This guy has been my friend since I was in 3rd grade. There was a group of 4 of us at church and we've been best friends for almost a decade now. One of them used to go to my highschool and we were best friends, but he went to Germany because his parents were missionaries. When my best friend moved to Germany my close friend moved into his house. He started going to my school and I left all my old friends to make him feel welcomed. By doing this I permanetely lost touch with my old friends, and I'm starting to hate my close friend. I have such a huge grudge on him. He does whatever he can to purpously make me angry, and theres a look he gives that makes me want to shoot his foot. I can't imagine how my Junior year will be like when I have to hang out with a close friend that I pretty much hate now. I'm so confused on what to do and all my old friends are gone now. Any ideas?
2007-07-19 15:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Apologize for what?
2007-07-19 15:58:42 · update #1
Make new friends by getting involved in a club or group or something. That way you can hang out with them and phase out this friend that you apparently hate.
2007-07-19 15:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to eventually gravitate further away from him. Join a group or an extracurricular activity this year, its a terrific way to make friends (I was actually in the similar situation you were in, only my senior year. Up until junior year I hung out with a certain group of people and eventually began to date one of them who cheated on me while everyone else knew what was going on. I vowed that I would make different, better friends and I did by joining theatre.)
If your friend intentionally makes you mad, he's not really a friend. You can choose to keep in contact with him every once in a while, just try to distance yourself.
2007-07-20 00:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by mymacbookisahorcrux ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to be friends with this guy forever..so you might as well tell him to move on now! He'll find other friends and so will you. Don't ruin your Junior year just b/c you think you need to be nice to him. Being honest with him is the best policy!
2007-07-19 23:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend, please know that for a good guy like you there is no new and old friends. If you are loving, concerned, ego less, humble and celebrate someones victory, good friends will be added to your friends' circle amazingly. Hatred leads to distruction and hence love your friend as yourself. Then you see the change. Wish u all the best.
Joe
2007-07-23 06:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by JOE T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats Life!! Be a man call your old friends and tell them your sorry if you hurt there friendships with you,and tell them you want to hang with them again,like old days.Simple and if they refuse,then they were never your true friends. in the first place
2007-07-19 23:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by beneryberlecco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hate him he isnt a close friend. just find other people to be friends with.
2007-07-19 23:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appologise
2007-07-19 22:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋