I miss him so much?

Question

My man works nights and I only get to see him weekends, and I find it really hard. The weeks seem so long and I feel unfulfilled but when we are together I am so happy. He cant change his hours as he needs the money badly for another year, but I get so impatient sometimes. Don't know how to deal with it. I feel like I have a part time relationship

Answer 1

It's touch, but not forever... be strong and stand by him... it's what he needs too... your support.. It's tough for him too

Answer 2

I have been in a long distance relationship in the past and there were times I didn't see him for a month or so. I know exactly what you are going through. One thing I do know for sure is that distance makes the heart grow fonder. It's hard not seeing him everyday or even once or twice a week but once you do get to spend time together you cherish that time togther more. I have lived with my current boyfriend for 2 years now and the most that we have been apart has been 5 days and even that short time I miss the hell out of him. You are always going to miss him and want to see him more. Just think about how much fun you are going to have when you finally have him in your arms and spending time together.

Answer 3

Sweetheart, I applaud you for being supportive and for staying with him... Its hard to find someone like you to support a guy with a job such as that, I used to do the overnight thing for a year and a half and believe me, it makes you feel so bad and your life just slips away so fast. My advice would be to talk to him about this, tell him that when he's away you miss him so much, that it would be nice to hear from him, maybe he can TXT you from his job, or maybe write you letters, or send you emails, or maybe chat for a few minutes on the phone... Communication is key in a realtionship and that is the solution to your problem, you miss him so much because you don't see enough of him, You two probably have conflicting schedules, but thats ok, just make sure he knows how you feel, if he doesn't take the initiative, you do it, TXT him, email him, call him... do whatever you can to make it clear that you are there for him. I hope this helps and I wish you the best in your relationship, take care.

Answer 4

hi

i have been in the same situation as you for the past 3 years, sometimes he even works weekends so i don't see him all week!! I'm afraid all you can do is just put up with it, sometimes you have to make sacrifices in order for a better rewards, trust me, i've been living my Mother in law for 3 years without my husband around and it has not been easy, she's quite sly where she will bully me when my husband's not around and be so sweet when he is. That's why i hate it when he's not around but it has all been worth it as our relationship has become stronger and when we are together it's always good. We can now even afford to move out!! So it has all been worth it although not easy.
Perhaps you should take up some hobbies to fill in your free time and before you know it your man will be back from work and you can spend some time together.
I know it's not ideal, but sometimes you just have to grin and bear it and support him.

Answer 5

Your staments are truly unserstandably !! & I'm sorry that you are having a lonely feeling for any part of just ``a`` day !!. Now an entire WEEK can be bothersome I'm sure !?!. But YOU`' stated that the weekends are times that you do have time together .. I've known marriges like that !! even when I was a kid !! But some`.how they made it work !! into the decades some of them !! I never knew exactly how they did it !?! I'm sorry I just do'nt have a good answer!?! Or even a suggestion right now !! But do wish you luck in finding a path that's right for you !!& your love intrest !! ~!!! "R"r`r,r'r.r`r,'->

Answer 6

So now you have a part time five year open relationship with a guy who doesn't do kissing and you are missing him. You need to start living in the real world Jasmine- get a life for you- you explore the world a little- take your mind off him and meet other guys and seek out a proper relationship.

Answer 7

I imagine it would be frustrating, but he's doing it to better you're lives and thats how you have to think of it. Just do what I'm sure you're doing now, make the most of the time you do get together, and know that it won't be forever.

Don't let it put to much strain on your relationship, just remember why he's doing it, and your love will see you through!

Answer 8

Be patient, this is a good test of your relationship and do not forget that good things come to those who wait. There are people in way worse situations than this such as partners whose spouses are overseas in the military. Not only are they apart but live daily with the question will they ever see them again.

Answer 9

i suppose you love this man and cant live without him , savour every minute of your time together do you work also if not you could cuddle up in bed together and find hobby's to occupy your mind , if its just for another year focus on that and that should help make some friends and hang out with them at least you wont feel so alone hope this help

Answer 10

Have you no life of your own? Get a hobby or something,go out with friends..i certainly wouldn't sit moping around i would just look forward to the weekend and carry on with my life through the week.How dio you think your man copes having to work all those hours...give him a break and enjoy yourself,your life shouldn't revolve around him.

Answer 11

keep the love inside your heart. he must have miss you badly as well. for the 2 of you, try to enjoy whatever time you have together. make full use.
when he cant be there for you, write him little cards, telling how much you love him and miss him. at least he know you care and makes him work harder. you can text him sweet messages and plan for weekends.

sometimes in life you try your best to do something, but something bad sure hinders you, its up to you on how you want to see it.

i am sure as long as you put in heart, things will work just fine. strong for yourself and your love one.

hope it helps