Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

What can I do to knock my husband off his feet (sexually) when he walks in the door tonight after work? What turns you on (men) or what do you do to drive your man crazy (women). Just looking for some new ideas that I haven't tried already.

2007-07-19 16:02:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you hate it or doesnt it bother you when other men call you baby,sweetie,honey,babe,etc..I hate when other men call me those names..The only man i like calling me those names is my husband.

2007-07-19 16:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ""wife"" of 4 years and I have been having some problems that weve been tyring to work out. It started out @ her jobs christmass party she went with some females co-workers to this so called christmass party.which I had no problem with I actually thought it was a good Idea till she came home @ 3am with some man who dropped her off. I didnot react that night for common sence reasons"anger" spoke to her the next day
she swares she did nothing wrong he just gave her a ride home a couple of weeks later she get diamond earing from him and throws it in my face I felt i shouldnt have had to ask her to return them thas just a matter of respect anyway I found out later she was having lunch with this dude finally I left she calles me @ my job to tell me that she is 6wks pregnant by this dude who is married w/6kids oviously im getting a divorce "adultry" she has not told him yet. her family told me that things like this happen get over it they think that Im vendictive "I am when provoked""

2007-07-19 16:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a few weeks ago, he's very attractive we've been a few places together, but i think all he wants is sex, he's been over to my place and we've slept in the same bed together, but we didn't have sex even though he tried. I went to his place and spent the night, and the next day he was upset with me, i'm thinking it's because we didn't have sex. Am I leading him on or something by sleeping in the same bed with him? I want him to respect me first before we reach that level of having sex

2007-07-19 16:02:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe a resident from Los Angeles California

2007-07-19 15:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by Guess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so I've noticed that many people on here have strong beliefs about sex before marriage and tend to put others down when they admit to having sex in their teens or before marriage. I want to know why the majority of people here feel that they are the "right" ones [morals/religious beliefs/etc.] and that the people who have engaged in sex before marriage are "wrong". My question: why do you feel the need to lable people as "bad/wrong/dirty" if they have had sex before marriage.

Before you dismiss this question can you please for one day think outside of yourself and see from another point of view. That's all I really ask. Just one day.

2007-07-19 15:59:17 · 10 answers · asked by Liar. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy has been my friend since I was in 3rd grade. There was a group of 4 of us at church and we've been best friends for almost a decade now. One of them used to go to my highschool and we were best friends, but he went to Germany because his parents were missionaries. When my best friend moved to Germany my close friend moved into his house. He started going to my school and I left all my old friends to make him feel welcomed. By doing this I permanetely lost touch with my old friends, and I'm starting to hate my close friend. I have such a huge grudge on him. He does whatever he can to purpously make me angry, and theres a look he gives that makes me want to shoot his foot. I can't imagine how my Junior year will be like when I have to hang out with a close friend that I pretty much hate now. I'm so confused on what to do and all my old friends are gone now. Any ideas?

2007-07-19 15:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like my guy isn't so into me anymore. I've tried a lot of diff things. Does any one have any ideas??? Plz I really need some help.

2007-07-19 15:52:27 · 35 answers · asked by sexigrape1020 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife tells me that I get PMSy when we have not had sex for over a week. Does anyone else get that way?? She thinks I am nuts.

2007-07-19 15:50:18 · 26 answers · asked by s f 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can I make a statement?

Men care so damn much about breast size, and weight size, and yadda yadda, when many of them look awful, and we still love them. Why? Why is what Im asking. Women are nagged to be easy ( why cant we be "easier") and crave sex more and act upon our desires. CAUSE WE GET FUDGIN PREGNANT THATS WHY.

I just dont get it. I have to wake up every morning and look in the mirror and know that I will not get much of any kind of attention from a guy because A.) I have just making it to size B boobs.. and B.) I wont jump in bed with you right away. I wont get many compliments unless I am pam anderson and I come off easy. While yet, a guy who cracks a joke, makes me laugh, and smiles alot turns me on? Why? Why is it that I am (WOMEN ARE actually) so easy to impress? FACE IT. We are.

All Im saying is... why the hell are guys such assholes sometimes? Cant you just make it a little easier on us? Jesus christ.

2007-07-19 15:49:29 · 33 answers · asked by sacalovesme 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering. My shower is this weekend and I am wondering if anyone used the registry? Is it cheating if I look now?? I mean I won't know who got me what right.... What do you think. I have never been to a shower before so this will be my first and I am so excited and I don't know I guess I want to look. Some one tell me not to!! LOL just kidding. Let me know what you did thoe. Thanks

2007-07-19 15:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by Krystal 2 in Weddings

This guy I have had a crush on for a few months finally asked me out after pressure from me and a couple of people from work. For about two months he never took me any place or even called. I broke up with him right before I went on a month long vacation. When I came back I was told by friends at work that he was going to ask me out again, but he never did. What are the chances that this guy is going to ask me out? He was my first boyfriend so to speak and I don't like any other guys, so its not like I can just move on without a second thought.

Please help me!!!

2007-07-19 15:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by Andy 3 in Singles & Dating

would you like to marry someone who has a standard or someone who just do "whatever" he/she desire?

when you put your money on a bank, which bank you think will protect you (money) the most, the one with strong ethics and standard and fear the state Law? or the one that just go with what they desire it's right regardless what the state law says?

2007-07-19 15:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend hangs out with his friend who is a girl way too much. He sees her more than he sees me. He says that there is nothing going on, but I feel that he has feelings for her. I feel as if he cares more for her than he does for me. Am I overreacting? Am I wrong to ask him to end the friendship?

2007-07-19 15:42:52 · 21 answers · asked by Christine S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 15:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by d 1 in Singles & Dating

can you please help me ?
My mom and dad have been together for fourteen years and now my dad told my mom (shes not working but she has to watch me) that his money is not hers and as soon as Jonathan (me) goes to college you will get a job and i want to be nice to danny and kelly (his children from a previous relationship) and everytime you get in the way (mom)

Now i really dont know what to do my mom wanted to leave yesterday but she had no where to go to so she came back (it was early morning so we hadnt noticed

my mom just might leave at any moment now and i dont know what to do and i dont think a normal teenager should go through this much pressure and im not sure i can do anything and im crying right now and if she does leave i dont know if i should go with my mom or dad because my dads not all that great and my mom really cares about me but my dad has pretty much everything i know

2007-07-19 15:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by rasengan609 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like porn, I like nude photos. I don't care for strip bars. I look at women and think, "Oh my God I'd like to....." When it comes down to my wife of thirteen years, I could care less. Am I wierd? Is there something wrong with me? I know it's all in my head. When I have sex, I like it, but I just don't want to get into it. Once I am into it, I am into it. Any suggestions?

2007-07-19 15:35:58 · 24 answers · asked by richard r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WE HAVE OUR BABY NEPHEW OF 1 YEAR LIVING WITH US IN GOA.
HOW CAN WE GET LEGAL GAURDIANSHIP OF HIM.
HIS PARENTS ARE WILLING TO SIGN ALL PAPERS GIVING US TOTAL RESPONSIBILITY OF HIS CARE.
THE BABY WAS BORN IN WEST BENGAL, THE PARENTS (MY NEPHEW & WIFE) BOTH STILL LIVE IN W.B

2007-07-19 15:30:29 · 6 answers · asked by CHILLIESGOA 1 in Family

I have a 14 year old an 11 year old, a 9 year old and a 15 year old. However, the 14 year old is extremely immature. Sometimes I find it hard to belive he is 14. He acts like the 9 year old. So, in your opinion, what should the bedtimes for them be?

2007-07-19 15:29:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

And how did you resolve it?

2007-07-19 15:24:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hi could you right me a birthday message and star me for good luck thank you xxxxxxxx

2007-07-19 15:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by <3...lessthanperfect...</3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going to a family reunion this weekend. I'll see some family I haven't seen in 25 to 30 yrs. Should I feel guilty if I don't act extatic about seeing some of them, and choose to leave early and go home??? I really am looking forward to seeing my extended family, but, I just don't want to spend two or three days with them. Thanks. :)))

2007-07-19 15:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by jorst 4 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend and I have been dating for about 4 months now. Things were going great until a few weeks ago. He was acting really distant, so I gave him some space, and he later told me that he doesn't know what he wants. He says he wants to be close to one person, but at the same time, he also wants freedom to "float", as he put it. We are really close, and I really like him, and I think he wants to have a relationship with me beacause he's liked me since the beginning of the year, but he's kind of scared because his past girlfriends always leave him or break his heart. How can I show him he means a lot to me and that I'd like to have a relationship with him?

2007-07-19 15:14:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy at work and 3 weeks ago i asked him out to a ballgame, he said he would think about it but didn't want me to think bad. so i finally toughend up today and asked him for his answer. (since the games in 3 days).
he said "nah, i shouldn't" and kept on walking ... I just said, "that's cool thanks anyways" ..
What kind of answer was this? what did it mean. since when are men so concerned about a girl taking things bad?? his friends say he doesnt have a gf.

I was SUPER embarrased for asking, i felt like scum. i didnt think men could be like this.. i dont care if he only went for the tickets, i just wanted his company for atleast one evening. now i dont know what to do. I cant take him out of my mind, I dont think i will ever conversate with him after this but i dont know if i should keep being nice to him or should i turn mean and let him see how bothered i am..

please help i'm confused..

2007-07-19 15:09:47 · 4 answers · asked by Rodriguez #57 2 in Singles & Dating

His wife wants to move to another state& take his kids ages 13&15.He is the only provider for the family& she has major health issues.He has a very good job& can't be transferred.Is there any legal resource to stop her from taking the kids until either separation papers or divorce is filed?Is there something like a temporary order to prevent her from taking them until it goes before a judge?He does not have very much time to find out what he can do.Is there a legal society to seek advice? If any of you have any knowledge of the law(State of TX.)for this situation?If so we apreciate your help.He has nowhere to turn for answers. THX so much for any info!

2007-07-19 15:05:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so me and this girl liked each other and I used to like her a lot but she started being a flirt with other guys so I started not to like her as much. This was 2-3 weeks ago. So I asked her if she would go out with me and we always went in circles about why or why shouldn't we go out and finally just dropped it. Then she out of the blue says she wants to go out with me. People have been calling her easy and stuff like that so I think that she is using me to shed her reputation.

What do you think?

2007-07-19 15:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by Devan! 5 in Singles & Dating

why is it that attractive girls never date ugly guys?ive seen attractive girls with older average guys probably cause they have money

2007-07-19 15:04:22 · 40 answers · asked by jist555 1 in Singles & Dating

I bet you cannot. :)

2007-07-19 15:02:49 · 19 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

Complementary question:
Why and when the people is forced to lie?

2007-07-19 15:01:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

one of my friends and i got in a big fight and she has told every one and showed them the conversation ... even though i didnt do anything mean to her ... she exagerates about stuff i didnt say or turns my words around ....and now all of my friends say they hate me and i am a mean girl ... i have said sorry but they say "save it for some one who cares" what should i do ???

2007-07-19 15:01:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends