You are involved with someone who you love, but haven't been able to spend time with due to many circumstances. This person is in indecision too with what your joint plans are. You continue to ask when you can see each other again and get no answer. In the meantime, you have a friend that is starting to spark an interest in you and that is starting to appeal to you. If the love in you is being pushed away do you decide to try and end things and seek the attention of another who sparks that interest or remain faithful to someone who can't decide whether you will ever see each other again. It's a great tug on the heart.
2007-07-19 05:47:15 · 13 answers · asked by XXXXXX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit down and talk with her ask her what is going on. Tell her you want a truthful answer. Then make your decision
2007-07-19 05:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the person you are currently involved with - relationships need to be grounded in open and honest communication. If they aren't, they won't last. Tell this person you love what the situation is, straight up and honestly. Really, it comes down to you. Are you willing to wait for someone even though it might not work out in the end? Sometimes the answer to that question is yes and sometimes it is no and only you can have that answer.
2007-07-19 12:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Boxing the Stars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go with the one showing interest. thats a sure thing, the other you could waste time waiting for and then not get the answer you want and in the meantime the other person could have moved on
2007-07-19 12:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by just me #1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait around for someone that can't make up their mind. Try this new realtionship....it sounds like u would be able to see this person more often anyway.
2007-07-19 12:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say..........if she can't see you for whatever reason, then you should seek the attention of another who sparks that interest!
Good luck sweets! Major decision!â¥
Bren
2007-07-19 12:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl who can't make plans a time limit - if she can't or won't come up with something by then, end it and move on.
2007-07-19 12:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what happened to my friend
he decided to end the relationship because his girl was to busy with her work. she was rejecting him all the time, so he broke it off. He then started a relationship he knew but wasn't that close to. anyway, he is now glad they are together as he wasn't happy with the girl before.
2007-07-19 12:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER leave the one YOU love for the one YOU like,
cuz the one YOU like will leave YOU for the one THEY love.
and don't listen to the IDIOT on top that said "DECIDE FOR THEM" thats a really bad idea and only starts arguments between two people .
2007-07-19 12:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by mommyAT15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't see you because she is busy with other important stuff, then wait. If it's stupid stuff or no reason given, go.
2007-07-19 12:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by vondalecki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with that guy. Definately decide for them!!!
2007-07-19 12:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋