I have two younger brothers and I always feel bad for the younger one because the older one says mean things to him and acts like he's better than him. Me and the younger one get along great, but he gets ignored by the older brother and feels left out when this happens.
2007-07-19 05:40:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to the older brother one on one, and ask him why he feels the need to do this. yeah this is normal behavior, but not necessary. Spend lots of quality time with the younger one and older one together. Maybe the older brother is feeling a little alienated by your relationship with the younger one.
2007-07-19 05:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah (the bear!) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, they're both your brothers, and as the oldest one, people usually expect you to have some responsibility. if this is the case, i think you should talk to your older younger brother and ask him why he treats your younger younger brother like he does, and teach him that it is wrong, and not just like 'don't treat your bro like that- it's wrong.' you should talk to him seriously, or else it's going to get very depressing for your youngest brother. He seems like a nice fellow, and he should deserve to be cared for by his siblings, not bullied. Ask your older younger brother how he would feel if you treated him like that. i'm sure he will get along with your other brother fine eventually.
2007-07-19 06:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you're the oldest, you should take charge. Tell them that it is not okay to be mean to on another. That you must be nice. Maybe talk to you're parents about it? It is also just a sibling thing. My siblings and I went through it. I'm the youngest, and it stopped when I was about thirteen. I mean, think about you live with each other. You see each other 24/7, and can get annoyed with each other. Have you ever spent too much time with a friend? It's just like that. But this is actually a simple solution, maturity will come with time. And if you don't want to wait, then tell them its not okay. Simple as that!
Good luck!
2007-07-19 05:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hear you i got alot of sblings. try to get htem to get along. make something they both like and have them eat together or take them out together. you can alwyas talk to the older bro and let him know how the younger one is feeling.
2007-07-19 05:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Maricela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the older brother and ask him why he feels the need to do that
2007-07-19 05:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem, these things happened usually in the families.
2007-07-19 05:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah get use to it, family like that.. yours aint the only one thats for sure.
2007-07-19 09:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋