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amayseng
S Why would a wife say?
what does it mean when your wife of 8 months tells you for 3 months that she cannot be intimate with you, that it is not in her heart to be intimate with you? and you havent cheated or done anything wrong.
2007-07-19 05:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like your wife is cheating on you. You need to talk with her and get her to admit the real reason why she won't have sex with you.
2007-07-19 05:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you have problems and the explanation is inadequate. What have you done (or not done) to lose the connection with her? Ask her.
I had a friend who went through some problems like this. Eventually, when they went on a cruise together, she could hardly wait to get off the boat, although she seemed to have a good time with some ladies she met.
In a couple of months they divorced because she was a lesbian.
2007-07-19 12:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's doing this kind of thing already then she wasn't ready to marry you. My friend recently went through the same thing. They were married one year. Just long enough to have a child. For most of that year she wouldn't give it up to him.
Their divorce was final last week. Also, last week he found out she had been seeing one of his closest friends for about four months. The troll also went for full custody of their daughter.
I've been married for fifteen years. My advice, hard as it is, is back off from her and start paying attention to what she does when she's not around you. Something's up and it may be your marriage.
2007-07-19 12:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be cheating on you, or maybe you did something to turn her off with sex, however the too of you need to talk... somethings very wrong with this picture,and you didn't say if you guys were having sex before you got married, if so she could have had enough of the same old same old... and if talking doesn't do it, you may want to get out of it, or get a chick on the side.......
2007-07-19 12:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are turned on by their minds and hearts... Make her a nice dinner, bring her flowers run her a bath give her a massage and see where that leads.
2007-07-19 13:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is an expression of love. Maybe she can't express this because she isn't in love with you. Ask her?
2007-07-19 12:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just not that into you
2007-07-19 12:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋