My parents were on a trip I did some wrong stuf, bad friends made up my mind. When they came back, they got upset but weren't so harsh. I was grounded for 2 months but was lowed some fun and mom talked a lot w/ me, treated me w/ love. But for these 2 months she controlled me. I had to do chores and attend a culinary course. That sucked but she was strict. And since during the time I messed up I was dressing in a way she didn't approve, especially because I didn't wear a bra, she made me dress with more modesty and got me some bras that cover a lot of my breasts and give much support, to compensate for the time I was braless. I don't like them but didn't complain. Well, today she said she liked the way I behaved during my grounding, said I was forgiven, everything was over, trusts I wont mess up again. But she decided to keep me wearing the bras she gave me and I'll have to finish my culinary course. I dont like those bras and hate that course. And I even have to wear a sweet apron.
2007-07-19 05:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anabela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ah, I'm 13
2007-07-19 05:32:46 · update #1
You need to wear a bra like it or not and you need to learn to finish what you start. Even though it was your mother's idea to take the course you still started it and need to finish it. Maybe next time you'll think before you act.
2007-07-19 05:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The culinary school is no big deal. Wear the stupid apron and make something wonderful for your parents. They have been fair and incredibly understanding. As for the bras keep wearing them and as time goes on ask your Mom for new ones that are suitable to girls your age. You must learn to compromise if you want to be treated like the young woman you are be coming. You Mom loves you and only wants what's best for you. Stop being so dramatic about everything.
2007-07-19 05:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your mom has dealt with you tremendously extremely. proceed with the direction (you would be SO happy you recognize that stuff once you're on your guy or woman!) and with the bras for now. when you end the direction (and you're nevertheless on your suitable behaviour) you may ask your mom to think again the bras. although - in case you provide your breasts perfect help now, they are going to be much less possibly to sag later!!! If the bras are uncomfortable, tell your mom now and ask her in case you could swap the kind you're wearing... she possibly needs you to have something with finished-coverage, yet a prompt unlined bra (attempt one from hanes or jockey) could be extra delicate for you while you're used to no longer wearing something. additionally, you like a much broader strap or racer-back (the straps won't fall off your shoulders). and confirm you hav the main suitable length! Many shops have a bra-setting up expert who will help you get the main delicate extra wholesome.
2016-12-10 16:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre mom is just looking out for youre best interset and you have to wear a good supportive bra and you dont wont people to call you names and make fun of you how you dress and you may not like the course but as you get older you will appreciate what she made you do and you will appreciate her caring about you and loving you she just wonts the best for you and its nothing wrong with that
2007-07-19 05:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My Dear, at 13, you have no choice, I have 3 daughters, your mother loves you so much, and she truly wants to trust you ,more then you know. But once trust is lost, you need to really work hard, to regain a very valuable asset, that you lost. Do as you are doing, no fussing, that is a start to victory, for your Mothers trust.
2007-07-19 06:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are only 13! you shouldn't behave in such a way! and listen to your mom, b/c believe me they do know best! i know you probably just want to have fun but if you don't do what you need to do know, you will find it harder to do later on in life! i left home when i was 16 and i REGRET it! i didn't finish high school and know i'm trying to get my GED but it's very stressing b/c i also work full time! you need to enjoy your teen years as well as do well in school so you could have more time for fun once your older!
2007-07-19 05:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by me, me, and me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect your question, and hey you seem to be a decent kid, some advice, your 13, listen to mom and come back when you are at least 18.
2007-07-19 05:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like, don't do it again.
Your 13, she'll forgive you. My parents forgave me when I burned down our boat house at a party. (it was the sweetest party ever!) I was 16 then.
2007-07-19 05:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by davidthought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fair to me..Bare in mind you are too young to act like a s l u t!
2007-07-19 05:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Stanley the Westie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
part of life is learning to deal with the consequences of your actions.
2007-07-19 05:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Koppu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋