Ok.... I recently reunited with one of my elemenatry school friends about a month and a half ago. However, we've been talking online for about a year. I really really like this guy. I seriously haven't like a person this much before. He is smart, charming, funny, ambitious, caring, etc... the perfect guy for me. Not to mention that he's HOT!!! lol.
Now for the complicated part. He kinda has a girlfriend.... but she moved out of the states about a year ago and is not coming back for a while. I know this is wrong of me to do... and I knew what I was getting myself into. I feel horrible... but I can't stop thinking about this person. And everytime I try to end our "relationship" he tells me to stop playing!
I hate that I like him so much. I hate the fact that I am the "girl on the side."But I can't help how I feel. But I've taken steps to stop communicating with him; I deleted his number and is sn! But I still think about him all the time. What should I do?
2007-07-19 03:44:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, last time i checked men aren't mind readers...tell him how u feel! it's not totally off the wall to ask him how serious he is with this chick (that is not here). let him know u wouldn't mind taking things a step further, since ur here and she's not. get the ball rolling. waiting for him to come to you is soooo 3rd century.
2007-07-19 03:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Angelface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's really still not available, even though the GF has moved. He has maintained a relationship with her, and he's keeping you in reserve. He's not that great if he's cheating on someone and stringing you along. You will end up getting hurt in the long run, and I think you are right to break it off. You deserve to be much more than "the girl on the side".
2007-07-19 03:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on , girl
your problem isn't that complicated. just be calm . and organize your way in thinking.
the solution is very easy . you are his friend right?
maybe his best friend too. you can make a good use of it.
you can know if he still loves her or he just liked her.
try to know about his feelings towards her . after that you can decide your next step. if he stopped thinking about her it means that she meant nothing to him and that you have a chance .
but if he still thinking about her as his lifetime love .
do nothing and try to accept the situation as just his friend or be away from him.
* Note :
don't deceive yourself by saying that you'll forget him by deleting his number.
we both know it's totally wrong
2007-07-19 04:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly recomend that you go and talk to him face to face and discuss the situation. If i were u i would when i see him in school say "Hey, your confusing the hell out of me." and then do a cute laugh. Then say "How come your not texting me anymore? It was cool when we used to. And your friend came up to me the other day asking if i liked you?" and from then on there will be a conversation and hopefully you will find out every answer to this question. You cant find out whats going on with him unless you ask him. Asking people on yahoo answers wont get you your answer. Nobody knows what hes thinking excpet for him. Hope this helped :)
2016-03-15 06:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he going to reunite with his girlfriend when she comes back, or is he sticking with you?
if he breaks up with her, you'd be The Rebound Girl... it's not fun.
if you are just seeing each other and spending time together, that's one thing, but if you are involved in a physical relationship you are not being fair to YOU....
your best bet is to consider what he wants (have you discussed this, or do you already know?).
dont' be the second-hand girl, or the temporary replacement girl.... it's not very dignified.
of course you can't help how you feel.. you are attracted to him. it will be a shame if you end up getting hurt, that's what i'm concerned about.
hugs.
2007-07-19 03:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no legal document stating that you can't break up with an out-of-state girlfriend. If he likes you he can dump her. It's not like he's married.
2007-07-19 03:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by laurita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you start is how you'll finish.Don't be so quick to start a relationship with him while he has a girlfriend just wait and see what happens if it is meant to be it will.
2007-07-19 04:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by creassongs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly - you need to be "woman" enough to stop this now. How, being a girl, can you do this to another woman. He loves neither one of you - or there would only be one of you. you are being selfish and are going to get hurt as well the only difference between you and her being hurt is you will deserve it by heplining it happen.
2007-07-19 03:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him.
If he was SUCH a great guy, then why is he cheating on a girl who trusts him, just because she is out of the States?
If he can cheat on her, he can and will cheat on you, too.
2007-07-19 03:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by ivy_shadowfare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find a man that doesn't have a women already or be women enough to be honest with your self how would u feel if u were her u would be so mad i hope .don't forget he cheat ts on her he'll cheat on u
2007-07-19 03:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by rue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋