Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

im 15 and i havent seen my grandma for 2 weeks and i miss her. she never calls me. when i call, there is no answer. she is always busy. she is very popular and always hanging with her friends. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help! this is going to be another day wasted! btw her name is nancy. i left her a message a few days ago and she still wont call me back. she is in town. my parents wont help me. i cant remember what house she lives in. so dont tell me to personally visit her. i never go this long without hearing from her. i cant mail her. what should i do? tomorrow is wasted. everyone keeps turning me down. i need my grandma more than ever. i miss her hugs and kisses. she wont return my calls. i usually see her once a week. she isnt sick. i cant stop crying. i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so bad. i need her in my life. she is the best thing that has ever happened to em. <333. what should i do? it hurts so bad!

2007-07-19 16:46:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend love sme very much it bothers me sometimes that we have very little if anything in common, i asked him if it ever bothers him he said he never thought about it, it has never been a problem or anything for him,

i am suprised he has never givne it much thought why??

he doesnt think about things as much as i do, my minds always going and im not sure why, he is very sweet to me and loves me alot hes not good with words though lol idk why the interests thing is more of an issue for me than it is him i wonder why hes never given any thought to it?

2007-07-19 16:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my best guy friend hang out almost everyday and he calls me everyday. He says that we are too good of friends to go out with each other, but I want to tell him how I feel. How should I go about doing this? By the way, I am 17, if that matters.

2007-07-19 16:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by the mentalist 4 in Singles & Dating

I know I'm not lying to him about it, But when I asked him how he felt he said "What are u a counselor" and got off. I tried to call him to straighten things out. Then, he told his bro to tell me he died. Plz answer.

2007-07-19 16:39:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I seriously want to stay over at least one night at my boyfriend's house.. But my parents wont let me!!! :@ We've been going out for almost 2 years.

2007-07-19 16:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by Zimbie 1 in Family

Im not liking my lawyer. I do not trust him where i believe he
is not doing things the easy way. He answers my questions
in cirlcles avoiding anything that would make since. I want to fire him but not before hiring a new one where how do I address this. First step???

2007-07-19 16:35:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for songs that are "hip" and young and fun. I want it to be slow but with a little flair.
I like
311 love song
u2 all i want is you
things along that line.
Oh and I am not really into country but i love Shania Twains forever&always as well.
Ideas and comments please!!!
Thanks!

2007-07-19 16:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

Okay, so there's this boy, and we talk alot, even though I do most of the talking. He's always flirting with me. He's such a sweetie. But he recently found out I was crushing on him, and said he just wanted to be friends. He's a year and a half older than me, and that was part of the reason he didn't want to date me right now. Aside from the fact he has a girlfriend...but i knew that going in. I wish he'd stop flirting with me if he didn't like me that way. I really like him, though. So I had to tell him that it apparently wasn't going to work out this summer and that I'd get over him. and so now we're just friends. But it's truly breaking my heart. He enjoys talking to me and told me a secret. We hang out a lot, and have a bunch in common. Is he interested at all??? Or was he ever??? if he's not, I wish he'd just stop talking with me and flirting.

2007-07-19 16:35:29 · 6 answers · asked by soccer_is_life3053 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I already have my center pieces for my wedding ...they look like a goldfish bowl small but cute inside they have poppurri i believe ...i have a total of 80 long tables...they are combined by twos making 40 REALLY long tables...anyway the center pieces i have are fitting two at each LONG table ...so that is like one at each smaller table ...but in the middle there wont be anything, so i think it will look a bit plain...i am what you can say literally broke right now i really do not have much money to spend no more ..but its until nov so i am willing to save a lil more to add something between each centerpiece...i saw a wedding that had cakes in the middle however im already having wedding cookies...should i had anything else?? or is that more than enough? plz help i want it to look nice ...elegant as much as possible...it was a small wedding but we are up to over 500 guests now so i want them to all be happy...well maybe not all but u know...HELP?

2007-07-19 16:34:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-19 16:34:02 · 8 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is one for you. My daughter comes to me & wants me to pick up her friend from work & take the two of them back to the friends house so my daughter can spend the night with the friend. We pull into the parking lot & I pull in right up front to pick up the friend from her work. I wait..wait some more...I tell my daughter to get out and go get her friend..my daughter refuses. I give her two chances to get out of the car & go get her friend. I see no reason why I should have to wait. I start to leave, my daughter is shocked that I am actually doing this. I ask her again as I continue to drive home...my daughter says..let me call her..so she gets out her cell phone & calls...her friend doesn't answer. I ask my daughter again..are you going to get out of the car? She says that I have no patience. I told her it was rediculous that she wouldnt get out of the car & get her friend.There is NO reason I should have to wait My daughter has done this many times. I drove home. Your thoughts?

2007-07-19 16:31:54 · 19 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Family

life is boring and i am not getting much out of it my friends have mothers that let them do stuff i have one who is too protective over me i mean i am glad she is but she is too protective she wont even let me walk around my block i want a change. something that will make my life different my summer is so borring and it is almost over it was something i was looking forward to and now it is something that i want to end my summer is so borring and the same i wake up watch t.v or play on the computer then go to bed it is always borring and i have nothing to look forward to exept 4 this to end my mom says she has no money to do something fun ( though i know she does) and she says she does not have enough time for me to go swimming. how do i make this summer worth something

2007-07-19 16:31:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-19 16:30:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where he does not want to hang with his dad much anymore and im having a hard time dealing with it. he is my only child and i have had to fight to spend time with him since his mother and i divorced. i knew this day would come but it still hurts alot. how do I deal with this

2007-07-19 16:29:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i cannot get over the women who loved faithfully, now i wish i could be with her again

2007-07-19 16:28:53 · 4 answers · asked by sabah j 1 in Singles & Dating

first of all, we've been seeing each other for 2 years, she has 2 daughters, who love me, but she won't commit. she says she is too busy, which she is. One time she wanted too, but i didnt want too, because i was upset at her about 1 1/2 years ago months ago, now she doesnt want to be my girlfriend, though we still go out, talk everyday, have sex, spend time with family. I just cannot get her to say yes. she has been telling me she doesnt know if she is ready. What can i do? Last week i was hinting at it and she keeps bringing back, how i denied her and was indifferent at her when she wanted it, but come on, how long can a girl hold something over you. But she tells me she feels like she can't anymore ever since i pushed her away back then. But i've been very nice to her treated her daughters so good. My strategy since last week is to flatter her and compliment her, tell her how i feel, a lot of mushy stuff tell her she is beatiful and she is sexy. girls will taht work? any advice

2007-07-19 16:27:47 · 19 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

she didnt even tell me where she was going

2007-07-19 16:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always wanted to go to these asian spas one to find out what the fuss was about.

Would anyone consider my going to one of these parlors as cheating on my wife? I don't plan on getting anything more than a rub/tug, and I don't really feel like that's crossing the line.

I've worked hard this week and just feel like I deserve it.

2007-07-19 16:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 16:22:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so my ex and i got back together like two days ago (it was his decision) after four months apart....this time around he's putting his friends ahead of me...he told me that he writes lyrics for agirl coz he feels inspired by her but he's not in love with her....he also added that she has everything he wants in a girl but he doesn't have feelings for her...is that even possible? and he's also decided to stop smoking coz three of his college mates (all of them are girls) told him to.....am i being too overly possesive and jelous or should i really be worried about his behaviour? or should i hang around a little longer since we've only been together for two days?

2007-07-19 16:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by broken angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 16:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People keep telling me that it's so easy for girls to get a guy to have fun with when you go out of a night, but not for me! If any guys approach me they're not good looking and all the good looking ones don't go anywhere near me, What can i do to get some attention in this area?

2007-07-19 16:17:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats up with husbands/wives coming on here asking how to spice up their sex life..A spouse should know better then some stranger what turns their husband/wife on and if they dont then thats pretty sad.

2007-07-19 16:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you ever get tight agein i mean is thet a way to cause my friend does a lot of guys and she think she is getting loose so i was wondering if there was a way to get tight agein

2007-07-19 16:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I were talking actually arguing. And she grabbed me and kissed me on the mouth. And when I didn't respond she did it again. What does this mean?

2007-07-19 16:12:58 · 3 answers · asked by boo-kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets say you were given an opportunity to decide how you would meet your parner,how would you wish you would meet this person? Just wanted to know your opinions on this. :-)Thanks..

2007-07-19 16:11:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 16:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by d 1 in Singles & Dating

You have a friend and he is going to apply for his divorce and explaining the reasons for his divorce application. What is the basic reason will you accept for his divorce and allow him to apply for the divorce.

2007-07-19 16:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 16 yr old and he has a girl friend. This is a new thing we are experiencing. We also have a 7 year old who looks up to his brother alot. My 7 year old feels neglected by his brother now because all of his time is spent with his girlfriend or on the phone with his girlfriend. When his girlfriend comes over my 16 year old pushes my other son away and it makes my 7 year old feel bad. I understand why my 16 yr old does it and I understand how my 7 yr old feels. I don't know what to say to either of them and make them understand each others feelings. I think family is more important than some girl who might last a month. How do I get my 16 yr to understand his brothers feelings and care about how he feels.

2007-07-19 16:04:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you or would you tell your spouse you cheated? Better yet, do you think you could keep it a secret from everyone with the excepton of your mistress?

2007-07-19 16:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by kas228 2 in Marriage & Divorce