i broke up with my x 3 weeks ago due to her neglecting the relationship this all started when we had a big fight and i call her a bad name which she was offended by it ok i was wrong but i tried to make everything right afterward but it got to the point that the relationship was going down so one day i decided to break up with her because she started disrespecting me and im a firm believer that once u lose respect theres no relationship, now i see this girl almost every day, she always trying to get my attention i still like her n i know she likes me cuz the other day she call me and i ask me if i had a girl, she also said if i do she hopes this new girl treats me well as i deserve it
i want to get back with her but i dont know how to do it because i dont want to look desperate and like an idiot to break up and be the one running back
also do u think she s still interested in me because she always trying to get my attention
please help and any advice will work
2007-07-19 03:50:45 · 11 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
here's my best answer:
she is an ex for a reason.
she hasn't changed, but she looks attractive because you were involved and i'm sure there were good times.
she will not behave differently if you get back together, so you have to decide if it's worth the stress.
take care
2007-07-19 03:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are a really nice guy and there aren't too many of them left.You need to let her go and sit back and enjoy her attention to you. She screwed up not you. Trust me I have been married to a man that throws the respect down the toilet almost every other day and you DO NOT want that. You are worthy of a woman that will treat you right! This one has already shown her true colors.Just keep looking for the right girl and embrace all of the first's you get to do again. first kiss first touch first date - make the most of life and embrace happiness! Good luck.
2007-07-19 04:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph & Eileen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants something that she doesn't have, but doesn't want it when she had it. Disrespect is unacceptable and she may be just testing the waters to see if you are still interested. She may have realized what she did wrong, but that doesn't mean you should get back together. Did she ask for forgiveness? Did she say she wants to get back together? Make her come out and say it, otherwise I would assume it's just flirting. Breaking up is hard on a person's ego and she may feel she just needs the attention to prove to herself that she is still attractive and a good person.
2007-07-19 03:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by Linda K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Ray! You just need to tell her flat out, like I told you. You need to say, we had a lot of problems, but I am hoping we could work past them. I think that a small break was all that we needed to see that we are perfect for each other, you know that we were meant to be together, so can we just forget that this whole thing happened? Say, " I Love You". All of this is what she wants to hear. I am so happy that you two are going to try and patch things up again. I can tell that you two really love each other. Good Luck!
2007-07-19 04:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Fook Yu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, not sure how many relationships u've been in, but it looks like u may have jumped the gun on this one. find ur m.o. and stick with it. u have to make the decision whether u want to put urself out there (again) with this chick and risk being destroyed. personally, when i leave, i leave. no ifs, ands or butts. but that's me. if u really like this girl and if she seems sincere in her attempts to make things right this time around then go for it, dude. nothing worse than turning around and ur 40, alone and living in ur mom's basment cuz u let the girl of ur dreams go. when/if she comes back, lay down a few guidelines (not rules) and make her aware of situations that u will not tolerate. u both just need to TALK. and that's all i have to say about that.
2007-07-19 03:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angelface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it style of seems such as you're an exceedingly advantageous guy and there are not too a lot of them left.you may desire to enable her bypass and relax and revel in her interest to you. She screwed up no longer you. have confidence me I even have been married to a guy that throws the honour down the lavatory very nearly another day and you do no longer want that. you're worth of a woman which will cope with you perfect! This one has already shown her genuine colorations.in simple terms shop searching for the nicely suited woman and include all the 1st's you get to do back. first kiss first touch first date - income on existence and include happiness! good success.
2016-10-09 01:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like nothing has changed. Remember these problems you mentioned about her? Well, I bet you will see them again if you get back with her. Even you get back with her now, then it is very easy for you or her to down the same path again which will result another break up. So, she is your Ex, move on unless she is a changed person now. Only then, you Could give her a second chance if you like to gamble.
2007-07-19 04:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by coldrain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you wouldn't be the one running back to her, because she's trying to get you back. So just ask her if she wants to get back together the next time she calls. Say you didn't think it was working out very well before for whatever reasons but that you are willing to try it again.
2007-07-19 03:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time, obvioulsy u both need to regain trust, put this issue behind you and hopefully work it out. maaybe ask her out to dinner and admit your faults and see if u can stat over. she might be willing to give u a second chance. be a good guy and learn from ur mistakes!
2007-07-19 03:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to dinner and discuss it like adults....talk about what went wrong and how you and her will fix it...together, so its mutual and not depserate...good luck, and next time don't break up with her so quick, because you'll just be doing this again...
2007-07-19 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by suitablepenname 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋