Ok, heres da deal. My girlfriend and i have been having some problems lately. So all of a sudden, shes asking me for time off? What does time off exactly mean to her????????? she loves me, i know she does, and she told me she will be back with me, but she needs her little space. i am a little bit of a jealous guy, i admit. maybe that could be a reason. Weve been together for alost nine months, and i see her almost everyday of the week, about 5 days. could that be an issue too? I just dont know, i liove her and i want her back, but i want to know what the deal is?
2007-07-19 05:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by CHRIS R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heres the deal..........she loves you a lot but she wants time to herself because she sees you almost everyday. she likes you but wants time with other people too that she doesnt get to see as much. dont worry about it she just wants to have some time to spend with those she loves that she never sees.
just be patient and give her her time alone and be understanding although it is hard she will love you more for it. she will realize how much she misses you anf come back to you. i would wait a week and if she doesnt come back i would surprise her with flowers and a nice dinner. but anything less than a week of your waiting would make you seem obsessed which is not what she wants. she may come back before the end of the week anyways. who knows? good luck! :)
2007-07-19 05:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she means Time Out which means for her to be alone in her thoughts to see if she wants to continue the relationship. There is nothing you can do about it. Sad to say that people do not change. Good luck.
2007-07-19 06:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the time she wants, if she wants it give it to her. If she thinks that it will help her get her ideas and thoughts about your relationship together then give it to her. And I know that this may hurt you but it may also help you. You just have faith about it, ask her is there anything that she needs from you to help her through her process....Just think positive and hope for the best babe.
2007-07-19 05:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Myanna513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time - - totally. Also, don't hold your breath of if she will or will not return. Move on (I don't mean start dating).
Jealous = lack of trust.
Lack of trust = not true love.
If you don't trust her, you need to move in a different direction.
If you do trust her, there is no reason to be jealous.
2007-07-19 06:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Carole Q 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her y she needs time off . if u r shure she loves u then go and ask dont waste ur time buddy
2007-07-19 05:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by nauman_is4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋