change his hours as he needs the money badly for another year, but I get so impatient sometimes. Don't know how to deal with it. I feel like I have a part time relationship

2007-07-19 04:04:49 · 18 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

How did you get your life back. Most women spend their lives taking care of the husband and kids and then boom the husband comes in and announces that he is trading you for a newer model.. After the shock, what steps did you take to reclaim your life?

2007-07-19 04:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes, of course knowing that she would require you to wait a while also, but not necessarily for marriage, just to lay out a solid relationship before introducing the physical aspects? What would you do if she told you this?

2007-07-19 04:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have been divorced for 13 years, but it ended badly and there is still a lot of bad blood between the two of them. They know that it's "my day" and I hope that they will behave, but you never know with the four of them. Any suggestions?

2007-07-19 03:59:50 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs.10/18/08 4 in Weddings

My Boyfriend and I have been living together for 8 months but the other day he got mad and punched me in the face (He's never done anything like this before).
His father used to physically abuse him when he was a kid so I'm worried that my boyfriend will follow in his footsteps.
When he punched me, he went white as a sheet, started crying and said how sorry he was over and over again. He's normally the nicest person you could ever meet.
I love him and really don't want to leave him, I'm just wondering what the right thing to do is.

2007-07-19 03:59:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many of you are honest people how many of you will tell the truth even if it means hurting the one you love

2007-07-19 03:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by rue 2 in Singles & Dating

this lady at my work is always on my back constantly like competing with me. it's so annoying. i met her about a year before I started working under her and she was cool but like a bullsh.i.tter.... if you know what i mean. says anything just to get along with people.

anyway... she copies the way i talk, act, and dress. it pisses me off a lot.

has anyone had this happen to him/her before?

2007-07-19 03:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Friends

My husband now cheated on me when were still engaged. Even though it was not a physical affair, he had feelings for someone else and had a relationship with her. They broke up because he was busted by his sister and he said he totally regretted it. We went through some counselling before we were married and he has been faithful ever since. It's been a year, but i still remember what he did to me. He did some very bad lies and deception and i remember them all. It has been more than a year and it still hurts so bad when i remember because we loved each other so deeply. I still couldn't believe that that happened between us. Now he keeps telling me he loves me but in the back of my mind, i wonder if he's just patronizing me or if he truly does love me. I am always fearful that he will betray me again. When will i get over this? I honesty try each day but it's so hard.

2007-07-19 03:52:14 · 21 answers · asked by Miss Fay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 03:52:06 · 41 answers · asked by dougness86 4 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my x 3 weeks ago due to her neglecting the relationship this all started when we had a big fight and i call her a bad name which she was offended by it ok i was wrong but i tried to make everything right afterward but it got to the point that the relationship was going down so one day i decided to break up with her because she started disrespecting me and im a firm believer that once u lose respect theres no relationship, now i see this girl almost every day, she always trying to get my attention i still like her n i know she likes me cuz the other day she call me and i ask me if i had a girl, she also said if i do she hopes this new girl treats me well as i deserve it
i want to get back with her but i dont know how to do it because i dont want to look desperate and like an idiot to break up and be the one running back
also do u think she s still interested in me because she always trying to get my attention
please help and any advice will work

2007-07-19 03:50:45 · 11 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 03:50:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 03:48:29 · 35 answers · asked by shahid s 1 in Weddings

My wife is usually quite level headed but with being bored in her job, wants to quit and go back to her home country for a few months. This would mean I have to cover the mortgage and other bills while she is away. I suppport her happiness so support her going home for a while.

But now she wants to bring her father over to here to work. He can't work here legally, and came here on a 'visit' last year and within one week he left our home to go and work. I thought it was crazy but he did it anyway.

It just seems that what her father says, she can't say no, but with me, virtually anything I want meets with resistance. Why is it so hard for her to accept that I don't want him here, because of the pressure he put on us, specifically her - before?

2007-07-19 03:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by jonoxk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i see it everywhere. people wear them proudly. i have a cousin and her and her boyfriend would show up to get togethers and partys with them all over their necks. We thought it was very disrespectful and kinda trashy. and it didnt look like they cared at all. what do you think when you see them on people? just curious.

2007-07-19 03:47:11 · 21 answers · asked by c dyan 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok.... I recently reunited with one of my elemenatry school friends about a month and a half ago. However, we've been talking online for about a year. I really really like this guy. I seriously haven't like a person this much before. He is smart, charming, funny, ambitious, caring, etc... the perfect guy for me. Not to mention that he's HOT!!! lol.

Now for the complicated part. He kinda has a girlfriend.... but she moved out of the states about a year ago and is not coming back for a while. I know this is wrong of me to do... and I knew what I was getting myself into. I feel horrible... but I can't stop thinking about this person. And everytime I try to end our "relationship" he tells me to stop playing!

I hate that I like him so much. I hate the fact that I am the "girl on the side."But I can't help how I feel. But I've taken steps to stop communicating with him; I deleted his number and is sn! But I still think about him all the time. What should I do?

2007-07-19 03:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would it be? And why would you change it?

2007-07-19 03:44:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in approximately 1990 I was married in San Diego and want to know if it is still on record?

2007-07-19 03:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by Kim M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought lot not to atleast use this medium to satisfy my this 15 yrs old erge but I could not restrain any more and here I m keping my all egos apart desparately needing some who can really help me out from this.

2007-07-19 03:43:14 · 3 answers · asked by abhishek s 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy 3 wks ago, and we were having good conversations. We started asking each other about our personal business. When I ask for his age, he was honest and told me he was only 20. and want be 21 til next February. I was like whoa...This guys is different from the others I've dated, and their ages range from 23-40. This guys works 2 jobs, and him and his sister have an apartment together. I have been able to stay with him over night. (thats something I never done before cause usually my guys dont have their own place). IF he's doing something like cleaning, or moving furniture, or etc..., he will give me his cell phone and say answer it, and don't care who call his phone. Ususally guys and ladies are skeptical about letting their mate answering the phone. I have been able to be in his house by myself. he wash my car, change oil, and even cook. Remeber I never had this before even with an older man. So what I am asking is should I ignore his age, and just keep on dating him.

2007-07-19 03:41:32 · 25 answers · asked by mschick79 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband holds everything inside and is less than open with me.....how can I get him to open up?

2007-07-19 03:41:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A few weeks ago my boyfriend lightly slapped me in the face in public and in front of his friends. It wasn't very hard and it didn't leave a mark or anything, but it was still disrespectful and demeaning. Since then I have seen him get angry and punch walls and other objects. He is normally very laid back, but now I am starting to wonder if these are signs of physical abuse to come. Are his actions indicators that he may become physically abusive in the future?

2007-07-19 03:39:35 · 45 answers · asked by linzy 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend of a few years likes me and has (he said) for a while...I'v had many guy friends who have liked me and no matter how cool i play it like no big deal...they always seam to end our friendship...be it because i started dating another guy and they said they cant stand to see me with another man or they make me choose between being being "with them" and ending our friendship or never talking to me again.....i can never seam to just get back to normal with them......how do i keep my best friend without ending out friendship and not getting into a relationship?????

2007-07-19 03:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating