Is This Beautifull To Anyone. Honest Answers Please! Men and Women.?

Question

Height - 5ft 5"
Weight - 16 Stone
Size - 18/20
Age - 19

Although people say i have a pretty face I just cant see how people find me attractive. As i have said I am 5 ft 5 at 19 years old. I weigh 16 stone and am in size 18/20 pants. 16/18 tops i am a 38G bra. I have stretch marks on my arms , boobs and stomach. Am told all the time that i only look about a size 14/16. So please give me an honest answer as to wether you would ever consider liking some one of that description. Be as nice or nasty as you like. Just be Honest

ok sorry. im fun n bubbly like a good night out. also like to spend time on my own. Can be a laugh to be round but like all women i can be a moody cow. And im in a serious relationship but was just curious

wow you lot are nice :) Personally i would like to be a bit smaller, and have a small home gym set that i use. Was just wondering about what different people liked thats all :)

Answer 1

sounds like me.....

and people are always telling me I am a beautiful woman.

I'm sure you are too.

and our pictures match on here.

Answer 2

I think the answer you are looking for is not if someone else finds you attractive it is DO YOU find yourself attractive. It sounds like you don't...If that is the case then only you can do something about it. I'm not talking about diets...diets alone can not make you lose weight unless you eat extremly small portions and then your metabolism gets all screwed up and you gain all the weight back and more once you stop the diet.

The key is...get out and exerise!!! Ride a bike...run...join a gym...do aerobics. Do all of these things and burn the calories you are taking in. If you are not happy with yourself...how can anybody be happy with you?

Your friends are telling you things they think you want to hear...to help build your confidence. But, only the pride you have about yourself will be able to do that. Start working out and getting into the shape you want to be in...Once you LOVE yourself...everyone will love you.

Answer 3

Why would you open yourself up to the mean and nasty comments that alot of folks make on here. If people say you are pretty or ugly - it does not matter. yes you are large for your height, and at only 19 if this continues will cause you alot of helath problems later on. you are young - do something about it now - work out or just eat better and move around more. but lots of guys like bigger girls too. if you feel good that is what counts. about the stretch marks - use cocoa butter to fade them abit or maderma.
have more faith and confidence in yourself.

Answer 4

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder my dear. Its the inner you not the outer you although some people don';t look at it that way. I myself believe its what comes from the heart not the looks. Looks help but its the real you that really counts. How do you feel about yourself? Do you like yourself? If yes then don't worry about what the other people may be saying to you if its not good. Like I said "Beauti is in the eye of the beholder" I can thank my mama for that saying.

Answer 5

16 stone and 5 ft5 is clinically obese. It might look okay because your a teenager but once you hit your mid 20's it's downhill. Honestly if someone finds you attractive who are you to say they are wrong. Get some confidence, start going to the gym concentrate on college and before you know it you'll be on answers bitching about your bf.

Answer 6

Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has different tastes and we're all beautiful. It's society that puts the pressure on that if you're not thin you're a nobody.
If people would quit believing in this and open their eyes to what really counts in life we'd all be better off.
You're beautiful and don't let anyone else tell you differently!

Answer 7

You know Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think according to the standards of what's considered beautiful in regards to bodies...probably not. But, just your physical dimensions in only one part many different things that make a person beautiful.

First of all when describing yourself, describe other aspects of you as well...your personality, your energy level, your values, your hobbies, your demeanor, your attitude, your education, your goals....the accumulation of all this equals various levels of beauty that go beyond skin deep.

And if it's just a "beautiful face" that is a highlighted feature, be gracious and thankful for those compliments. Try not to trip on the exterior so much, if people think your attractive you probably have other good qualities to go with that.

The stuff you don't like about yourself, go deep withing yourself and work on them with ambition and tenacity, and the stuff you like about yourself, "accentuate" them so they shine.

Most important, accept yourself as you are all parts of you those attractive parts and the not so attractive parts....accept all of you....and know within yourself that you as a whole....and beautiful and wonderfully made!

Take care and God Bless!

Answer 8

i have found that size only matters to those who are selfish and egotistical. i dont know anything about stones except they are a pretty good band . i am attracted to a womans self confidance. and her sexuality, her passion , and her skills. i've dated some pleasantly plump woman and i usually like the fact that there is more to wrestle with. oh yeah g. that must be one heck of a cup.

Answer 9

Honestly, a pretty face is what I'd need to see. Then it's all about personality. Everything you've described (except age) is taken into consideration, but is not a priority.

Answer 10

The beauty is inside a person's heart and soul, not the exterior.

Answer 11

2 b honest, inner beauty is d best. so wat if ur figure is as fabulous as Angelina Jolie but u have d worst title as a homewrecker?( An example) Try 2 find out from specilists about your problems(stretch marks) as tis problems can b solve.