ok, this seriously is no joke and uh I looked it up on my phone bill, so it's not a lie: there is this guy and he likes me a lot, we have been friends since 6th grade, and he liked me more than a friend at the time. In 7th grade he started getting obssessed and my friend gave him my phone number, b/c she didn't think it would be a prob. Now these are real amounts below:
He calls me: 43 times a day
He txt messages me: 62 times a day
(those are the highest numbers, below are the lowest numbers)
He calls me: 27 times a day
He txt messages me: 42 times a day
I have asked him politely to stop many times, he has said okay but he just keeps doing it. I then tried asking rudely and he got mad at me and said I just care about you but fine whatever I will stop, but then he continued. His txt messages are uncomfortable sometimes too and he talks about like what he is going to name our kids and like I love you baby. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~Genevive~
2007-07-19 05:35:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We're in ninth grade and he sits at the lunch table i sit at and he makes perverted looks and sounds and me and like touches my leg and stuff and he is always like i really wanna kiss you right now.....i've asked him to move, i have gone to the conselor and she told me i was being rude and inconsiderate of his feelings and to be nice to people. I'm sick of it and i can't take it anymore!!!!!
2007-07-19 05:37:16 · update #1
Find a different counselor. Or go to the assistant principal or head principal. Tell them that he is making you very uncomfortable at school. They should be able to do something for you when you're at school. Tell your parents as well. They might try contacting his parents to get him to stop. This is harassment and you don't need to put up with this. You could also try getting a new number as well.
2007-07-19 05:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by scoobydoo316316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you have your very own stalker.
Explain the situation to your parents, your dean/counselor, and your principal. Show them the bill and detail the number of times he has called/texted you, and show them the content of the messages. Tell them that you are have requested him many times to stop, and you're worried that he may have serious emotional issues and an obsessive disorder.
The counselor probably thought you were being rude because I'm willing to bet that all she heard was you yelling at the guy, and then you complaining to her about what a jerk he is... and I bet you didn't start from the beginning and explain the entire situation to her. Don't expect other people to understand the urgency of your needs unless you tell them the entire story, sticking to just the facts, from start to finish.
Also, have you considered the simple solution of simply blocking his number? Almost all cell phones and home phone lines offer this service.
2007-07-19 05:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell you parents and CALL THE COPS on the bastard.
2. Change your phone number.
3. Document everything.
4. Drop your friend for aiding and abetting a stalker.
5. Sue his sorry *** for the phone bill and pain and suffering.
6. Report to the proper authorities that he's sexually harrassing you. Your school counselor is obviously not on your side, so it needs to be reported. You don't need to be harrassed anymore. Don't be afraid of your parents, they'll be on your side because they don't want to see you hurt. I know it's awkward because you're a teenager, but in this case you really need them in your corner because this asshole has broken the law. Because this is a legal matter your parents have to take responsibility for you since you are a minor.
NEVER FEAR BEING MEAN TO SOMEONE WHO MAKES YOUR LIFE HELL!!!
2007-07-19 05:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Drowzeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 21:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by gracely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents what is going on and the school counsellor needs to get their priorities straight.Get your parents to go to school with you and get this problem solved.Take the phone bill with you as proof.
This foolish guy is harrassing you and it has to stop.Sounds to me like he can't be trusted and could end up being dangerous.
The counsellor sounds a though they need some counselling themselves.I've never heard of such a thing.They're supposed to be there to help you.
Get your parents to act on this now and they need to report that counsellor.
2007-07-19 05:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your counselor is an idiot. It sounds like this guy is harassing you. It is good that you were polite at first, but he still hasn't stopped. I would talk to your parents about this and try to have his number blocked on your cell or change your number so that he can't call you anymore.
2007-07-19 05:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your parents invovled. You need a restraining order against this guy. Do not let him touch you at all. I would be very upset with the 'friend" that gave him your number - not a friend to do that. Please contact the police about what you can get this guy to stop also contact a lawyer if he is touching you and following you and calling you it is harrassment and you can sue him and the school for not stopping it.
2007-07-19 05:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't there ways on your phone service to "block" his number. You can report him to the FCC.
Bigger problem is that "counselor" - he/she should be reported to others in the School. He/She has put the school in a legal risk position by not taking your complaint seriously.
2007-07-19 05:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get his number blocked for both phone calls and text messages
2007-07-19 05:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by SKully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let youre parents know what is going on and i would change my phone numbers and i would try to avoid him and i would go talk to the principle about it the counseler is and idiot she should of helped you youre parents can get something done about this this is harrassment and you need to tell them before it gets worse ok good luck and tell youre friend to not give out youre phone number no more
2007-07-19 05:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋