Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

That is the way that it seem with the answers given> I am curious to know whether there is anyone else.

2007-07-19 05:52:35 · 24 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past little while now he has been going out after work. He is done at 9pm, so yes the kids are in bed by that time. He hasn't been calling or anything to let me know that he is going out. I work all day as well, and I would like to have some time to go out, he feels this is ok and has told me many times before "that he is going to do what he wants and i better get used to it". Well I am sick of it, I have tried everything to get him to understand how I feel. He says he needs to wine down after work so he goes out. Monday to Thursday he us usually home by 11, but on Friday's he doesn't get home until at least 2am. And then has the nerve to be mad at me because i am angry with him. I never know where he is or who he is with, he says I should be happy he even comes home at all. We do nothing together as a couple, maybe it is time to just call it quites before I make the mistake and marry him? Any and all advice would be great, thank you.

2007-07-19 05:52:18 · 32 answers · asked by Erin 2 in Singles & Dating

Where did you meet?

How long after the divorce did you meet?

Did you find it hard to let go and love?

Did your kids accept the person.

Adulterers and those who met while still living with the spouse or those who left the spouse for someone else, Don't answer. I know YOUR answers to all of these question.

2007-07-19 05:49:01 · 1 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Singles & Dating

You are involved with someone who you love, but haven't been able to spend time with due to many circumstances. This person is in indecision too with what your joint plans are. You continue to ask when you can see each other again and get no answer. In the meantime, you have a friend that is starting to spark an interest in you and that is starting to appeal to you. If the love in you is being pushed away do you decide to try and end things and seek the attention of another who sparks that interest or remain faithful to someone who can't decide whether you will ever see each other again. It's a great tug on the heart.

2007-07-19 05:47:15 · 13 answers · asked by XXXXXX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 05:47:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old and have been married to my husband for almost three years now. About a year ago he had a severe episode which included paranoia, panic attacks, sleeplessness and was suicidal which resulted in a hospital stay. After he was released, his pyschiatrist diagnosed him as bipolar. This past year with him has been a real roller coaster for me and he's lost two jobs due to his illness. I am not sure if he's ever going to be able to work productively again. The worst thing is that he's in denial about his mental illness and there have been three times this year where he procedes to stop taking his meds (Zyprexa). We have no children together and even though I love him I am extremely hesitant about commiting the rest of my life to him knowing the sacrifices I am going to have to make. I will most likely have to support him financially and I do not want to have children with him. Is this selfish of me to want out? Any advice would help.

2007-07-19 05:46:53 · 14 answers · asked by sunnydelight79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, heres da deal. My girlfriend and i have been having some problems lately. So all of a sudden, shes asking me for time off? What does time off exactly mean to her????????? she loves me, i know she does, and she told me she will be back with me, but she needs her little space. i am a little bit of a jealous guy, i admit. maybe that could be a reason. Weve been together for alost nine months, and i see her almost everyday of the week, about 5 days. could that be an issue too? I just dont know, i liove her and i want her back, but i want to know what the deal is?

2007-07-19 05:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by CHRIS R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 05:45:19 · 49 answers · asked by shanekeavy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 13 and my gf is 14. she has an older brother that is going to 16. Why is it that her dad doesnt want her to have a boyfriend? he made her break up with me once in the past, but we got back together. is it because she is the youngest and doesnt want her growing up? serious answers only please

thanks

2007-07-19 05:44:55 · 10 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend just caught me having a threesome with her brother and her mothers sisters second cousin from a previous marriage. My question is...............











Which aspirin works better, Tylenol or Advil?

2007-07-19 05:43:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has this invention that he wants to go to this show to promote. He wasn't planning on going because he didn't think his invention was going to be done by then but it turns out it is, so it's only been the last month and 1/2 that he's been planning this. Well the show is going to cost a total of about $1500-2000 to go to, which we were working hard to make sure we had. However he lost his job 2 weeks ago and he just started a new job yesterday. He still thinks he's going to this show even though he missed 2 weeks worth of pay. So I came up with a plan that if he works the next 4 or 5 saturdays and also cuts his child support in half then he will have the money to go to the show. He can repay the child support after the show. He's trying to act like he shouldn't have to go the extra mile for this show that he should just be able to take the money used to pay our bills to go. What do you think?? Oh and I am 9 months pregnant!!!!!!

2007-07-19 05:41:54 · 11 answers · asked by angel32984 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I recently met this guy and he's nice (he's 27 and I'll be 24 in 2 weeks). I was at his apartment yesterday and we were fooln' around...like makn' out, cuddln' and he was allllll over my boobs! Haha!
But I told him that I was still a virgin, which I am and that I'm waiting until marriage. And yet, he still kept on going. Basically, we were both topless and laying on his couch and well......ok I dont want to get this deleted, so let's just say, I made him *** in his pants, ok?! Haha! It was fun, but there's noooo way I'm gonna really have sex with him or any other guy who's not my husband!

He still seems to like me, but I feel bad staying with him, because he obviously wants more! What should I do? Do you think after all that, its possible for us to just be friends? Or will that piss him off? Im pretty sure he understands that I wanna stay a virgin, because we're both Persian, so he knows where I'm comin' from... Suggestions? Thoughts? Advice?

2007-07-19 05:41:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two younger brothers and I always feel bad for the younger one because the older one says mean things to him and acts like he's better than him. Me and the younger one get along great, but he gets ignored by the older brother and feels left out when this happens.

2007-07-19 05:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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amayseng
S Why would a wife say?
what does it mean when your wife of 8 months tells you for 3 months that she cannot be intimate with you, that it is not in her heart to be intimate with you? and you havent cheated or done anything wrong.

2007-07-19 05:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

guy friend flirted with me about us hooking up. the thing is he has a gf overseas and is engaged to her and knew I developed a deep crush on him. We exchanged a few words about getting together like where we do it, and if we would use protection, etc. I was really falln 4 him and he told me that it was best that i focus on someone else. anyway a few days later, I texted him to wish him Happy New Year's and he didn't text back and i got upset and called him a dog. I then wrote him a note apologizing to him and suggested that we stop texting each other about sex. Weeks later, he looked at me like he was angry but still said hi. I emailed him asking him if he was still upset and that it might be best that we treat each other as coworkers. he replied back and told me that i was too weird and that he was just jokin and that i should get some friends and a bf. Now I don't talk to him or even look his way, since I have mixed emotions about this, embarrassement, guilt,
anger, sadness.

2007-07-19 05:39:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night my gf was telling me her problem's with her parents. I listen to what she has to say and usually let her vent. Sometimes i start to worry about her problems and they bother me for a while. This is one thing that bothers me.
She told me last night that her parents always tell her to do things instead of asking. When she tries to bring this problem up with them they say shes being ungratefull ect.. She also said that they walk into her room and invade her privacy. When she locks her door *to change clothes ect.* they get upset and say shes trying to hide something. Right now my gf is 19 and in the next year she will go away to college. I dont think theres anything she can do except to get along with her parents. But what do you think and am i correct to be upset here?

2007-07-19 05:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by treeofwisdom7 3 in Family

If someone attends your shower and gives you a gift, you obviously send them a thank you. If they also attend the wedding, but do not bring another gift (which is absolutely fine by me), do you still send them a thank you for attending - or are the thank you's only for the people who send a gift?

Just trying to figure out when to send thank yous - - - I don't want to leave anyone out by mistake.

2007-07-19 05:38:25 · 15 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

Been with my wonderful girl just over a year, when we started seeing each other i joked and said, aye engaged in a year, married in three, and i was pretty serious about it. bought a ring etc, but before i coudl give her it we had an unplanned pregnancy and miscarriage. i crumpled and never gave her the ring, this hurt her badly. she wants us to try for a baby, but isn't bothered about getting married now, says it doesn't matter, that getting engaged with just be a reminder of when we didn't and that having a kid is a bigger commitment anyway. i don;t want to try for a kid yet, i want ot be engaged, i want to be married, then i want to have children with her. we fight about it now and then, and if i could i'd turn back the clock, propose and hope she didn't miscarriage....

i'm in so much pain, i am hopelessly in love with her but i have failed to give her what she wanted, what she needed again and again this year. Feel like a failure, what can i do to make things better???

2007-07-19 05:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by Derek J Kered 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have just a general problem with jealousy, and it is a side of myself I hate. I feel jealous when two of my friends do something together without me, even tho I know it doesn't mean anything. If someone my boyfriend and I are both friends with texts him and not me, it bothers me. I even feel jealous of my younger brother at times! He is much more social than I, meets people easily, and I wish I could be like that. How can I stop being so jealous? I don't want it to start affecting my relationships

2007-07-19 05:37:42 · 3 answers · asked by Megan 4 in Friends

My partner is leaving and intending to leave the country aswell.How do i go about arranging child support etc.He's Canadian by nationalitybut has residency here.

2007-07-19 05:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by Ally L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 05:36:10 · 9 answers · asked by Angellina4ever 1 in Friends

i mean like somene youve seen on yahoo answers, or a sales person on the phone.

2007-07-19 05:35:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, this seriously is no joke and uh I looked it up on my phone bill, so it's not a lie: there is this guy and he likes me a lot, we have been friends since 6th grade, and he liked me more than a friend at the time. In 7th grade he started getting obssessed and my friend gave him my phone number, b/c she didn't think it would be a prob. Now these are real amounts below:

He calls me: 43 times a day

He txt messages me: 62 times a day

(those are the highest numbers, below are the lowest numbers)

He calls me: 27 times a day

He txt messages me: 42 times a day

I have asked him politely to stop many times, he has said okay but he just keeps doing it. I then tried asking rudely and he got mad at me and said I just care about you but fine whatever I will stop, but then he continued. His txt messages are uncomfortable sometimes too and he talks about like what he is going to name our kids and like I love you baby. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~Genevive~

2007-07-19 05:35:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend and I have talked online for several years. We live two hours from each other and have never met. He recently said that he cares for me very much. He knows I have a fiance and I am already in a relationship. I didn't know he felt this way and if I did, I would have said No when my BF asked me for marry him. I told my friend that I can't meet him because that would be the wrong thing to do to my fiance. My fiance doesn't want me to meet him and said he would be VERY upset if I did. My friend has said that if I don't meet him then he will never speak to me again. He said he has to do this because being "just friends" is too painful. I have tried over and over again to tell him that I don't want to lose him as a friend. I didn't know he had those feelings for me and I don't want to hurt him. He's stopped talking to me and stopped responding to my emails. Am I wrong for not meeting him or is he wrong for acting this way? What should I do?

2007-07-19 05:35:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i would put a pic, but i dont want to get tracked down or something. umm i got brown hair, short, baby blue eyes, athletic, 6 foot, 14, 165, not fat, (dont have a six pack either tho :( umm.. as far as style, i just wear athletic clothes most of the time, t-shirt and jeans or shorts most of the time.

2007-07-19 05:34:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 05:34:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cierra A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who else has been hurt? By a parent, spouse, friend, or just someone close to you? Tell me your pain. . . cause I’m hurting as well. . .

2007-07-19 05:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by electric ✖ 6 in Family

My parents were on a trip I did some wrong stuf, bad friends made up my mind. When they came back, they got upset but weren't so harsh. I was grounded for 2 months but was lowed some fun and mom talked a lot w/ me, treated me w/ love. But for these 2 months she controlled me. I had to do chores and attend a culinary course. That sucked but she was strict. And since during the time I messed up I was dressing in a way she didn't approve, especially because I didn't wear a bra, she made me dress with more modesty and got me some bras that cover a lot of my breasts and give much support, to compensate for the time I was braless. I don't like them but didn't complain. Well, today she said she liked the way I behaved during my grounding, said I was forgiven, everything was over, trusts I wont mess up again. But she decided to keep me wearing the bras she gave me and I'll have to finish my culinary course. I dont like those bras and hate that course. And I even have to wear a sweet apron.

2007-07-19 05:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anabela 1 in Family

Some 20 years ago I was a very "actual" person. I was also a man that was very controling and very stern or harsh to my children. In fact I was an abusive parent, mostly vocally but also physically and mentally cruel. It took me a long time to understand my behavior was wrong, because I believed that I was not doing anything worse than was done to me as a kid. (I was completly wrong). My relationship with my kids is better after both individual and family counseling at the time. I wish I could take it all back.

Do any of you struggle with this issue? Are you seeking help?
any thoughts?

2007-07-19 05:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by ImJstBob 4 in Family

I am interested in hearing any experiences, good or bad, concerning online dating services. Are there any agencies that are better than others? Is the whole thing just a crock?

2007-07-19 05:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by animalover 4 in Singles & Dating