This guy I have had a crush on for a few months finally asked me out after pressure from me and a couple of people from work. For about two months he never took me any place or even called. I broke up with him right before I went on a month long vacation. When I came back I was told by friends at work that he was going to ask me out again, but he never did. What are the chances that this guy is going to ask me out? He was my first boyfriend so to speak and I don't like any other guys, so its not like I can just move on without a second thought.
Please help me!!!
2007-07-19 15:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by Andy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remember how miserable you were for two months. You cant teach a old dog new tricks. He is what he is and dont fool yourself. MOVE ON!
2007-07-19 15:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by renee l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that if someone really wants you then they will make the effort. Remember he was the one that didn't call you and take you out for a few months. Do you really want to put yourself out there and, perhaps, be hurt again? He needs to earn your trust and respect and, in my opinion, he has flunked the test. I would, personally, move on. If he comes back do not be a doormat. Be strong. He must earn his way back into your life. Believe me, he will respect you more for it in the end.
2007-07-19 22:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can't always believe what u hear hun u need to just sit back and if he likes u he will come for u (i mean there a boy i really liked and he likes me as friends but my sis pressured him into dancen with me) i mean u like him so much ur gonna get ur heart broke bcuz he doesn't really like u if hes pressured into it play it kool and see how things go also try to talk to him that way u guys can find out more about each other and u can get closer and who knows he may fall in luv with u
2007-07-19 22:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by helpfull lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - give it a rest. The more this poor guy gets pressured, the less you will ever see of him. If it's right, he'll come around. If it wasn't, at least you weren't wasting your time.
2007-07-19 22:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Micki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes are crushes, but relationships are relationships--people shouldn't be forced or pressured into them. If they're meant to be then they are, and if not, they're crushes.
Stinks. Trust me, I've felt the burn too.
2007-07-19 22:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Avillie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ya go. Poop in the well, then go back for another drink.
Move on. There are many other guys out there.
2007-07-19 22:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by HandsomeAnd47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of waiting his response y not u go straight forward n ask him directly?if he's really serious about u he should do or show something to u unless he's a coward.good luck.
2007-07-19 22:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to wait for little crumbs of attention. I wouldn't care. Move on.
2007-07-19 22:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, just talk to him about it. he is obviously shy, so you have to go to him. ask him out. guys like that kind of stuff, especially if they are shy. i would know, being shy myself
2007-07-19 22:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Winners never quit and quitters never win.
2007-07-19 22:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋